The Superhero Finder Podcast - Real people, real stories and real power!

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  • Superhero #98 - Being Doxxed On Tiktok - My Recovery From Addiction | Greyson Grimes

    Welcome back!

    This week I spent some time in the Mattcave with Greyson Grimes - A musician and popular social media personality.

    Well, Greyson went viral recently when he was doxxed. If you don't know what that is, let me explain.

    Tiktok megastar Elise Myers released a video where she describes a not so great experience with an 'ex' but does not name. Someone then saw the video, found Greyson and basically said a big digital 'its him!'.

    To Dox: to publicly identify or publish private information about (someone) especially as a form of punishment or revenge

    With that comes lots of messages and comments, threats and all sorts unfortunately a thing now in the digital world. Its also Illegal in some places to Doxx.

    So now that we know what that is.. back to Greyson.

    Not only has this situation given him challenges, but it has also given him a platform to tell his story.

    Its a story of addiction, forgiveness, inner work and an incredible view on life now that is infectious and has definitely had an impact on me.

    You can find Greyson and his music @Greyson.grimes on IG / @greysongrimes on tiktok or simply google his name!

    I hope you enjoy, I certainly did!

    An eternal thanks to my Patrons Lucy and James for supporting the growth and development of this podcast, and soon we will be going LIVE and in person!

    If you would like to see how you can support us you can see ⁠here⁠:

    This is super exciting, something I have wanted to do since we started but I have one more thing to say..

    Every single like, share, follow and listen is INCREDIBLY important to me. So thank you so much for joining us, and don't forget there are loads more to catch up on on all major podcast host spaces.

    Do let me know what your'e favourite episode has been, I would love to discuss it with you.

    Until next time! Stay Super *


    46 min
  • Superhero #97 - Growing A Brand With Passion And Value In A Throwaway World | The Jayybuck - Founder of Gymbuck

    Welcome Back!

    Today I spend some time with Jayybuck, the founder of the Gymbuck fitness and apparel brand, formerley known as Savage Gymwear.

    Not everyday do we get to experience and discuss the origin story of such an influential brand .

    We discuss how illness was the turning point and catalyst for what was to come.

    We look at how for Jay forming a brand so closely aligned to its values has its challenges but also its huge impact.

    Within this journey a growing community has been established, with active ambassadors carrying on the brands ethics and values.

    All this and some powerful discussions on self development, motivation and resilience from a man who speaks with wisdom and openness.

    You can find Jay on socials @thejayybuck and brand news at @gymbuck.hq

    An eternal thanks to my Patrons Lucy and James for supporting the growth and development of this podcast, and soon we will be going LIVE and in person!

    If you would like to see how you can support us you can see here:

    This is super exciting, something I have wanted to do since we started but I have one more thing to say..

    Every single like, share, follow and listen is INCREDIBLY important to me. So thank you so much for joining us, and don't forget there are loads more to catch up on on all major podcast host spaces.

    Do let me know what your'e favourite episode has been, I would love to discuss it with you.

    Until next time! Stay Super *




    37 min
  • Superhero #96 - It All Started When They Called Me Sparrowlegs - Helping Young People With Body Image is Only The Start | Anupa Roper

    Hello and welcome!

    Whether this is your first episode, or your 21st thankyou!
    Today I spend some time with Anupa Roper who is on a mission to help young people today with their body image and growing confidence around who they are.
    We have a very digital world, where everything is accessible, but what impact has that had on our society?
    Has the idea of fast changing 'trends' and the immersion into influencer culture stumped creativity and individuality in our young people?
    Find out that and more in todays episode!
    If you would like to follow or contact Anupa you can on Instagram: @miss_sparrowlegs or [email protected]
    You can buy Anupa's first published book here too!

    Thank you for tuning in, I am looking for more guests to join me in September, and very excited to announce that as we are close to hitting the big 100 we will be doing a face to face podcast in August!

    Its been a long time coming but I couldn't do it without your support, and the support of my Patron's.

    Every share, comment and view means the world.

    However if you have capacity for more, please visit this link to see if you can support me on my mission to level up this podcast!

    Until next time, stay super!


    35 min
  • Superhero #95 - The Key To A Healthier Mental Health Future Starts At School - Sharing Our Story - The Book of Hope | Charlotte Maidment
    Hello again!
    Today continues my mini series of Tiktok creators that are here to make a statement and to make a real change in the world.
    Charli works within the NHS within occupational health, but that isn't the driver for what she does on social media.
    Instead she uses it to tell the story of her family, and in particular her husband Stevie.
    Stevie has had a turbulent history with mental health problems, and as a part of her healing process she wanted to have some open and frank conversations with the world, in an attempt to help others going through similar. It hasn't been easy and infact Charli has had to face some severe negativity from doing so, but she soldiers on and has ammassed quite a support!
    She created the Book of Hope, which is an incredible tool to help manage your own mental health, which is available now.
    We discuss this and much more in this episode so I hope you enjoy!
    You can find Charli on Tiktok @mentalhealthmum0
    Charli also asked me to take part in a 20k walk to raise money for Mental Health UK on 30th Sept 2023. Of course I said yes!
    If you would like to join us, or to donate then please check out this link https://mentalhealthuk.enthuse.com/pf/matt-wilson
    Please take a second to visit my Patreon at ⁠www.patreon.com/thekindeststrongman⁠ to support me as a small creator and if you are looking for the merch link its here ⁠bsbk.teemill.com⁠
    Thank you for listening and I will see you again soon as we move ever closer to episode 100!'
    Stay Super!
    37 min
  • Superhero #94 - How TikTok Helped Me Grow in a Digital World. Lupus Ultra Marathons and Only Fans | Star Bickerstaff

    Hello and welcome back!

    Today I have the honour of sharing some time and space with Tiktok creator Star Bickerstaff.

    We take a really interesting look into how posting one video on social media can transform life as you know it.

    We are in a very digital and different world and its about time that we accepted and embraced it!

    Star grew up caring for her father who had Multiple Sclerosis (MS) before he passed.

    She was bullied at school, and hasn't always had any confidence in herself.. did that change? When and why?

    What about Stars journey into OnlyFans, and using it as a revenue platform whilst still being in control, blowing away some of the negative stigma that comes with it.

    Star runs Ultra Marathons, we find out how that started, and also how Star lives with Lupus and a bit about that experience and journey too.

    If you would like to follow Star she is a regular on Tiktok and Instagram, as well as her Spicy Page. You can find her @starbeebee12 on all of them.


    Please take a second to visit my Patreon at www.patreon.com/thekindeststrongman to support me as a small creator and if you are looking for the merch link its here bsbk.teemill.com


    Thank you for listening and I will see you again soon as we move ever closer to episode 100!'

    Stay Super!

    54 min
  • Superhero #93 - Acceptance Is A Long And Powerful Road - Normalising and Celebrating Visual Difference - Living with NF1 | Amit Ghose

    Hello and lovely to see you again!

    Today we are celebrating visual differences with the most amazing guest Amit Ghose.

    So.. if you can get us on spotify, lets get visual!

    Amit has recently grown quite a following on social media recently, campaigning and advocating for normalising visual differences.

    Amit lives with Neurofibromatosis Type 1 also known as NF1 which is a genetic condition that causes tumour to grow along the nerves.

    The variance across the condition is huge and it can be apparent anywhere on the body.

    For Amit, it was clear from a young age that the differences it would make for him would be plain to see.

    So what does it take to grow your own confidence in a world where appearance seems to be at the forefront of judgement?

    How big a role does family play in that, and what is Amit doing now to help others?

    A fascinating conversation by someone who is clearly using the power of social media in a positive empowering way.

    Mentioned within are the 'Changing Faces' Charity which you can find here and Face Equality International which you can find here

    Please don't forget to follow this podcast, or add it to your favourites so you don't miss out on anything!

    Merch Link bsbk.teemill.com

    Patreon Link www.patreon.com/thekindeststrongman

    Stay Super!

    37 min
  • Superhero #92 - If You Care Share - Doing What I Do To Help Those Dealing With Suicide | Matthew Smith - Co Founder- IFUCARESHARE

    Hello there Superhero fan!

    I first saw todays guest on the UK show 'Steph's Packed Lunch' and I knew I had to reach out.

    Matthew Smith is the co-founder of an incredible non-profit organisation called 'If You Care Share'

    Taken from https://www.ifucareshare.co.uk/about

    Our journey began in 2005. Daniel O’Hare was 19 years of age when, without any warning, he took his own life. He had no previous history of mental health problems nor had he shown any outward signs of his intentions. 

    Daniel was a normal young man, who was extremely popular and well known in his local community. He had a large amount of friends and a family that loved him dearly. He enjoyed football, spending time with friends and socialising. Daniel also had a job managing a family online retail business. To this day his family remain devastated by their loss and are still no nearer to understanding Daniel’s choice.

    Daniel’s brothers Matthew and Ben, along with his cousin Sarah (then aged 10, 5 and 12) hoped to do something positive to try and prevent another family suffering a similar experience. They wanted to create a lasting memory to Daniel and started If U Care Share Foundation. 

    The family started selling wristbands at football clubs featuring the message if u care share and raised over £50,000 for mental health charities.

    In 2011, we became a registered charity with three main aims: Prevention, intervention & support of those bereaved by suicide.

    Join me as we discuss the impact that Daniels death had, the legacy that has now been created with the aim of helping many other people.

    Matthew is an incredibly inspiring individual, what him and his family have created is incredible, I truly hope it can keep growing and expand its reach further across the UK.

    Whatever you are doing and wherever you are, I hope you enjoy this episode!

    Please take a second to visit my Patreon at ⁠www.patreon.com/thekindeststrongman⁠ to support me as a small creator and if you are looking for the merch link its here ⁠bsbk.teemill.com⁠

    Thank you for listening and I will see you again soon as we move ever closer to episode 100!'

    Stay Super!


    39 min
  • Superhero #91 - Surviving Narcissism and Abuse In A Relationship - Learning To Heal | Amanda Haigh

    Welcome back Superhero!

    Today I am visited by Amanda Haigh the Author of 'Fix Your Future' and fellow podcast host of 'Heal with the Reel'.

    Amanda's mission is to 'Rewrite the future of our community one step at a time after coercive relationships.

    After leaving a coercive relationship herself, Amanda as a domestic abuse advocate uses her experience to help others in a variety of ways help change their life for the better, empowering and educating whoever she comes across.

    This can be a sensitive topic, so please be kind to yourself and if it feels too much for where you are, come back to it later.

    Tons of value and things to take away, i'm excited for you to hear about it!

    You can find Amanda on Instagram @amanda_haigh_fixyourfuture as well as LinkedIN. Her podcast can be found on spotify and youtube simply search for 'Heal with the Reel'

    Please take a second to visit my Patreon at ⁠www.patreon.com/thekindeststrongman⁠ to support me as a small creator and if you are looking for the merch link its here ⁠bsbk.teemill.com⁠

    Thank you for listening and I will see you again soon as we move ever closer to episode 100!'

    Stay Super!

    39 min
  • Superhero #90 -I Was Raped At The Age Of 13 - Forgiving Them Was A Huge Part Of My Healing - The Courage Cultivator | Madeleine Black

    Welcome back superstar!

    Now todays episode features Madeleine Black who at a young age was raped, so please if this subject is sensitive to you at all, be kind to yourself and miss it out or make sure you are in the right frame of mind.

    "When I was 13, in a flat belonging to my friend’s Mother who was away for the weekend, I was attacked by two teenage American students. They held a knife to my throat and tortured and raped me many times over, for about four or five hours. I begged them to stop, but they just kicked me and laughed at me. I remember wishing they would kill me to make it all end. (Taken from www.theforgivenessproject.com )

    This was the late 1970's. It wasn't until 2014 that Madeleine decided to share her story after decades of coming to terms with what happened to her.

    Madeleine has since written a book, spoken at a TEDX event and spends her time helping others as a counsellor.

    I wont spoil it by saying any more, but if you like a story of someone who can survive the worst? Its right here.

    If you would like to follow Madeleine and find out more you can by visiting www.madeleineblack.co.uk or connect with her on LinkedIn.

    I couldn't continue to make these episodes without you, a special mention to my Patrons.

    What will keep us growing is by telling others about some of the magic we have covered, so if you could share your favourite episode that would be amazing!

    For anyone who would like to help me reach my goal of recording a studio episode in 2023 you can do, by joining my Patreon which for a small fee you can support me realising my goal and continuing to do these episodes and post production. www.patreon.com/thekindeststrongman

    Have a great day and enjoy!



    34 min
  • Superhero #89 - An Unfiltered View Into Autism and ADHD - Neurodiversity, Communicating and Strongwoman | Holly Ford
    I hope you are ready for todays EXTRA HUGE episode. *TW - Mention of suicide and self harm*
    I had the pleasure of speaking with Holly Ford, who is a competitive strongwoman, a mother of 2 and living with Autism and ADHD.
    We talk about communication, the journey Holly has been on to understand how what works for her can be taken by others in the wrong way.
    We look at the times that are overwhelming for her, what has she learnt to do to get the most out of herself, for example on competition day but also in everyday social situations.
    We also discuss depression, thoughts of self harm and suicide and how drugs and alcohol played a huge part of Hollys life, also WHY they did.
    It was incredible listening to someone able to be so open about some really huge and raw experiences.
    Whether you are neurodiverse yourself, you know someone that is or are just curious, you will love this.
    You can follow Holly on Instagram and TikTok @holfordxx
    Whether this is your first episode or your 50th. Thank you!
    I couldn't continue to make these episodes without you, a special mention to my Patrons.
    What will keep us growing is by telling others about some of the magic we have covered, so if you could share your favourite episode that would be amazing!
    For anyone who would like to help me reach my goal of recording a studio episode in 2023 you can do, by joining my Patreon which for a small fee you can support me realising my goal and continuing to do these episodes and post production. www.patreon.com/thekindeststrongman
    Have a great day and enjoy!
    1 hr 10 min

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My name is Matt, I am a superhero finder - it is my job to search planet earth and uncover the real superheroes in hiding.