I've long said that verbs are the beating heart of great writing, but this book pushed my love of verbs into an obsession.

Today I’m joined by Pulitzer Prize-winning dance critic Sarah L. Kaufman to discuss her newest book, Verb Your Enthusiasm: How to Master the Art of the Verb and Transform Your Writing. 

We explore how precise, expressive verbs can bring your writing alive—creating movement, conveying emotion, sharpening meaning, streamlining wordy sentences, and expressing your unique voice.

Plus, we geek out about some of our favorite verbs—and some of our favorite writers who know exactly what to do with them.

You'll learn:

• The science behind why certain verbs can make us feel differently as readers
• Why action verbs unlock vivid setting descriptions
• How to use verb to reveal emotion without naming it
• Why passive voice and adverbs deserve more nuance than you probably learned in English class
• How paying attention to verbs can strengthen your voice

Sarah’s enthusiasm for language is truly contagious, I and love the way she encourages writers to trust their intuition even as they hone their craft. 

So the next time your writing feels flat, trust that instinct and then return to the tips in this episode—and in Sarah’s fantastic book—to help you find the perfect verb to infuse texture and meaning into your prose.

Mentioned in this episode:

• The Art of Grace by Sarah L. Kaufman
•  The Sound and the Fury by William Faulkner
• Swing Time by Zadie Smith
•  The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood
•  The Gathering by Anne Enright
• To the Lighthouse by Virginia Woolf
• The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
• The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison
• What We Can Know by Ian McEwan

Purchase Sarah’s new book: Verb Your Enthusiasm: How to Master the Art of the Verb and Transform Your Writing

Connect with Sarah at www. sarahlkaufman.com. 

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Sometimes the fastest way toward a better book is to let yourself write a bad one.

In this episode, I’m joined by Hayley Milliman—author, editor, and Director of Community at ProWritingAid, one of the world’s largest communities for creative writers—who recently finished the first draft of her novel in just 30 days while working full time. 

We talk about how knowing the craft of writing doesn’t necessarily translate into actually doing the work, how the pressure to write something important can become paralyzing, and how her fast-drafting approach helped her overcome perfectionism and get a complete draft on the page in record time.

While the episode focuses on fiction, much of our conversation applies to memoir writing. Plus, writers of other kinds of nonfiction will find valuable insights.

You’ll learn:

• The mindset mistakes that keep even technically skilled writers stuck
• Why treating your first draft like a “50,000-word outline” can help you stop overthinking and start writing
• Why Hayley recommends setting drafting goals based on time rather than word count
• What to do when your outline stops working halfway through a draft so it doesn’t derail your entire project
• How to create the internal tension that drives a compelling story

Hayley’s process is a great reminder that the first draft doesn’t have to be good—it just has to exist—and that our strongest writing will always come from being true to our own lived experience. 

Mentioned in this episode:

• Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke  
• Dr. Jennifer Lynn Barnes’ 6 universal pleasure buttons: Tiktok explainer video here
• Six of Crows by Leigh Bardugo
• The Wedding People by Alison Espach
• Hayley’s outlining process Substack article: “How I plan my novel so I can draft in 30 days”
• All's Well by Mona Awad

Connect with Hayley:

• On Substack: hayleyiswriting.substack.com

Book club alert! Hayley will be back on the show on September 30th to discuss Yesteryear, which I’ve now read twice. (I’m equal parts impressed and disturbed…) If you haven’t read it yet, now’s your chance because the episode WILL contain spoilers.

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Bad Bunny's music is danceable, provocative, and sometimes vulgar, but it’s also full of beauty and truth—if you’ll take the time to look closer.

Originally recorded for Mariana Herrera Mosli’s Meet at the Well, this episode discusses what I discovered when I began approaching Bad Bunny's music as literature and what we miss when we dismiss certain texts as too popular or secular to be worthy of deeper analysis. 

When we move past fear and knee-jerk reactions to Bad Bunny’s public persona, we uncover within his music complex ideas about culture, identity, liberation, and belonging—and a radical joy that resonates deeply with the Gospel.

You’ll learn:

• My journey to faith after my liberal arts college experience
• Why pop music can function as poetry
• Why I consider curiosity and generosity deeply Christian postures
• How “Tití Me Preguntó” uses music, structure, and narrative to complicate its seemingly simple message
• What Bad Bunny's Super Bowl performance reveals about inclusive joy as an act of resistance
• Why Christians would benefit from looking for beauty, wisdom, and truth outside explicitly Christian art

Ultimately, this conversation is about how literature teaches us to resist simplistic thinking and to search for truth, beauty, and wisdom in unexpected places—even a reggaeton song.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Substack article about my “Holy Spirit moment” on the Camino: “To Be a Pilgrim”
• The Problem of Pain by C.S. Lewis
• My Taylor Swift exploration, LIT112: The Life of a Showgirl on Apple Podcasts or Spotify
• Frankenstein by Mary Shelley

Connect with Mariana:

• On Substack
• Her podcast: Meet at the Well
• On Instagram

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This is Part 2 of a two-part conversation. Listen to Episode 26 for Part 1.

You know it’s time to start building your author platform. But where do you begin? What if you’re not even sure who you’re writing for or what you’re writing about?

In this second half of my conversation with writing coach and author Ann Kroeker, we dive into the practical aspects of building an author platform from the ground up—from experimenting with audio and video content to Substack and email newsletters.

We talk about getting curious about your ideal readers, trying different ways of reaching them, and perhaps most importantly, lowering the stakes so you can actually get started.

You'll learn:

• Whether it’s OK to share material from your book draft on social media
• Why writers should view video as a huge opportunity
• Where to begin when you’re starting from zero
• Common platform-building pitfalls to avoid
• Why focusing on quantity will lead to quality content 

This episode will help you see platform building not as an additional requirement for publication but rather as an integral—and even enjoyable—part of the writing life.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Anne Kroeker, Writing Coach podcast episode: “Is Substack the Best Platform for Writers? Jane Friedman’s Expert Opinion”
• Jane Friedman’s article on Substack (updated May, 2025): “Substack Is Both Great and Terrible for Authors” 
• Pottery Parable: “Quantity leads to quality” by Austin Kleon 
• “Buckeye” by Scott Russell Sanders
• Anne Kroeker, Writing Coach podcast episode: “Prepare for Publishing with Insights from Literary Agent Lucinda Halpern” 

Connect with Ann:

• Podcast: Ann Kroeker, Writing Coach 
• Substack: @annkroeker
• Website: Ann’s “Everything” Page

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If the word “platform” makes you want to crawl under your desk—or give up on publication altogether—you’re not alone. 

But at its core, building a platform isn't about becoming an influencer, chasing followers, or jumping through hoops to win an agent’s attention. It’s about connecting with the people who need what only you can say. 

In this first half of my conversation with writing coach and author Ann Kroeker, we talk about how to approach platform-building with intention and integrity, in a way that feel authentic rather than performative—plus why you shouldn't wait until your book is finished to start building one. 

Building your platform is also a chance to hone your message and cultivate the voice that makes your writing unique—something AI can never replicate. 

You'll learn:

• What “platform” actually means and why it matters in publishing
• Why your author brand should be bigger than any single book
• The importance of clarifying your big idea, audience, and purpose before making other writing decisions
• Why the best time to start building your platform is before you write your book
• How platform building can help you hone your message, cultivate your unique voice, and discover what resonates with your readers
• Why the struggle of writing is part of what makes it meaningful 

Building a platform can easily become another performance metric for writers. This conversation offers a different way to think about it—not as a competition for attention, but as the slow but important work of connecting with the people who need your particular message delivered the way only you can say it. 

This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation. Tune in next week for Part 2.

Mentioned in this episode:

• The Art of Nonfiction by Ayn Rand
• “Don’t Use A.I. to Do This” by Colson Whitehead, The New York Times 

Connect with Ann:

• Podcast: Ann Kroeker, Writing Coach 
• Substack: @annkroeker
• Website: Ann's "Everything" Page 

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AI can save us time, sharpen our ideas, and tighten our writing. But when does it shift from a helpful tool to a crutch that makes your writing less effective and less yours?

In this episode, I'm joined by Kelly Notaras, editor, writer, and founder of KN Literary Arts, to talk about where AI belongs—and doesn't belong—in a writer's process.

Rather than taking an all-or-nothing stance, Kelly and I dig into the messy middle: the ways AI can genuinely support writers, the places where it can undermine your work, and what writers risk losing when they hand too much of the creative process over to a machine.

You'll learn:

• Why AI can actually make your writing worse when you use it to replace your own voice
• The common “AI tells” that can erode trust with your reader
• Where AI may be useful to writers—and what kind of uses to avoid at all costs
• Why writers pursuing traditional publishing need to be especially cautious about AI use
• Why your own imperfect, quirky, human voice is far more valuable than “better” writing produced by a machine

Our goal is to help you think more intelligently about AI as a writer so you can make informed decisions about if, when, and how to use the tools available to you.

Disclaimer: This is not legal advice. It’s your responsibility to stay informed about standards and requirements related to your publishing goals.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Kelly’s book:  The Book You Were Born to Write
• Kelly’s retreat: Write Where You Are Retreat
• The Many Lives of Mama Love: A Memoir of Lying, Stealing, Writing, and Healing by Lara Love Hardin

Connect with Kelly:

• Substack: @kellynotaras
• Kellynotaras.com
• KN Literary Arts

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It took journalist Kara Kavensky nearly a decade to write her debut memoir. With over 1000 articles under her belt, she knew how to turn life into a story. She had the skill, the experience, and a killer hook. 

What she didn’t have was any intention of being in it.

In this episode, Kara and I discuss the process behind her debut memoir Tell Me About Joy: A True Story of Love, Regret, and Second Chances (out September 8). Somehow both unflinching and uplifting, the book portrays how Kara’s quest to reunite a WWII veteran with his high school sweetheart helps her find the courage to finally leave her emotionally abusive husband—and rediscover a life of purpose and joy.

We explore the soul and the science of memoir writing: from reconstructing scenes and handling difficult personal material to braiding multiple timelines into a compelling narrative. 

Along the way, Kara reflects on the healing power of storytelling, the challenges of vulnerability, and the craft decisions that took nearly a decade to get right.

Whether you're dreaming of writing your memoir or already wrestling with one, this conversation is full of practical craft insights and encouraging reminders that the stories we hesitate most to tell are often the ones readers need most.

Connect with Kara:

Instagram: @karakavensky

Website: karakavensky.com

(Pre)Order Kara’s book Tell Me About Joy!

Mentioned in this episode:

• Eat, Pray, Love
• The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society
• The Thirteenth Tale
• The Replacement Child
• The Fullness of Time by Cathy Haynes
• Verb Your Enthusiasm by Sarah L. Kaufman
•  Eats, Shoots & Leaves
• The Prodigal Summer by Barbara Kingsolver (braided structure)
• Bob and Joy’s wedding

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You’re smart, motivated, and hard-working. So why does your mind become your own worst enemy the minute you sit down to write?

In this episode, I sit down with professor of human behavior, executive coach, licensed therapist, and bestselling author Melody Wilding. 

For the last 15 years, she’s been helping highly sensitive, ambitious professionals learn how to get out of their own way and leverage their strengths.

Now, we apply her expertise to one of the most emotionally and technically demanding creative pursuits there is: writing a book.

She shares both psychological principles and practical strategies for overcoming perfectionism, reducing decision fatigue, handling rejection, and building the courage to put your work into the world.

You'll learn:

• Why overthinking becomes paralyzing—and how to move past it
• How to make sure you’re never left staring at the blank page again
• How to validate your concept before you spend years writing
• A rubric for gathering feedback that actually improves your manuscript
• A framework for navigating fear around visibility and self-promotion
• The mindset shift that helps Melody move past rejection 
• The psychology behind effectively advocating for your work with agents and publishers

Whether you're still dreaming about writing your first book or deep in the publishing process, this episode will help you get out of your own way so you can move toward publication with greater confidence, clarity, and momentum.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Trust Yourself: Stop Overthinking and Channel Your Emotions for Success at Work
• Managing Up: How to Get What You Need From the People in Charge
• How to Not Know: The Value of Uncertainty in a World that Demands Answers

Connect with Melody:

• Website: https://melodywilding.com/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melodywilding
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melodywilding/

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What really happens between a book idea and a finished manuscript? 

In this episode, I sit down with my friend Meredith Hite Estevez—a Juilliard-trained oboist, writer, creative coach, and one of my favorite people to talk shop with—to chat about the creative process behind her new book, Art Is How God Loves Us: The Sacred Beauty of Created Things.

We explore how years of musical training shaped her writing voice, why her second book required a completely different creative process than her first, and how learning to trust her "inner knowing" transformed both her writing and her creative life.

We also pull back the curtain on the realities of the sometimes circuitous path from first idea to traditional publication—from platform-building and first drafts to sub-headings and book launches.

You'll learn:

• How to develop—and protect—your unique writing voice
• Why every creative project has its own "way in"
• Why forcing the process too early often keeps you from your best work
• What Meredith would tell herself if she could go back in time

Whether you're writing your first book, your fifth, or simply trying to reconnect with the joy of creating, this conversation is a reminder that great writing isn't something you force—it's something you uncover, one faithful step at a time.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Merideth’s two beautiful books: Art Is How God Loves Us and The Artist’s Joy
• The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt
• My Friends by Fredrik Backman

Connect with Merideth at artistsforjoy.org or on Instagram. 

And be sure to grab a copy of her new book!

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Every writer knows this moment: you finally sit down to create, and instead of inspiration, you feel panic. Your ideas suddenly seem infantile. Your words feel trite, stilted, and utterly forgettable. And the thought creeps in: Maybe I’m not actually a writer.

In this deeply personal episode, I’m sharing a lyric essay I wrote a while back about a solo writing retreat in the Berkshire Mountains—one that began with tears, self-doubt, and the painful discovery that maybe I wasn’t actually capable of writing the book I’d been dreaming about for years.

With the gentle support of The Artist’s Joy by Merideth Hite Estevez, I embarked on a journey through creative resistance, shame, and perfectionism to find the courage to claim my artistic vision.

You’ll hear my thoughts about:

• Why writers often mistake resistance, slowness, and struggle as proof they don’t belong
• The connection between shame, self-protection, and hiding our creative work
• How changing the way we see our challenges can transform the way we create
• Why slow, difficult growth is often precisely what builds stronger work

After reading the essay, I share some behind-the-scenes craft reflections on how the piece evolved through the writing and revision process.

Every writer eventually faces these questions: Am I good enough? Is this idea actually worth pursuing? Why does this feel so hard?

What I’ve learned is that freedom is never found by eliminating doubt and discomfort. It comes from learning to create alongside them.

If you’d prefer to read this essay, you can do so on my Substack right here.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Merideth’s “lens shift” exercise on Substack: Let Art Change Your Mind
• The Artist’s Joy – Meredith’s first book
• Art Is How God Loves Us – Meredith’s new book, out July 7th!

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