Men are programmed to conquer things. We come with software already installed from the factory that has us compelled to solve things, right wrongs, and stand and fight. It's what makes us such great linear thinkers! We see a problem, we focus on the next steps, we take them, and we conquer. Piece of cake.

Unfortunately, in our male-pattern-thinking, we completely miss the perspectives and emotions of those around us, and how our actions impact them. To call us stubborn and bullheaded is such an easy thing to do when we are in our default mode of "get it done." We don't see the problem with solving the problem... so what's the problem?

Today's episode is about the Hero inside all men and why being a hero makes you an idiot. I'm going to introduce you to your hero, your victim, and your villain so you understand what kind of movie your life really is these days.

The one thing none of us focus on when think think about what we'll be when we grow up, is how we'll look. Maybe that's a good thing. Most Americans simply grow up and get wider, not taller as they age. I'm actually in better shape today than I ever was in high school, but I fell victim to something much more sinister. In honor of keeping things fresh and not-too-grown-up, let's take a minute to talk about something very adult: male pattern baldness.

In this episode, I want to entertain you with the grand story of my journey into and through baldness prevention, care, and acceptance. More importantly, I want to share what it's like to be a 24 year old in a $3000 hairpiece. So have a seat, relax, and let's "comb through this" together. [pun intended]

This episode was recorded with lavalier microphones worn on our lapels at SyncLab Media Studios in Dallas, which was both amazing and left me wishing the sound was a better. To help make sure nothing is missed, I took the time to transcribe everything form out 20 minute interview below.

There's also a video (it is a video studio after all) of the interview with bonus footage and some extras, but it is reserved for the members of The Gentleman's Inner Circle. If you're looking to take your personal development as a man to the next level, I highly recommend you join me today. For a very limited time, membership is significantly discounted. Join today!

In this episode, we'll cover The Gentleman Warrior, and the a few of the nine mantras that go into making your life the best it's ever been. 

Have you ever been minding your own business when suddenly a perfume or cologne wafts through the air and completely captures your attention? Maybe it was a scent that reminded you of that old girlfriend you had back in college. Maybe it reminded you of that guy at the office that smells like he bathes himself in cologne before coming to work every morning. Whatever it is, smell is one of the most powerful senses when it comes to triggering old memories and creating new ones.

Make sure you’re making the right impression with your scent, gentlemen.

Here are FIVE tips to help make sure you know the Right Way to Wear Cologne.

Today, I am on location with my good friend Aimee Bentson. You may remember her from the episode where we discussed the Dos and Don'ts of Online Dating. It was a hit episode, and I thought it would be a good idea to get her take on the modern gent these days.

So today, we are going to cover 5 ways you can become a modern gent – more importantly, a version that is authentic to who you already are. We can all look like modern gentlemen, but some of us don't naturally want to wear a suit and tie... It's about being shamelessly authentic in your style, attitude, and confidence.

Let's get on with the show! A quick note about the audio: We picked up some echo from our location, but I tried to clean up as much as possible. Please enjoy!

When becoming a modern gent, there are 5 huge things you can do to improve yourself and take your presence to the next level. They're all simple but effective. Remember, it's not about completely reinventing yourself overnight; rather, it's about making subtle changes and shifts to evolve into the best version of yourself a little each day.

In a world full of phobias, public speaking is up there at the top – right next to that spider at the end of Arachnophobia. And yet, men and women both dream about absolutely dominating the room with the perfect toast. Many secretly dream of raising a glass and speaking off-the-cuff with such prose that the ladies swoon and someone starts a slow-clap.

It may not go quite as dramatically, but there’s actually a good formula for making sure your toast is remembered for the right reasons, and not because you embarrassed yourself or someone else. Here are 7 keys to help you speak in front of a crowd... especially when you are tasked to give the perfect toast.

With New Year's Resolutions in full swing, I know a lot of us, myself included, can often feel like we're not going to make it happen. We're simply not strong enough to keep up with the willpower necessary to make that big change. We feel stuck... even nine days into the new year.

Sometimes it just takes a few quick things to turn it around for me - the same can be true for you. More often than not, you just need a little perspective reminder of where you are, and how much you've actually done. More importantly, it is an opportunity to be authentic, and notice all the roles you play, the things you do, and who you are in your life.

Gentlemen, this is paramount for you because you often take on more than your fair share (you're the hero, right) and you discount your actions.

Whenever you feel like all your efforts are not making enough change happen, or not happen fast enough, take a few moments to pause. That pause will help you get it together before you decide to throw in the towel. In today's episode, I'll walk you through five secrets to restoring your momentum when you're stuck. Hopefully they help you get back in gear and back on track. It's never too late to get focused and few things are actually lost causes.

Why would you want to know how to fight with your spouse? Because it's a natural part of building a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Marriage in America has become something of a joke. Well, not really a joke – more of a statistical mess. Approximately half of all marriages in the US end in divorce. Clearly, we take commitment very seriously.

There are many reasons marriages end, including:

• adultery (I wanted my cake...and some other cakes too)
• finances (I wanted more cake, but we always fought over our cake budget)
• life goals (She wanted lots of little cakes running around, but I hate cakes)
• sex goals (I like to eat cake and she can't stand it)
• and so many more...

As a relationship coach, I notice communication between people a lot more critically than most. I listen to the words, the tone, and the body language couples use when speaking and/or arguing, and there are several tell-tale signs that a relationship is doomed. Rather than bring you down with all the reasons marriages fail, let's explore how to fight with your spouse without ruining your marriage.

Public Speaking for the Anxious Guy with Julian Placino

The Pathways to Success Podcast is a weekly a show where Julian interviews leaders on business, personal development, health & fitness and many other topics designed to help you find your unique Pathway to Success.

Although there are principles and commonalities of success, everyone has to walk their own path and craft their own story. How you define success might not be how someone else does. That’s why he invites a highly varied group of experts who have succeeded in many different avenues. On the show, he's interviewed CEOs, millionaires, high-level entrepreneurs, bestselling authors, dynamic thoughts leaders, transformation experts and elite level athletes.

In this podcast, we're talking about public speaking and making great first and lasting impressions, even as an introvert. We'll dissect three keys to boosting your speaking acumen, and building the confidence you need to have an impact.

It never ceases to amaze me how brilliant people can opt not to pursue their big ideas because old lessons they've learned are so deeply ingrained. What a tragedy it is to watch someone give up before he or she even begins. Some poor lessons we learned as early as childhood can still haunt us today.

Even in my own business and personal life, I wrestle against lessons I have gleaned from past experience, my parents, friends, teachers, and the media. It's made me realize that more often than not, the biggest obstacle to you having the life or business or love –or whatever– you want actually lives between your ears. That space where your mind is... yeah, that's where old, outdated, frivolous lessons are making rules you're afraid to break.

And you are suffering for it.

Whether you want to launch a business, chase an idea, fall in love, take a risk, or stand up and declare you're worth more than whatever is keeping you stuck, there are lessons you need to unlearn.

In this podcast, I want to introduce you to 7 lessons you need to unlearn right now to start creating the life you want.  I offer this disclaimer though: you may feel some resistance when trying to unlearn these. Push through it. You will be better for it, I promise.