There comes a time in every man's education when he reaches the conclusion that the happiness of those he loves is paramount to his own. It is at this moment that the realness of that man begins to blossom. He becomes more than he's ever been. He becomes a better listener, a better provider (for himself and others), and a driving force for greater, less trivial things.

Unfortunately, men often commit when they're in-love with lust, and in-lust with rom-com love – you know, the kind of love you see in the movies where everything is perfect and hilarious, you're happy, and you're both sexually magnificent. We all want that kind of life, right?

Real life relationships aren't always like that, but they don't have to be "hard work," contrary to what the talking heads on TV would have you believe. Here are 5 tips for improving your marriage – or any serious relationship for that matter.

This is near and dear to me because I know how to handle risk – risk is my copilot. I venture into what-ifs like they're going out of style. I wasn't always that way, and occasionally I'm not as bold or brazen as my brochure would have you believe. Most days I'm ready to take on the world and all its wonder, but because I'm still human, I will have "holy crap, what am I doing" days too. There's no quick fix for all types of risk aversion, but there are a few keys that make it so you know how to handle risk much more effectively.

Life is full of amazing moments and experiences, but we are called to take risks and put ourselves, and what we know about the world, on the line. It can be a huge struggle for a lot of people, but it doesn't have to be. There are a few keys to help you handle risk, and potentially, made it your copilot.

It’s such a cliche to talk about the Best New Years Resolutions, isn’t it? We all know they’re not going stick – well, at least not for the vast majority of us. We’re the same weight and fitness level we were last December, we haven’t made a significantly higher income, that old car is still in the driveway, and we still haven’t manned-up and booked that crazy vacation we know we deserve. So let’s change the game and resolve to do something that’s not only possible, but will provide peace of mind, stress relief, better relationships, and perhaps even motivation to tackle some of the other failed resolutions once and for all.

Introducing the best new years resolution ever:

Stick with me. There’s a method to my madness.

In the grand scheme of things, a few imperfections don’t make a lick of difference. By the same token, being attractive to whomever you’re trying to influence, makes all the difference in the world. Whether it’s a prospective employer, that woman at the office you can’t stop thinking about, or most importantly, your own self-confidence, you want to be attractive. It may seem trivial, but there are some pretty simple things that can change your game forever. Here are eight easy ways to be more attractive:

Take your style and confidence to a new level and take on the day like a true modern gentleman.

Gentlemen, the dating world is getting more complicated and a lack of etiquette can absolutely obliterate your success rate. If you're sending out messages and not getting anything returned, this podcast is for you. If you're wondering what it's like on the other side of the screen, this podcast is for you. If you're ready to step up your online dating game, this podcast is for you.

I am joined by the beautiful, talented, hilarious, Aimee Bentson of Avyn Apparel [@aimeebentson & @avynapparel ](among many other things), and she's here to help you know what it's like to be on the receiving end of your message. She'll shed some light into why they go unanswered, some secrets to landing a date, and what the ladies are looking for in your profile.

Take your style and confidence to a new level and hit the online dating scene like a true modern gentleman.

Every man, whether he's super successful or the fry cook at the local fast food joint, wants to have more confidence. Often, they're looking for some way to get an edge and stand out in a crowd... for all the right reasons. In this show, I'm going introduce you to my 10 killer ways to boost your confidence without spinning your wheels. No gimmicks, no products to buy, no audio programs to download and listen to every night. This is straight-up, no filler.

Take your style and confidence to a new level and take on the day like a true modern gentleman.

It's that time of year again, where companies cut loose and hold holiday parties to reward their employees for jobs well done, and to celebrate the season. Many men find themselves making mistakes and leaving a poor taste in their wake. This is an opportunity to step up your game, gentlemen, and I have 5 easy ways you can take it to the next level this holiday season.

Take your style and confidence to a new level and hit the company party like a true modern gentleman.