In this episode we continue to finish up the last chapters of my wife's book "The Light Through the Darkness," and this week it's the last of the "The Tools" that are we speaking on "Give Thanks and Praise."

We talk about what happens AFTER you pray and still find yourself in the waiting period. Where you STILL might not see any change. Where you might look to God and ask "What is taking so long?"

Being in "the wait" is anything but comfortable... and is a place people don't want to be in and especially not when dealing within the trials of marriage. However, our Father in Heaven has given us clear instructions... but we sometimes overlook it and see it as being too "easy." And we then deprive ourselves of the very peace that comes with giving thanks and praise while in the trial.

We pray as you listen to this episode, it will open your eyes to the peace that is waiting for you on the other side of the devastation and pain your are experiencing in the now.

Thank you for listening and God Bless,

Jevonne and Michaelle

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Resources

Michaelle's Book: The Light Through the Darkness

Amazon ~ Apple Books ~ Barnes & Noble Online

(And available everywhere books are sold. ISBN can be looked up by name, author)

All Things Michaelle & Jevonne (including Healing & Mentorship Services)

Social Media: TikTok/IG/YouTube

@michaelleandjevonne

Podcast Music

Song: Vacation (The One)

by Del Travar (Singer/Songwriter/Actor)

IG: @deltravar

Life has been LIFE'n, but now We're BAAAAAAACCCCKKKKK after a year-ish hiatus!

In this episode, we continue with our Journal/Book Series and talk about being calm IN the storm, what "Peace Be Still" means to us and how we implemented it in our life when navigating our darkest trial seven years ago.

We pray this episode gives you evidence that even within the trials of life, you can STILL find peace... if/when you give your cares to the Lord and allow Him to guide your path.

God Bless,

Michaelle & Jevonne

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Resources

Michaelle's Book: The Light Through the DarknessAmazon - Apple Books - Barnes & Noble Online

All Things Michaelle & Jevonne

Social Media

TikTok/IG/You Tube

@michaelleandjevonne

Music

Del Travar (Singer/Songwriter/Actor)

IG: @deltravar

Song: Vacation (The One) by Del Travar

Welcome back to the Show Up & Show Up Podcast!

Simply put in this episode we talk about how happiness is within you! So many times in marriage/relationships we look to our partner to "make us happy" and that thinking sets you up to be let down and disappointed.

You give away your own power when you look outside yourself for happiness. Other people won't and can't "make you happy" 100 percent of the time. That is way too much pressure to put on your spouse/significant other because at some point they are going to miss the mark and let you down, even if they are trying hard not to.

Truth be told "Happiness" comes and goes, but true JOY is a Fruit of the Spirit and is founded in our love for our Savior Jesus Christ and His love for us! You can have JOY even in the darkest of times because His perfect love never fails.

I (Michaelle) learned this very valuable lesson as I was going through some of the darkest times while dealing with the infidelity in our marriage back in the day. And once I learned that true joy and happiness could dwell within me no matter what I was going through, it changed my perspective and expectations on "happiness" tremendously!

We hope this message resonates with those of you struggling with this concept and trying to find happiness amongst the pain you might be going through. If this episode gives you value, we would greatly appreciate you rating it and leaving a review. And if you know someone that would benefit from this discussion please share it with them.

Thanks for listening and being part of our S.E.E. Community (Spiritually Elevated Everything)!

God Bless,

Michaelle & Jevonne

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Resources & Links:

The Light Through the Darkness-

Amazon/Apple/Barnes & Noble

(And can be requested anywhere books are sold)

All Things @michaelleandjevonne-

Our Stan Store

Find us on Social Media-

Tik Tok/You Tube/IG

@michaelleandjevonne

Podcast Music-

Song: Vacation (The One) by Del Travar

Singer/Songwriter/Actor

IG: @deltravar_

In today's episode we are talking about stepping out on faith. We read an excerpt from my journal (Jan 2021), where I'm at my wits end dealing with Jevonne's lies and shenanigans regarding his infidelity. I was struggling with being "still" and called upon my Father in Heaven to SHOW me what I needed to SEE in that moment.

We also read excerpts from the chapter, "Get Out of the Boat" from my wife's book, "The Light Through the Darkness." And I talk about my struggle with getting out of the boat to finally trust God fully, and have faith that He could (and would) love me, forgive me, and show me the grace I needed to lead me out of my own indiscretions and hell I had been living in and putting my wife through.

Having faith and "getting out of the boat" looked different for the both of us... but it was KEY to the transformation that ultimately came to us individually and as a couple for the restoration and renewal of our marriage.

We hope this message resonates with those of you that are struggling with faith and searching for the hope and strength to push forward in the fight to save your marriage.

If this episode resonates with you, we would greatly appreciate it if you would rate and leave a review. And if you know of someone that would benefit from this discussion please share it with them.

Thanks for listening and being a part of our S.E.E. Community (Spiritually Elevated Everything)!

God Bless,

Michaelle & Jevonne

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Resources/Links:

The Light Through the Darkness-

Amazon/Apple/Barnes & Noble

(Also can be requested anywhere books are sold)

All Things michaelleandjevonne-

Our Stan Store

Find Us on Social Media-

Tik Tok/IG/YouTube: @michaelleandjevonne

(Be patient with us as we are just starting our YouTube channel, but please go subscribe so you'll be notified of when we post new videos and soon... New Podcast Episodes!)

Podcast Music-

Song: Vacation (The One) by Del Travar

Singer/Songwriter/Actor

IG: @deltravar_

In today's episode we are talking about the energy you feed. When going through infidelity (or any trial in marriage for that matter) we need to learn how to focus our energy on the things of God rather than allow our thoughts to keep us in a place of negativity and darkness.

Today I will be reading a journal entry that is much different from those that I've read thus far... and the excerpt from my book, "The Light Through the Darkness" gives more detail on how what we focus on we get more of. When we sit in the "muck" and allow our thoughts to focus on the negativity, we will continue to stay stagnant rather than progress forward. And one thing is for sure, the adversary loves to bring us more pain and negativity.

We pray this episode will help those of you that find yourselves sitting in the negative space in your mind, dwelling on and replaying the negative thoughts, will find your way out by focusing on the light our Savior Jesus Christ can provide-- even while sitting in the darkness.

Michaelle & Jevonne

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Resources/Links:

The Light Through the Darkness-

Amazon/ Apple/ Barnes & Noble

(Also can be requested anywhere books are sold)

All Things michaelleandjevonne-

Our Stan Store

Find Us on Social Media-

Tik Tok/IG/YouTube:

@michaelleandjevonne

(Be patient with us y'all we are just starting our YouTube channel, but go Subscribe so you'll be notified of when we post new videos and soon...New Podcast Episodes!)

Podcast Music-

Song: Vacation (The One) by Del Travar

Singer/Songwriter/Actor

IG: @deltravar_

In today's episode, it's all about letting go and letting GOD fight your battles!

It's easy to "say" that we're going to let go and let God handle it, but it's a whole different ballgame when you start putting the words to action. It's not as easy as it seems and takes consistent faith to really let go.

I'll be reading an excerpt in the section "Letting Go" from my book, "The Light Through the Darkness," and a journal entry from January 2021 when I realized how to finally give everything over to God, take the focus off my husband, and solely start to focus on me. Because that is the only way that you will truly be able to start the healing process and completely let go.

We hope this episode resonates with those of you working towards rebuilding trust and praying for restoration in your marriage. We know how hard it can be, but please know if you really want to save your marriage it CAN be done- with God all things are possible!

Michaelle & Jevonne

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Resources/Links:

The Light Through the Darkness-

Amazon: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessamazon

Apple: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessapple

Barnes & Noble: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessBN

(Also can be requested anywhere books are sold)

All Things michaelleandjevonne:

https://stan.store/michaelleandjevonne

Find Us On Social Media:

Tik Tok/IG/YouTube- @michaelleandjevonne

(Be patient with us y'all we are just starting our YouTube channel)

Podcast Music:

Song: Vacation (The One) by Del Travar

Singer/Songwriter/Actor

IG: @deltravar_

Today we're going to show you a little more about what healing "looks like" as we read another entry from my journal (2021) and an excerpt from my book, "The Light Through the Darkness" where I talk about how I learned to "Fight the Right Way."

In this episode I share my real feelings around "being enough" and my fears as to if Jevonne would ever choose to "change" in order to save our marriage.

We talk about how sometimes being SILENT and STILL is the ultimate clap back! And how I chose to move when others tried their hardest to come in between us, destroy all that we had built together and what we were working hard to repair.

We hope what we share in this episode will help those of you going through something similar and show you that anything is possible with God!

If you both put Him first, ask Him to fix what's broken, proceed to do the work, then give it over to Him... He will be in the background working it out for your good- even when you don't SEE or FEEL Him working.

As always, thanks for listening and if our Podcast resonates and provides you with value, please rate, leave a review and share it with others!

God Bless,

Michaelle & Jevonne

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Show Resources/Links:

The Light Through the Darkness

Amazon: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessamazon

Apple: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessapple

Barnes & Noble Online: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessBN

All Things MichaelleandJevonne:

https://stan.store/michaelleandjevonne

Social Media:

Tik Tok: @michaelleandjevonne

IG: @michaelleandjevonne

Podcast Music-

Song Featured: Vacation (The One) by Del Travar (Singer/Songwriter/Actor)

IG: @deltravar_

*Podcast Available On- Apple, Spotify, and Amazon Music/Audible

In today's episode we're reading another journal entry from January 2021, as well as sharing an excerpt from my wife's book, "The Light Through the Darkness."

We'll be talking about the "The Lessons" she was given from God and the whisper she received from the Holy Spirit that said, "It's Not About You" and the clarity it gave her in that moment to see our situation from a completely different POV.

We hope listening to our raw conversation about that devastating time in our life (now 5 years removed) will resonate with you, give you guidance, and clarity in your marriage/relationship. And we hope this episode helps you to see that it's okay to get real and raw in talking about your relationship in order to unpack what is "really" going on behind the issues you might be experiencing.

As always, thanks for listening and if our Podcast resonates and provides value to you, please rate, leave a review and share it with others!

God Bless,

Jevonne & Michaelle

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Show Resources/Links:

The Light Through the Darkness:

Amazon: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessamazon

Apple: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessapple

Barnes & Noble Online: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessBN

All Things MichaelleandJevonne:

https://stan.store/michaelleandjevonne

Tik Tok: @michaelleandjevonne

IG: @michaelleandjevonne

Podcast Music:

Singer/Songwriter/Actor: Del Travar

IG: @deltravar_

Song Featured: Vacation (The One) by Del Travar

*Podcast Available On -Apple, Spotify, and NOW Amazon Music/Audible

It's 2024 and we're back!!

We know it's been a minute, but we had to take a step back from recording our podcast to focus on our family... because life be LIFE'n y'all!

We are so excited for this season!

We'll be diving into the archives of my wife's journal writings during the time of my infidelity and talking about ALL the feels, as well as my warped mindset back then. And we'll also be reading excerpts from my wife's book, "The Light Through the Darkness" to peel back the layers of her pain, devastation, healing, and increasing faith in God during that time.

This season will be the rawest and realest yet, and we invite you to come along with us on our amazing ride from devastation to THRIVING in our marriage!

Jevonne

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Show Resources & Links:

The Light Through the Darkness-

Amazon: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessamazon

Apple: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessapple

Barnes & Noble: https://bit.ly/thelightthroughthedarknessBN

All Things MichaelleandJevonne-

https://stan.store/michaelleandjevonne

Music-

Singer/Songwriter/Actor: Del Travar

Instagram: @deltravar_

Song: Vacation (The One) by DelTravar

Podcast Available On- Apple, Spotify, and NOW Amazon Music/Audible