The Sucky Sisterhood Podcast: Interviews with Miscarriage and Infant Loss Survivors

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Kelly Jean-Philippe, a devoted husband to his wife Rose and a loving father to their two sons, Julius'Camillo and Eden. Their family story, however, is marked by profound loss as Kelly and Rose have endured the heartbreak of five miscarriages. Kelly shares his deeply personal journey through these experiences, shedding light on the often-overlooked perspective of fathers who suffer from miscarriage.

With warmth and sincerity, Kelly discusses the emotional toll of their losses and his mission to raise awareness about the dad's experience of miscarriage. He highlights the lack of support and resources available to fathers during such difficult times and emphasizes the need for change. Kelly's advocacy work extends to cohosting the Miscarriage Dads podcast, where he and his cohost aim to humanize the experience of miscarriage by creating a space for open and honest conversations about its impact on fathers.

Join us as we delve into Kelly's story, exploring the resilience and strength that come from facing unimaginable grief and the importance of community and support for dads navigating the pain of miscarriage. This episode is a testament to the power of vulnerability and the critical need to support all parents through their journeys of loss and healing.

You can find more about Kelly and his work at themiscarriagedad.buzzsprout.com and follow him on Instagram at @TheMiscarriageDads.

Resources Mentioned: 

• The Miscarriage Dads Podcast
• Still Parents Podcast
• No Matter How Small, Patrick & Kristen Riecke

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In this episode, Victoria Renken, a perinatal therapist and mother, shares her journey with her daughter, Lily. Victoria, who specializes in grief, loss, and rare diagnoses in motherhood, opens up about her experience navigating the complexities of Lily’s congenital diaphragmatic hernia and the unexpected emergence of HELLP syndrome. Join us as Victoria discusses the intersections of grief and professional expertise, the comfort found in unexpected places, and her enduring love for Lily.

• Getting Grief Right, Patrick O'Malley
• Holding on to Love After You've Lost a Baby: The 5 Love Languages for Grieving, Gary Chapman & Candy McVicar
• And if You Can't, Sydney N. Hatcher
• Brave Lament, Andrew & Christy Bauman
• Prayer in the Night: For Those Who Work or Watch or Weep, Tish Harrison Warren
• victoriarenken.com
• Instagram @counseling.with.victoria

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Nicole Zasowski is a licensed marriage and family therapist, sought-after speaker, and author of What If It’s Wonderful? and From Lost to Found. She lives in Connecticut with her husband and three young children. Nicole would love to connect with you on her website: www.nicolezasowski.com.

@nicolezasowski

Books: What If It's Wonderful and From Lost to Found
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Show Notes

Summary
TJ shares his journey of grief and healing after the loss of his son, Luca. He discusses the impact on his family, the surprising moments of comfort, and the transformation of his faith. The conversation delves into the power of storytelling, the role of empathy, and the growth that comes from grief. The conversation delves into the themes of finding joy amidst grief, the complexity of emotions, the role of faith in healing, and the importance of community and support. TJ shares personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the impact of relationships and the pursuit of hope.

Takeaways

• Grief can lead to unexpected growth and transformation.
• Sharing personal stories of loss and healing can provide comfort and support to others.
• Faith and spirituality can be a source of strength and comfort during times of grief.
• Empathy and compassion for others are cultivated through personal experiences of loss and healing. Finding joy amidst grief is a complex and personal experience.
• Faith plays a significant role in the healing journey, providing comfort and perspective.
• Community and support are essential for navigating the challenges of grief and loss.
• The pursuit of hope and the importance of relationships are central to the healing process.

Connect with TJ:
The TJ Show Podcast
Nationally syndicated radio host (The TJ Show)
Instagram
TheTJShow.com
Listen to Jess on our Podcast

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Summary

This episode dives into the nuances of grief, motherhood, and resilience with Tanika Dillard, who shares her journey of loss and the ways she honors her children. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community, support, and the power of words in navigating grief. Tanika offers valuable advice for those supporting someone in fresh grief and highlights the significance of hope and journaling in the healing process.

Join Tanika and other grieving moms on their healing journey at Gathering 2025: Look Up on March 1, 2025.

Connect with Tanika:
Building a Family Breaks My Heart
Facebook
Instagram
Share Upstate Support Group

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Host: Peyton Lauderdale
Producer: Carol Vantine

The Sucky Sisterhood Podcast is dedicated to helping loss moms and their allies overcome isolation and stigma, providing a platform to reshape the narrative surrounding baby loss. Hosted by Peyton Lauderdale and produced by Carol Vantine, this podcast is a compassionate and supportive resource for those affected by miscarriage and infant loss.

Each episode delves into the complexities of pregnancy loss, featuring heartfelt interviews with survivors, healthcare professionals, mental health experts, and partners. The podcast offers practical advice, emotional support, and inspiring stories of resilience and hope, creating a safe space for listeners to explore the multifaceted journey of grief and healing.

The podcast is part of Gathering Hope, a nonprofit organization based in Texas that reaches women nationwide through events like the national loss mom conference, Wave of Light ceremony, workshops, and various support programs. By fostering a sense of community and understanding, Gathering Hope empowers women to grieve and celebrate their lost children alongside others who share their experiences.

Whether you're a loss mom seeking comfort, a partner navigating grief, or a professional aiming to provide compassionate care, The Sucky Sisterhood Podcast offers valuable insights and a sense of solidarity. Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform to join Peyton and Carol on this journey of empathy, resilience, and breaking down the stigma associated with pregnancy loss. Together, we can make a difference through the power of community.

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In our final episode of the season, we chat with Erin Cuccio about shifting perspective after losing her son, Jacob. Practically speaking, we know it's a tough challenge to add to your plate when you're deep in grief. Listen as Erin describes how the Lord used drive time during multiple road trips to unravel things about herself and unveil truths about Himself. We also discuss how rainbows come in all shapes and sizes and how saying yes to help and support challenges our sense of vulnerability. 

To continue the conversation, we invite you to share and subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts. Connect with us at GatheringHope.org, Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, or TikTok.

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Meet Jess! Getting to know her through her role as a Gathering 2022, Wave of Light speaker, and now a friend has been a joy. She is generous with her heart and her wisdom and today's episode includes a multitude of both offerings. Peyton and Jess talk about the duplicity of grief, the concept of "bouncing forward" and the ability for loss moms to hold the tension of various emotions simultaneously. Dive into her story and find hope in your own healing journey!

More about Jess: Jessica Latshaw has a BFA in dance performance from the University of the Arts in Philadelphia, where she also studied piano and voice extensively. She has performed musical theater on many stages, most notably, the Broadway tour of A Chorus Line. She has performed her own songs on cool stages, such as NYC’s The Blue Note Jazz Club, Boston’s City Winery, and the UK’s Sage Gateshead. Jessica is a worship leader at the Barn Vineyard Church in PA. She is also a podcaster, which she co-hosts with her husband TJ (The TJ and Jess Show) weekly, writes on her substack (jessicalatshaw.substack.com), and is currently in the final edits before releasing her first book—a memoir narrating losing and loving her son Luca. Home is loud and messy—mostly because of the three little girls she and TJ get to raise and not at all because she’d rather write music than fold laundry.

GATHERING HOPE CONFERENCE ANNOUNCEMENT: You're invited to join other miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant loss survivors on their healing journey at Gathering 2023: This Is Our Story on October 7, 2023. Podcast guests receive $20 OFF by using the code GATHER20 at checkout! **Code is limited to the first 50 tickets purchased.** Hurry and grab your spot today - it won't be the same without YOU there, Mama! https://www.gatheringhope.net/gathering-2023

Connect with Jess!

• Website
• Substack
• Instagram

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In this episode, miscarriage and infant loss survivors will connect and relate with Rachel Lohman, founder of Hope Again Collective and author of the upcoming release, Miscarried Hope: Journeying with Jesus Through Pregnancy and Infant Loss. Get a sneak peek into her book and a preview of what's to come at Gathering 2023, our annual Gathering for baby loss moms. Rachel will be speaking for the third year in a row, encouraging fellow loss moms with a story that so many of us will resonate with. In this episode, we discuss faith and doubt, the research for her book that included over 400 loss mom's input, the Five Stages of Hope, supporting loss moms beyond the first few weeks, and the surprising way her church is finding new ways to love and acknowledge all moms. 

Join Rachel and other grieving moms on their healing journey at Gathering 2023: This Is Our Story on October 7, 2023. Podcast guests receive $20 OFF *AND* receive a Gathering Hope "Sucky Sisterhood" mug by using the code GATHER20 at checkout!!! **Code expires August 31 and is limited to the first 50 tickets purchased, mug to be picked up at the Texas Gathering.** Get your ticket today! https://www.gatheringhope.net/gathering-2023

Pre-order Miscarried Hope at Rachel Lohman.com and listen to our first episode with Rachel here.

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Peyton from Slaying the Stigma and Co-founder of Gathering Hope and Bonnie Ruth from Barren Not Broken and Co-founder of Legacy Place are bringing us a powerful podcast collaboration. Both ladies show us not only sharing their stories but vulnerably inviting us into their personal grief journeys and how they have navigated that with their spouses, family, and friends. They ask each other a series of questions, bringing their perspective, experience, and honesty to the table. There are several just WOW moments for both ladies as they gleam from each other, not holding back and giving practical tools. Grief does not have to define us; there is a way through it. 

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