Seems pretty obvious as to why you shouldn't date while you are lonely, yet so many of us do it?! Why do we do it? And when do we do it? What is loneliness really all about?! Is it the need to feel love regardless off it is good or not?! Or are there moments in life, where we require filling a void to get through?! As though necessary in some way... But what if you don't know you're lonely?! Plus, what about dating someone with nothing to lose?!

Tune in as P & C talk about the importance of self awareness and values, sharing their thoughts, insights and personal stories on the topic.

**FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**

So it started with pet names... that is, not what you would name your pet but what you would nickname your significant other. Continuing on to pet peeves to just a bunch of randomness and conversation. Tune in as P & C share and discuss, bridging out into all sorts of topics.

**FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**

What is 'Green Card Dating'?! Who does it?! Where are you weakest?! The Caribbean or anywhere where anyone's wanting to get out?! Have you ever fallen prey or have you never been tempted by the forbidden fruit?! What about those people who make money off of it?! Would you or would you not?! And are woman or man more luckily to fall into the trap?! But what if it works out and there is a happily ever after?! And what about the people who 'Green Card Marry'?! Tune in as P & C share their stories and experiences on the topic of conversation. Most importantly, how can you protect yourself from a hidden agenda.

**FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**

We decided to implement something new... STORYTIME brought to you by P's search engine questions on @quora. Today's stories are based on the question 'What was your most embarrassing moment on a date?' Tune in as P & C share the stories they found, which well... weren't all that embarrassing, so they end up sharing their own... and well... there are some pretty shameful moments.

**FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**

So it started with break-ups to what does it take to hurt someone?! Can anyone do it or is it something that only happens when you yourself aren't satisfied, because how could anyone in their right mind want to hurt anyone?! It takes something... no?! And what ways can hurt be explained... expressed... shown?! In what ways can it manifest, impacting and affecting your life and those around you?! Tune in as P & C share not only their insights in the matter and topic at hand, but their listeners as well.

And to bring it back to where we came from... what is the best way to break up?! Is there a best way?! Respectable way?! Is it bad to just ghost?! Or are there cases whether disappearing is warranted?!

**FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**

So many of us focus on social validation, but what does it actually give us?! What does it do for us?! Nothing... It does nothing unless it is being used in the appropriate way. So yeah, it is great to have the clout, but unless the clout follows us and in not in terms of instagram, it mean nothing. Because if Instagram were to stop tomorrow what would you have?! Tune in as P & C mock while discussing the importance and impact of social media.

**FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**

What is 'cuffing season'?! When does drafting start?! And when does it end?! When do you know if you got picked or not?! What about the playoffs?! When do they began and when do they end?! Most importantly, when do you know you won the championship?! And not just for the year, but for years to come.

And what about seeing your 'boo thing' everyday?! Yay or nay?! Do you require your alone time... if so, what happens when your living with someone or when your married?! Or does it change when you find your special someone?!

Tune in as P & C share their opinions and thoughts on the matter. Plus, we asked our viewers and shared their responses on topic of discussion, on whether or not they know what 'cuffing season' is and if they believe in it... aka partake in it.

**FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**

Reading another one from @thoughtcatalog, this time were going with the Halloween Theme,  '15 Spooky Questions To Ask Your Friends'. Tune in as P & C answer everything from 'What would your last meal be?' to 'If you were to commit a murder, how would you go about it?' to 'Have you ever used an ouija board?'. Stories, fears and laughs. PLUS, listen in as P shares how Chunky ruined her childhood... 

**FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**

When should you introduce your boyfriend/girlfriend to the fam?! Has your family ever even met a boyfriend/girlfriend?! Is it different given your age?! As age progresses are you less inclined to introduce significant others to your family until you know they are the one?! And is there a time limit to when you walk away, if shouldn't conversations aren't had?! That is, in terms of future.

What about introducing them to your friends?! Yay or Nay?! Or should you follow the lead of a man or be set on boundaries?! And what about if your family didn't like your significant other, would you break up with them or not?!

Listen as P & C share their perspective and opinions, should you and should you not?! Why and why not?! Plus, we tune in as we share viewers responses and feedback on the matter.

**FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**

Can you ever be too intimidating to date?! The answer is YES!!! Regardless of what a man thinks, females who have their life together and doing big things rarely get dates and/or have their inbox blowing up... and if they do it is for all the wrong reasons! Yet why it is that men say, "I want a boss woman", when in reality none of the boss women are being approached?! Does social media ruin it for us alpha females?! Showing our successes and displaying our accomplishments... should we not share until we know they are 'keepers'?!

And on another note, what about men?! Most importantly, why is it that for the alpha male it works in reverse?! Dating non-stop and inbox blowing up?! Which could be an explanation for why they can think that the alpha female is in the same position... when really she is not... why?!

Tune in as P & C share their insights and thoughts on the matter. Because as two alpha females in their 30's, one single and one recent entangled, it's been a journey in terms of dating.

**FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @DOT.SPILLIN FOR OUR WEEKLY Q&A'S**