The Soft Shoulder Podcast

No music? No problem! Danette embraces imperfection by recording this personal message for you while cooking pasta in her kitchen. If you are in a fog and having a hard time finding your way out, listen in. May this episode be a tiny flashlight helping you move closer to your own light.

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Hey Hey Paula! You’re an awesome human deserving of love, romance and respect no matter what. This podcast is to help you reflect on what you want from relationships, while kindly inquiring where you got that desire from in the first place. What changes when you make yourself your primary partner? Are you a rebel when it comes to love?

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After over 20 years of self marriage, Danette can tell you how deciding to be in a conscious, committed relationship with herself helped her move through breakups and become more of herself in the process.

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Whether you like it or not, you’re already in a lifelong relationship with yourself. Literally, till death do you part. If you look at your relationship with yourself as a marriage, how would you say it is going? This episode is a guided reflection on what your #couplegoals could be for yourself. Yours is a marriage that can be saved – it can even be the adventure of a lifetime.

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At least, not as complicated as we might be making it seem. At least, just as complicated as loving anyone at all.

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In celebration of Danette’s new book Crash Bloom: a creative guide for growing through your breakup (just in time for Valentine’s Day) this episode offers a reminder that sometimes we all need a little cocoon time in our lives. Not just when healing from a breakup. If you need a little hope that your wings are coming soon and they just might be glorious, listen in.

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Finally ready to face that decluttering project that has been looming in your subconscious? Feeling the new-year-new-energy feels and have the urge to make some changes in your living space? BUT – you aren’t sure where to start and you don’t have time to read the (maybe?) hundreds of books Danette has read on this topic? This is your episode for keeping-it-real inspiration, seriously helpful guidance all with the humour and self-love energy that you come to the Soft Shoulder for. Put this on while you do a Declutter-Putter, or for some excellent journaling prompts to set you up for success.

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It’s been a minute! Danette emerges from her unexpected and unannounced break to share where she’s at and let things get a little weird. This is the last episode of 2023 – may you remember how loved you are as you bring this year to a close. Thank you so much for listening and allowing the Soft Shoulder Podcast to be a part of your listening life.

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Feel like you don’t remember who you are? How long has it been since you’ve really touched base with that most loving and wise part of you? Just like a marriage that has gone stale, your relationship with yourself can sometimes seem to fade without you realizing it. Even if you’ve been married to yourself for 22 years!

Join Danette for a 5-day experiment starting October 2nd and let her guide you back home to your own voice through this simple yet powerful writing practice – a skill you can use for the rest of your life.

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All that wonderful advanced reading you’ve been doing about dating and relationships and compatibility…could it be working against you? Sometimes all that personal growth wisdom can suck us into scrutiny as we try to “not waste our time”. But do you even like this person? Listen in as Danette helps you zoom way out and get an optimistic perspective.

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