In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam dive into the great divide between men and women—or at least when it comes to communication. Ever wonder why your words seem to go in one ear and out the other when you're talking to your partner? Whether you're trying to make plans, tackle that never-ending honey-do list, or just be heard for once, our hosts break down the art (or frustration) of getting through to the other side. Tune in as they share their own funny (and sometimes exasperating) experiences with talking to their husbands and the magic tricks they’ve found to actually make their words stick.

As the year limps to a close, Sam and Pam are here to commiserate about holidays that feel less people-packed and more… meh. With family scattered across time zones or just not around anymore, the season's sparkle can feel a little dim. Add in the joy (and chaos) of dealing with kids—one still basking in the holiday magic while the other is a pint-sized realist who’s way too practical for a 4-year-old—and you’ve got a recipe for exhaustion. They’ll chat about the pressure to create magic, the art of lowering the bar (sometimes all the way to the floor), and why being real beats being perfect. Sprinkle in some snark and plans for the year ahead, and you’ve got the perfect send-off for another year—gracefully or not.

After surviving the chaos of a dog seizure and wrangling their families Sam and Pam sit down to record this episode: “Just the Tip.” where they dive into some of their favorite money-saving hacks to help you squeeze every last penny.

Want to clean your house without breaking the bank? They’ve got homemade cleaning products for that. Drowning in a sea of mail, subscriptions, and medical bills? Don’t worry, they’ll help you dig your way out. Pam even dishes out a couple of apps that’ll save you money — or, better yet, get some back. Plus, they throw in a few tips for surviving a shopping trip with kids and how to start teaching them the value of money. And hey, if you're really feeling ambitious, why not make your own butter?

In this festive episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam dive headfirst into the glitter-filled chaos of Christmas (why is everything covered in glitter?) Real or fake trees—who’s winning the Great Pine Debate? When exactly should you decorate, and more importantly, when should you tear it all down before you lose your mind? And then there’s the Elf on the Shelf—festive fun or creepy narc? From cherished traditions to their hot takes on gift-giving, they’re unwrapping it all. Grab your cocoa, it’s about to get merry and bright!

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Pam and Sam reveal their ultimate, can't-live-without-it list of everyday treasures. From gift ideas to cooking hacks and personal must-haves, they’ll share the affordable magic that keeps their lives oh-so-functional. Spoiler alert: no yachts or diamond-encrusted blenders here—just practical, budget-friendly stuff that somehow makes life slightly less chaotic. Tune in get a pin to make a list of these life-changing items (even if some are in the most mundane way.

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam check in on their thrilling 30-day decluttering adventure. You know, the one where they finally toss out that sock missing its soulmate since 2004, or the hangers your mom got with those slacks she bought at Mervyn's back when Mervyn's was still a thing. It’s all about giving yourself permission to part with the “perfectly good” stuff you’ve been holding onto for that mythical day when it might be useful. (Spoiler: it won’t.) Trust us, your home, your brain, and your life will feel lighter—because who needs all that junk? And, as if that’s not enough, Sam drops her genius tip: end every day with a nightly dance party with your kids (or even without) and see what magic that can create.

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam start off by touching on the thrilling topic of cleaning (yes, you really should be wiping down those baseboards more than once every 10 years). But let’s be real—that’s just a warm-up. The main event is all about Thanksgiving as we roll into the holiday season. Pam shares her hot take on why it's high time to ditch the tired traditions in favor of something a little more untraditional. Together, they break down the good, the bad, and the hilariously ugly sides of holiday rituals. Whether you love a classic turkey day or you’re ready to give the whole thing a makeover, this episode's got you covered.

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Sam and Pam decide to spice things up by bringing their better (or worse?) halves Austin and Steve onto this week’s podcast to talk about that delightful rollercoaster we call marriage and the path from the first date, breaking up, living together and then the altar. With many years of wedded bliss (or survival) under their belts, they’ll share their oh-so-personal insights on fighting styles, communication, having their lives together while still having their own independent lives. You’ll also get the scoop on how they figured out they’d found “the one” and what it’s like trying to build a healthy relationship by having things you do together and hobbies of your own like surfing, coloring or organizing a drawer (Pam’s convinced that qualifies as a hobby). Plus, they’ll dive into the art of being real in front of your person from the get-go, no facades allowed, and what it’s like growing up together in a marriage (because apparently, maturity is optional). Hold onto your vows, it’s about to get real.

This week, Sam and Pam share their plans for the 30-day challenge to rid their homes of clutter and they’ve added an extra twist by committing to a no-spend month, meaning they can only buy things with the money they earn from selling some of their own treasures. Pam drops some wisdom on minimalism (a.k.a. owning two things instead of twenty) and the difference between wants and needs. There's chat about magic wands, peaceful spaces, “buy days” vs. “look days,” and Sam dishes out two tips that you didn't know you needed but will be glad you heard.

Even while recording this episode life is in full swing as Pam’s family and Sam’s husband provide some background ambiance with their dinner in the next room. It’s a Thing Doer class in getting stuff done, because what’s productivity without a little chaos? Welcome to the multitasking circus!

In this episode of The Thing Doers, Pam travels from California to the Lone Star State for an in person recording with Sam and special guests Wendy and Chris to discuss the massive migration of Californians out of the Golden State. They talk about why they've made the move to Texas and the many others that have been heading to states like Tennessee, Idaho, and Utah—where there’s more space, more freedom, and fewer reasons to roll your eyes. They dive into why so many are ditching the overpriced chaos and fake smiles of California for the promise of something better.

They laugh about how they went from dodging earthquakes to dodging hurricanes, all while navigating the wild, wild world of Texan hospitality—where neighbors bake you bread just because your kids sneeze. But let’s not get too sappy; they also rant about the horror show that is Texas driving and how the local Mexican food makes them long for a real California taco.

And stick around for a bonus tip from Sam on how to cap the night with your kids to ensure a full night’s sleep. With a mix of snark, sarcasm, and a few "bless your hearts," they spill the tea on why Texas isn’t perfect (but is definitely beating California for them and their families).