The Thing Doers

Pam starts with a confession: she’s sometimes a total mess when it comes to recording these episodes—episode 20 almost didn’t happen! But today the ladies ponder the enigma of people who live without calendars, skip emails, and seem to have zero responsibilities, Pam and Sam dive into the clash of organized vs. chaotic living. And those red notification bubbles? They’re not just visual—they’re downright audible to these two. The debate gets real: who’s actually more stressed, the planner-obsessed or the free spirits? With a mix of laughs, relatable chaos, and a couple of life-easing tips, this episode is the perfect blend of snark and sanity.

Sam and Pam kick things off with their signature off-topic chatter, diving into mom intuition, baby monitors, and fitness trackers—because who doesn’t need even more information to stress over? Then it’s onto class reunions, body image, and the joys (ha!) of menopause. They’ll ask the big questions: Can we be real? Can we undo the damage social media and filters have done to how we see ourselves? Spoiler alert: It’s complicated. Join them for an honest, unfiltered (literally) chat about self-talk, aging, and keeping it real in a world that thrives on fake.

In this bite-sized follow-up to Are You Ready?, Pam is on her own and Sam is in the midst of a snowstorm headed their way and she IS ready. Pam zeroes in on the holy grail of emergency prep: the "go bag" (or "stay bag," depending on whether the universe wants you to run or hunker down). With signature Thing Doer practicality, we walk you through exactly what to pack—spoiler alert: it’s not just snacks and socks, but yes, snacks and socks are essential. In less 10 minutes, you’ll get a good list of must-haves to stay ready for tornadoes, wildfires, earthquakes, or any other random catastrophe that heads your way. Compact, and to the point—because you don’t have time to waste if the world is ending.

In this episode of The Thing Doers, titled "Are You Ready?" Sam and Pam are finally back to recording after a six-week break, catching up on the chaos of juggling life and the crazy degree of indecision that strikes when we actually get a moment to breathe. With a fresh start to the year, they share the words they’ve chosen to focus on in 2025, offering a glimpse into their goals and priorities—because who says it’s too late to get your act together?

From there, they dive into the main question: Are you ready? With wildfires, freeze warnings, and sudden evacuations hitting close to home, it’s time to talk about emergency preparedness. Whether it’s wild scenarios, practical plans, or their signature sarcastic take on getting through the unexpected, this episode kicks off a series on how to be (or at least try to be) ready for whatever life throws your way.

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam dive into the great divide between men and women—or at least when it comes to communication. Ever wonder why your words seem to go in one ear and out the other when you're talking to your partner? Whether you're trying to make plans, tackle that never-ending honey-do list, or just be heard for once, our hosts break down the art (or frustration) of getting through to the other side. Tune in as they share their own funny (and sometimes exasperating) experiences with talking to their husbands and the magic tricks they’ve found to actually make their words stick.

As the year limps to a close, Sam and Pam are here to commiserate about holidays that feel less people-packed and more… meh. With family scattered across time zones or just not around anymore, the season's sparkle can feel a little dim. Add in the joy (and chaos) of dealing with kids—one still basking in the holiday magic while the other is a pint-sized realist who’s way too practical for a 4-year-old—and you’ve got a recipe for exhaustion. They’ll chat about the pressure to create magic, the art of lowering the bar (sometimes all the way to the floor), and why being real beats being perfect. Sprinkle in some snark and plans for the year ahead, and you’ve got the perfect send-off for another year—gracefully or not.

After surviving the chaos of a dog seizure and wrangling their families Sam and Pam sit down to record this episode: “Just the Tip.” where they dive into some of their favorite money-saving hacks to help you squeeze every last penny.

Want to clean your house without breaking the bank? They’ve got homemade cleaning products for that. Drowning in a sea of mail, subscriptions, and medical bills? Don’t worry, they’ll help you dig your way out. Pam even dishes out a couple of apps that’ll save you money — or, better yet, get some back. Plus, they throw in a few tips for surviving a shopping trip with kids and how to start teaching them the value of money. And hey, if you're really feeling ambitious, why not make your own butter?

In this festive episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam dive headfirst into the glitter-filled chaos of Christmas (why is everything covered in glitter?) Real or fake trees—who’s winning the Great Pine Debate? When exactly should you decorate, and more importantly, when should you tear it all down before you lose your mind? And then there’s the Elf on the Shelf—festive fun or creepy narc? From cherished traditions to their hot takes on gift-giving, they’re unwrapping it all. Grab your cocoa, it’s about to get merry and bright!

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Pam and Sam reveal their ultimate, can't-live-without-it list of everyday treasures. From gift ideas to cooking hacks and personal must-haves, they’ll share the affordable magic that keeps their lives oh-so-functional. Spoiler alert: no yachts or diamond-encrusted blenders here—just practical, budget-friendly stuff that somehow makes life slightly less chaotic. Tune in get a pin to make a list of these life-changing items (even if some are in the most mundane way.

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam check in on their thrilling 30-day decluttering adventure. You know, the one where they finally toss out that sock missing its soulmate since 2004, or the hangers your mom got with those slacks she bought at Mervyn's back when Mervyn's was still a thing. It’s all about giving yourself permission to part with the “perfectly good” stuff you’ve been holding onto for that mythical day when it might be useful. (Spoiler: it won’t.) Trust us, your home, your brain, and your life will feel lighter—because who needs all that junk? And, as if that’s not enough, Sam drops her genius tip: end every day with a nightly dance party with your kids (or even without) and see what magic that can create.