Today our guest is none other than So Cal Legend Jay Clark.

He Grew up in logging town In Oregon and upon graduation decided to move to california.

Jay  has been in the Line Trade for 33 years and is currently the superintendent at Wilson Construction. He has 3 kids,  2boys and one preciouse little girl with his wife going on 9 years of marriage.

Jay has been there done that. He is what i would call manly man. and that is why i brought him on this podcast , to encourage men to step up into their roles as Husbands, fathers, leaders and mentors.

In this Episode we discuss:

🔺Having Mentors and there importance.

🔺Trying to make things happen versus

🔺Loving People and giving people down on there luck a hand up.

🔺Ego, Pride, Great Linemen, horrible Dads, Husbands.

🔺Getting rid of booze to become better.

🔺Getting older and having the realization of what matters,(family)

🔺God doesn't care what the Sag looks like in heaven.

🔺what is missing in the industry, in the world.

🔺Men need to Stand up and stop sending our wives to a battle we should be facing.

🔺Transgender movement targeting our youth, and how men can become involved.

🔺IF not ME than WHO?

This was an amazing episode more like a call to action for our nation and our industry.

"As the family goes, so goes the Nation" Fathers get involved, stand up.

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Todays Guest is none other than Journeyman Lineman Paul Mejia.

He was Born  and raised in East LA graduated from Sheur high school in Montebello, Ca.

He  Went to prison when he was 19 and got out when he was 25. He is the father of 2 daughters, Justine and Jade both in college now .

🔺In this episode Paul and I talk about Him growing up in East LA with a single mom.

🔺Having his mom fervently and tirelessly try to raise him right.

🔺Hanging out with the wrong crowd, and how it ultimately cost him his freedom.

🔺Becoming a 38 year old apprentice and having a chip on his shoulder.

🔺Not being an absent father, but being a harsh father and the dynamic that has created

with his daughters.

🔺The Guilt we carry as fathers over what wa said, or done.

🔺Our daughters dating men like us.

🔺How to give an apology to our kids.

🔥Life Hack🔥 Cant make everyone happy especially

if you are not happy with yourself.

Paul Mejia is a Man who is very transparent and puts it out on the table. No BS with him.

He has a Big heart and wants to do the work to become better.

⚠️With that being said,This Episode was Raw and REAL and some cussing was involved. So be forewarned.⚠️

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🎙️Today we have Paul Petroski he is the co-founder of Evimero Couples. They  help couples create intentional, healthy relationships by teaching them how to develop growth-minded skills to break the cycle of conflict.

In this episode we discuss:

🔺Identifying patterns in our marriage to see if healthy or not.

🔺Identifying triggers thru out connection layer and core layers.

🔺How we perceive connection as are you going to be therefore me.

🔺Having damaged core.

🔺The dance in relationships defined as stepping in, and stepping out.

🔺How to mange our emotions when arguing, recognizing the shift.

🔺Having a common language marriage to be able to communicate our wants and needs.

🔺Using curiosity to create an atmosphere for growth.

Talking aout vulnerabilities in marriage and comparing

you reality to social media.

Paul was an amazing guest who really shed light on so many different aspects of conflict in marriage.

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🎙️Todays guest is William Fields, he is a Journeyman Lineman, a father and a mentor to those around him.

From his first drink at the age of five, Williams life has been a journey that some if not most can

relate to. Like the title of his first novel "House of Failure", Fields life had started out with the typical

components that normally lead to failure.

❤️‍🩹Child abuse, juvenile delinquency, gangbanger, and prisoner,

were all patches that he wore by the age of twenty as he served a six year sentence for three

attempted murders in 2001.

Currently, Fields is living out his dreams as a Writer, Power Lineman, And

mentor to those who  need to find their way in life.

In this Episode we discuss:

🔺Growing up in South Central in a single parent home.

🔺Getting involved in the notorious Hoover Gang.

🔺Going to prison and having to change his way of thinking.

🔺Prison Politics.

🔺Letting our kids be kids, We dont need to yell.

🔺Treating others with Respect.

🔺Not Crossing the line as an adult and going into Abuse.

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Our guests on todays episode are Trey and Lea Morgan.

They live in Childress Texas. They here high school sweethearts that married right out of high school and have been married for 34 years. They have four grown sons that age from 33 down to 21. 

They are actively involved in marriage ministry. He and his wife travel all over the US doing weekend workshops for churches called Stronger Marriage workshops where they are blessed to get to speak to thousands yearly about having a stronger marriage. They have authored 3 marriage books, two have become bestsellers. Much of their marriage coaching comes through their social media sites that have half a million followers. They have a bi-weekly podcast called "The Stronger Marriage Podcast." 

IN this episode my Wife and I discuss with them how to have a stronger Marriage.

Topics covered ;

🔺How giving up is not a option.

🔺The importance of making time for each other.

🔺How to work as a team.

🔺Dont Loose our identity in our roles as parents.

🔺Having fun together in marriage.

🔺How men dont take wives seriously until it is to late.

🔺Raising our kids to be able to live life on there own.

🔺Affairs and their destruction, setting boundaries with the opposite sex and on social media.

🔺Dont let Pride unravel your marriage.

🔺Absence does not make the heart grow fonder.

✨This podcast is made possible thru God, donations and our listeners.

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🔥Today our special Guest is BJ Foster, he has been married to his wife Elizabeth for almost seventeen years and together they raise 2 teenagers.

He is the Director of Content for Family First and All PRO DAD which is a non-profit organization on a mission to provide parenting, marriage and relational truth that helps people love their family well and gives them greater hope for the future. 

On this episode we Discuss the The Importance of a father, our roles, and how we need to stop feeling like we need to have it all together.

🔺He also discusses how we need to stop living out of a deficit and start getting to the root of our problems and stop placating them with vices.

🔺We talk about the future of the traditional family.

🔺How are relationship with our spouse effects our kids.

🔺 The role of a father which is to carry the moral eight and characteristics of the family.

BJ Foster was such and inspiring guest with a wealth of knowledge on the family Dynamic.

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🇺🇸 Adam Lane Smith

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Our Guest  is the founder of Super Human Fathers, a community and program for men who desire to transform their lives in all areas of fatherhood. As a father of 5 and a husband of 20 years, Kyle has been through waves of stress, struggle, and disappointment in his relationships with his kids and family. However, after making several key decisions in his life, to be honest with himself about his actions, he started to see incredible change. Now, his passion in life is helping other men do the same.

In this Great Episode we discuss as Men what it takes to become a Super Human Father, a Show UP Dad.

Topics We discuss:

-As Sons we tend to beat are dads up for things they did or didn't do.

-The inability to connect with other people(getting Weird)

-Breaking thru the Pride crust.

-Marriage is the base of everything, How much effort have you put into it ?

-Having consistent effort to build anything great.

-How you got your spouse is how you keep your spouse.

-A man who cant suffer cannot lead.

-Being neglectful with our spouse and children.

-Our wife is a product of our husbandry.

-Learning to apologize when we make mistakes.

-Using fitness and nutrition as a form of self love.

I am Proud to call Kyle a friend he is an awesome dude who has a big heart and made this episode so much fun.

For information on what we do go to https://linktr.ee/Theshowupdadfoundation

[email protected]

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💍All marriages — even the really good ones — need mending. The routine of jobs, kids, chores, and other commitments can overshadow romance and passion with any husband and wife. As a result, couples can feel disillusioned, or even alone.

That is why we have created this  Marriage series . A platform For Husbands and wives to come on and share what they do to be successful.

✨In this Episode Jennie and I discuss Complacency in Marriage.

✨What Happens in a Mans Thinking.

✨How are parents marriage can effect us for good or bad.

✨Real healing comes from dealing with our conflict.

✨Fighting fair in marriage and How to Hold our spouse accountable.

✨Dealing with addictions and self absorbstion.

✨How to approach our spouse about addictions and setting boundaries.

✨Valuing each other by not placating.

✨Not trying to control the situation thru manipulation and many more.

This was a discussion on how to deal with problems in marriage before they get to bigger.

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🇺🇸 Adam Lane Smith

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🎙️Todays guest in none other than Cory Cordero

💪🏻He is a fitness coach/entrepreneur/father. He has  been in the fitness industry for over 10+ years and loves to help men supercharge their fitness and skyrocket their energy and self-confidence by building a body they are proud of.

He is the proud single father of two boys ( 4 years old and 2 years old)

IN this Episode we discuss: Stress⚡and How to Conquer it thru Action.

🇺🇸According to the Anxiety & Depression Assoc of America,

It’s impossible to eliminate, but you can learn to manage stress, and most people usually do. According to a recent ADAA online poll, some 14 percent of people make use of regular exercise to cope with stress.

🔺Cory talks with us about Mental health and how you can use physical activity to deal with stress as a positive outlet.

🔺He shares with us the difference between Stress and Pressure.

🔺When stress affects the brain, with its many nerve connections, the rest of the body feels the impact as well. So it stands to reason that if your body feels better, so does your mind. Exercise and other physical activity produce endorphins—chemicals in the brain that act as natural painkillers—and also improve the ability to sleep, which in turn reduces stress.

Join us on this this exclusive podcast episode as we unlock what we can do as men to deal with the stress this life brings.

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🇺🇸 Adam Lane Smith

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💍My Wife and I have created this  Marriage series . A platform For Husbands and wives to come on and share what they do to be successful.

Today I am Joined with her to host our guests Casey and Meygan Caston, founders of Marriage365.

✨ They believe nobody should settle for an average marriage! They have devoted their lives to providing resources that teach spouses ❤️‍🩹how to heal, change and become the healthiest person they can be.

Marriage365 offers coaching, retreats, books, marriage intensives for couples in crisis. 

💍They've been married for almost 20 years, have two kids, and live in Southern California. They love going to the beach, playing card games, and enjoy singing along to any musical soundtrack! Visit marriage365.com to learn more.

✨In this episode we tackle 🚫Divorce and How it can lead to regret. How if you want a better marriage, be a better you.

✨How by modeling healthy relationship behavior we can also influence our spouse.

✨How the Culture ( the Soup we are swimming In)is effecting marriage today.

✨How marriage can reveal all sorts of things within ourselves that we have to deal with.

✨Living in a blame culture, Narcissim, and HeartWork❤️‍🩹is Hard work🛠️.

We also discuss how we tend to avoid our issues thru Escape Pods, (social Media)

This is the perfect 💝gift for your spouse, so Sit back , drink some 🍷wine and tune 🎧in to the podcast with your spouse and start investing in your marriage💍 today.

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🇺🇸 Adam Lane Smith

He Is an Attachment Specialist,

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