The Things That Come Between Us with Charu Morgan

In this episode we explore what devotion might mean and how bringing it into our relationships could possibly change the texture of what we share in our partnerships. How it might be an opportunity to bring more nourishment and love in new ways…

We also talk about what happens IF when you think about bringing devotion to your partner you feel a ‘no’… or when giving or receiving so much brings up complex feelings.

As in all episodes, however your body responds is welcome, and I share with you ways to explore even uncomfortable feelings for what they might bring to ultimately enhance intimacy.

I have found that devotion opens up a possibility for love, creativity and new levels of mutual respect. A beautiful territory to swim in, explore and deepen within.

It’s an unusual context to bring into this modern world and I’m excited for you to explore what it might inspire in you!

Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!

Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.

***We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.

• What we have been prioritizing and why (and how it may be taking us away from the connection).

Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!

Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.

AND....We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.

Tired of having the same old orgasms? I have good news! New orgasms are waiting for you just around the corner!

I’m kidding… sort of.

Like with so many things, our culture has flattened how we understand and define orgasm. It has defined it as one thing, when, in my experience, it is a FULL SPECTRUM to explore.

In this episode we journey that spectrum to open our minds to discovering what our bodies might be capable of and the nourishment that awaits us if we are curious about expanding.

What if you could enter into an ever-expanding orgasmic state that had no defined beginning or end? Or if you could feel ripples of orgasmic delight just from someone touching the palm of your hand?

…all this and more is possible! ;)

Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!

Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.

The topic I’ve been asked to speak about the most since I started this podcast is PORN.

Before I even begin to explore this topic, I want to be very clear that I am NOT against porn. The view I hold is that the most important thing is… what does your relationship to porn feel like for you? Is it creating inspiration and bringing things to you and your partner or is it taking something away?

Over the years I have worked with many clients who have felt lost and distant from a partner who is consumed by porn or clients who have partners mimicking what they have seen in porn in the bedroom and it just isn’t creating fulfillment or satisfaction.

In this episode we explore:

*Investigating whether porn is bringing inspiration or disconnect in your life.

*How to create productive conversations with your partner about how your relationship to porn feels for them.

*How porn may be affecting your arousal response and why.

*How to begin to explore bringing vitality into the whole body rather than everything being head/fantasy-centered.

Ultimately, it’s possible that your relationship to porn may be limiting the depths of pleasure and exploration you can experience with your partner. This is not about making porn ‘good’ or ‘bad’, it’s about allowing for as much exploration and curiosity as possible.

Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!

Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.

AND....We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.

Men, I want you to have the most amazing sex, the deepest sex, the most exciting and inspiring sex, the most connected sex!

I want you to be engaging in sex that is inspiring and exciting not only for you, and for the sensations in your body, but also for your partner. I want your partner to be inspired and excited about the way that you approach them and what you bring into the bedroom.

To that end, I want you to have all of the skills need to be able to take lovemaking as deep and pleasurable as possible…and by deep I mean emotionally, mentally, spiritually.

One of the things that allows sex to accomplish this kind of depth? Expanding the amount of time you make space for intimacy and sometimes expanding your capacity to maintain your arousal.

Did you even know that men are capable of multiple orgasms? Many of the men I work with had no idea… I’ve even encountered men who are a little envious when they have a partner who has more than one orgasm.

I get it, there isn’t a ton of information out there about this. I’m here to tell you that it is possible and it can be an exciting way to expand your capacity for arousal while simultaneously feeling more pleasure. In this episode I will cover the basic building blocks for how to have those multiple orgasms! Including a simple exercise to get you started!

If you already know how to experience multiple orgasms, you might still find this episode interesting because I also debunk some of the harmful myths that many men take on when they learn.

*This episode will be supportive and informative for anyone with a penis. :)

Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!

Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.

What happens when your partner is shut down to your advances? When you haven’t made love in so long, and you are getting frustrated, but you seem to just be coming up against a dead-end with them?

Is this something you’ve experienced?

Have you been on the OTHER side of it? Feeling your partner coming towards you sexually, maybe in a way that isn’t working for you or you just don’t have the bandwidth to respond? Or maybe you are even stretching to just go ahead and ‘do it’ even though it’s not feeling right?

In this episode, we explore what’s really going on when your partner refuses your advances and what you can do to begin to foster more trust and communication so you can start connecting again in a way that feels great for both of you.

Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!

Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.

GREAT sex, like truly otherworldly, mind-blowing, life-changing sex is borne out of true intimacy and connection. We find that kind of intimacy and connection when we untangle what we have been hiding behind or protecting ourselves with…. When we can identify why we haven’t been feeling ‘safe’ to open to our partner, when we can work together to untangle dynamics and allow for vulnerability.

Vulnerability breeds intimacy, intimacy opens the door for the sweetest altered states in lovemaking to come through. 

In this weeks episode, we are looking at why you have grown apart sexually…

We are going to deep dive into the dynamics that may be getting in the way of this potential for deeper sensual/sexual connection. What is a relational dynamic? Where do they come from? Why do we get stuck there?

If you have been feeling that it has been difficult to come together sexually or maybe even that feeling sexually connected to your partner feels a million miles away and you don’t know how to get back to it… this is the episode for you.

Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!

Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.

What is your partner trying to tell you that you aren’t hearing?

Are you noticing that your partner has been easily upset about little things? Escalating situations that really didn’t have to be that big a deal?

Or have they been distant? Pulled back and you can feel a quiet seething in the energy when you are around them?

Maybe it feels frustrating, annoying… maybe you feel like you are losing them… like you can’t feel them the way you once did. 

Maybe you even feel like, ‘Who is this person? This isn’t the person that I married/chose to partner with… what’s happening here?’

These behaviors can feel like they are pushing you away.. and yet, they may just be a call for help. An unconscious way of expressing things that they haven’t known how to express OR things they have tried to express and have felt dismissed.

In this episode, we go over what your partner might be trying to tell you and what may be going on under the surface. 

Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!

Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.

For many of us, we have never thought to investigate where our ideas about sex have come from and what we might truly enjoy if we could have ANYTHING…

In this episode we explore, ‘who am I beyond what the culture has taught me about sex? Beyond outside sources that have defined my sexual experience?

What is sexual pleasure is for ME from the inside out? 

What if I get to define who I am sexually from something deep inside of myself? 

How remarkable would that be? How precious, how special and how potentially DIFFERENT?

Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!

Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.

I absolutely celebrate whole-heartedly when a man is dedicated to making sure the woman he’s with orgasms every time. Thank you to those men… AND I’ve worked with more than one couple where his desire to give her pleasure has actually created stress for her. She starts to feel obligated to cum for him and her body is less and less relaxed and in her own unfolding of pleasure.

In this episode we explore what we might do to move beyond our attachments to a certain outcome and be in a true exploration so s3x can truly go to the next level. 

*Yes, this is episode is geared towards heterosexual relationships, not all episodes will be! Dynamics in relating between men and women are what I have the most experience with personally and in my 20 years of work.