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In this engaging conversation, Mark Rosenfeld and Teal Elisabeth discuss personal updates, including Mark's recent and unexpected experience of being ghosted in online dating. They analyze the dynamics of online conversations, emphasizing the importance of communication styles and texting strategies, and debate the value of emoji's before Teal gives Mark an intimidating challenge. The discussion transitions into romantic gestures, with both sharing personal stories that highlight the significance of thoughtful actions in relationships. Finally, they delve into coaching insights, exploring the balance between trusting one's intuition and seeking external advice, ultimately encouraging listeners to develop their own skills in dating and relationships.

Takeaways

Ghosting can happen to anyone, including Mark, and getting attached to outcomes can lead to disappointment.
Effective communication in online dating requires effort and thoughtfulness.
Texting strategies should reflect one's true personality, BUT this is hard to actually achieve (Mark and Teal debate this)
Romantic gestures often hold deeper meaning than grand displays.
Coaching should empower clients to trust their intuition.
It's important to balance personal insights with external advice.
Learning relationship skills is a continuous journey.
Being vulnerable in communication can strengthen connections.
Quality time and presence are vital in romantic relationships.

Chapters
0:00 Introduction
0:34 Teal's Big Week
1:34 How Mark Got Ghosted
12:30 Teal Challenges Mark's Texting
21:28 Sam's Romantic Gesture To Mark
26:17 Spencer's Sheepy? Romantic Gesture To Teal
28:54 How Teal Asked Spencer For Words Of Affirmation
32:43 Your Intuition VS Expert Advice; WHICH To Use & WHEN
44:19 Want Personal Help? Book A Call!

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In this engaging conversation, Mark Rosenfeld and Teal Elisabeth discuss various aspects of dating, focusing on the Tinder project, personal updates, and insights into dating dynamics. They share results from the Tinder project, including statistics on matches and conversations. Mark recounts a dating horror story that highlights the challenges of connecting in person versus online and over the phone, especially when long distance. The discussion also delves into the topic of when to sleep with a man, emphasizing the importance of self-respect and understanding relationship dynamics. The conversation concludes with reflections on dating experiences and advice for listeners.

Takeaways
Mark shares his August Tinder project results, highlighting impressive match rates.
Teal discusses the importance of vitamin D during pregnancy.
Mark recounts a dating horror story that emphasizes the challenges of in-person connections.
The conversation explores the dynamics of initiating intimacy in relationships.
Teal emphasizes the need for women to trust themselves regarding sexual relationships.
Mark discusses the significance of clarity in dating and communication.
The duo reflects on the impact of rejection on personal growth and resilience.
Teal warns against love bombing and its effects on relationships.
Mark shares insights on the importance of setting standards in dating.
The conversation concludes with advice on navigating dating and intimacy.
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Chapters
0:00 Introduction
0:34 Teal's Vitamin D Project
2:47 Days 31-60 Tinder Project RESULTS!
10:51 Mark's Dating HORROR Story
22:23 The Importance Of REJECTION For Men
24:25 When Is The BEST Time To Sleep With A Man
29:51 Mark's Personal Experience Of Timing + Dating Intimacy
33:51 Teal's Perspective On The TIMING Of Intimacy
41:30 Want Personal Help? Book A Call!

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In this engaging conversation, Mark Rosenfeld and Teal Elisabeth explore the intricacies of online dating, sharing personal experiences and insights from the Tinder project including how to move off to the phone quickly and effectively. They then discuss the main topic of maintaining friendships with exes. Mark in particular shares a personal story of how he tried to make it work... and ultimately failed. The conversation also delves into personal dating horror stories, highlighting lessons learned and the evolution of their dating perspectives from Teal, including an incident when she was young where she was treated poorly by her FIRST dates parents! 

Takeaways
The average number of exchanges leading to a phone call is 6.3.
It's crucial to avoid getting bogged down in unproductive conversations.
Women can hint at wanting a phone call by responding to questions with enthusiasm.
Mutual gratitude is essential for maintaining friendships with exes.
Navigating boundaries with exes can be challenging but necessary for relationship health.
The energy you bring to conversations can significantly impact outcomes.
It's important to recognize when to let go of conversations that aren't progressing.
Self-awareness in dating can lead to healthier relationships.
The universe often tests your commitment to personal growth.
Maturity in relationships involves considering your partner's feelings.

Chapters
0:00 Introduction
0:49 A Brief Parenting & Fruit Update
3:30 Days 31-60 - What's Been Working Online
7:15 Moving Conversations To A Phone Call
13:48 Teal's Dating Horror Story
18:00 Teal's Energetic Transformation
19:34 How The Universe Pushes Back
22:36 Ex Etiquette: Navigating Past Relationships
26:38 How Mark Had... Then Lost, His Ex Etiquette
33:43 The Evolution Into Partnership

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In this episode of The Tinder Project, Mark Rosenfeld and Teal Elisabeth discuss the strangest texts Mark has sent to men on Tinder, their healthy and toxic celebrity crushes, and the psychology of love. In this conversation, Teal and Mark discuss the TV show Love is Blind and the concept of vulnerability in relationships. They explore the idea that while the show promotes connection and self-disclosure, it also creates an artificial sense of safety and vulnerability. They discuss the importance of nonverbal cues and the challenges of building trust and intimacy in a real-life setting. They also touch on the similarities between Love is Blind and online dating, highlighting the need for genuine human connection and communication. Overall, they have a love-hate relationship with the show, recognizing its flaws but appreciating its ability to spark conversations about relationships.

Main Takeaways

Making dating fun is important in the online space
Engaging in banter and role play can make conversations more enjoyable
Having a sense of humor and not taking oneself too seriously is attractive
Kate Middleton is seen as a healthy celebrity crush for Mark
Matthew McConaughey is seen as a healthy celebrity crush for Teal
Alyssa Milano and Meghan Markle are seen as toxic celebrity crushes for Mark
Mr. Big is seen as a toxic celebrity crush for Teal
Love is Blind promotes connection and self-disclosure, but it also creates an artificial sense of safety and vulnerability.
Nonverbal cues play a significant role in attraction and building intimacy.
Online dating can be similar to Love is Blind, but the lack of nonverbal cues can hinder genuine connection.
Vulnerability is important in relationships, but it needs to be balanced and appropriate.
Love is Blind sparks conversations about relationships, but it may not accurately represent the challenges of real-life connections.

Chapters
0:00 Introduction
0:38 An Update On... Parenting!
1:52 Day 72 Tinder Project Update
2:59 Amusing Text Exchanges Mark Had This Week
10:04 Mark's 'Healthy' Celebrity Crush
12:44 Teal's 'Healthy' Celebrity Crush
13:37 What Is A... 'Zaddy?'
15:21 Mark's 'Toxic' Celebrity Crush
17:35 Teal's 'Toxic' Celebrity Crush
18:34 Teal's Henry Caville Problem
20:20 Breaking Down The Psychology Of 'Love Is Blind'
35:03 Want To Speak With Us? Book A 1-1 Call

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In this episode of The Tinder Project, hosts Mark Rosenfeld and Teal Riege explore the dynamics of dating, focusing on the initiation of conversations and the complexities of friendships between men and women. They discuss an experiment on how women can initiate conversations on dating apps, the effectiveness of different types of openers, and the importance of vulnerability in relationships. The conversation also delves into whether men and women can truly be just friends, emphasizing the need for clear boundaries and mutual understanding. 

Main Takeaways 

*Women can initiate conversations, but it somewhat depends on your definition of 'initiate'. 
*Self-disclosure can lead to higher quality conversations. 
*Basic greetings can sometimes yield better responses than complex openers.
*Friendship between men and women is possible with clear boundaries.
*Vulnerability is essential for deepening relationships. 
*Initiation can be seen as an invitation rather than a direct approach. 
*Emotional vulnerability should be shared gradually. 
*Practice is key to becoming comfortable with vulnerability. 
*Environmental factors can influence relationship dynamics. 
*Mutual attraction can complicate friendships. 

Chapters 
0:00 Introduction 
0:57 Mark's 'Opening Message' Experiment 
2:17 The Four Types Of Openers We Used 
3:46 Which Openers Worked The Best 
8:43 Can Men And Women Be 'Just Friends'? 
13:47 Should Women EVER Initiate? 
31:15 Want To Speak With Us? 

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Summary
In this episode of The Tinder Project, hosts Mark Rosenfeld and Teal Riege discuss various aspects of online dating, including personal updates, the quality of experiences, the concept of feedback texts, and the nuances of payment on dates. Teal shares her exciting news about her pregnancy, while both hosts reflect on the importance of setting up dating profiles effectively and the significance of feedback in improving dating experiences. They also delve into the complexities of who should pay on dates, emphasizing the need for open communication and understanding in modern relationships.

Takeaways
Teal is pregnant, marking an exciting personal update.
Quality online dating experiences can be achieved with the right profile setup.
Feedback texts can provide valuable insights into dating experiences.
Confidence is key when seeking feedback from past dates.
Navigating payment on dates requires open communication and understanding.
Expectations and standards in dating can influence relationship dynamics.
It's important to avoid taking care of men financially to maintain respect.
Energy levels during dates can significantly impact attraction.
Offering to pay can create a positive dynamic in dating.
Understanding personal values around money is crucial in relationships.

Chapters
0:00 Introduction
1:05 Teal's Special News
2:37 Dating App LOLs From This Week
7:45 What Is A 'Feedback Text' And When Can You Use It?
15:46 Who Should Pay For The Date?
24:22 What To Do When A Date Location Is Well Beyond Your Budget
26:45 If You Make The Same Money As Him, If/When Should You Start Offering To Pay?

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Summary
In this episode of The Tinder Project, hosts Mark and Teal explore the dynamics of online dating, sharing insights from their experiences with various dating apps. They discuss the effectiveness of different platforms, personal growth through dating, and the complexities of trauma in relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding relationship skills and the impact of past trauma on current dynamics, encouraging listeners to approach these topics with discernment and compassion.

Takeaways

The effectiveness of dating apps can vary significantly.
Personal growth is a key benefit of dating experiences.
Trauma can be contagious and affect relationship dynamics.
It's important to assess how trauma impacts relationship skills.
Men often need a safe space to express their emotions.
Women should not feel responsible for fixing men's trauma.
Understanding the nuances of rejection can enhance dating experiences.
Being authentic can attract positive attention in dating.
It's crucial to communicate clearly about interest and boundaries.
Compassion and discernment are essential when dealing with trauma in relationships.

0:00 Introduction
1:03 Match Vs Bumble for a 57-Year-Old Client
7:08 Teal's Most Profound '1st-date' Learning
12:10 Mark's Most Profound '1st-date' Learning
19:26 HIS Trauma - Red FLAG or Red HERRING?
30:52 Book A Call To Speak To Us

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Summary
In this episode of The Tinder Project, hosts Mark Rosenfeld and Teal Elisabeth explore the dynamics of online dating, focusing on the importance of first date locations, celebrating positive male behaviors termed 'cyber chivalry', and addressing the common struggle of attracting the right partners - especially when you get an onslaught of people you're NOT attracted to but seemingly fail to attract the ones you DO feel attraction for. They emphasize the significance of being authentic, open, and embodying the traits one wishes to attract in a partner, while also providing practical advice for navigating dating scenarios.

Takeaways

The importance of celebrating positive male behaviors in online dating.
First date locations should be fun and engaging to ease pressure.
Being active and moving during dates can enhance connection.
Acknowledging a man's effort in asking you out is crucial.
Women should embody the traits they wish to attract in men.
Emotional safety is key in relationships and dating.
Non-attachment to outcomes can lead to better dating experiences.
Being authentic and open is essential in attracting the right partner.
Feedback in dating helps both parties understand each other better.
It's important to enjoy the dating process without overthinking.

Chapters
0:00 Introduction
1:56 Celebrating Cyber Chivalry
8:13 Exploring First Date Locations
13:26 How To 'Steer' A Man AWAY From BAD First Date Locations
17:00 Why I'm Only Attracting Men I'm NOT Interested In

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Summary
In this episode of The Tinder Project, hosts Mark Rosenfeld and Teal Elizabeth explore various aspects of online dating, including the dynamics of women messaging first, the importance of unique conversation starters, and the ethics of dating multiple people simultaneously. Teal shares a humorous yet cautionary dating story from her past, while the discussion also delves into the psychological principles that can enhance dating experiences. The episode concludes with a profound reflection on maintaining presence in the dating process while holding hope for the future.

Key Takeaways
The concept of women messaging first can change the dynamics of online dating.
Unique openers can significantly impact the quality of responses in dating apps.
Pattern interrupts can create excitement and engagement in conversations.
Self-disclosure is crucial for women to feel valued in dating.
Dating multiple people can help break unhealthy patterns and provide contrast.
Seeing a partner in various situations reveals their true character.
It's important to avoid rushing into commitment to maintain healthy boundaries.
The Stockdale Paradox illustrates the balance between hope and presence in dating.
Expectations can create pressure in relationships; it's essential to manage them.
Being present in the dating process allows for a more authentic connection.

Chapters
00:00
Introduction to The Tinder Project
00:58
Experimenting with Women Messaging First
06:12
The Importance of Unique Openers
07:04
Teal's Ridiculous Dating Story
11:15
The Ethics of Circular Dating
19:10
The Stockdale Paradox and Dating Mindset

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In this episode of The Tinder Project, hosts Mark Rosenfeld and Teal Elisabeth explore the dynamics of online dating, sharing humorous anecdotes and insights from their experiences. They introduce a new segment highlighting the best and worst profiles encountered, leading to a deeper discussion on whether individuals should change themselves to improve their dating prospects. The conversation delves into the complexities of identity, authenticity, and personal growth, encouraging listeners to reflect on their true selves and the identities they may need to shed for healthier relationships.

Takeaways
The Tinder Project aims to make dating fun and easy.
Humor plays a key role in navigating online dating.
Profiles can be both entertaining and revealing about personality.
Creativity in dating profiles can stand out positively.
Authenticity is crucial in dating and relationships.
Changing superficial aspects of oneself can be beneficial.
Understanding the three parts of self: body, mind, and soul.
Identities can be limiting and may need to be re-evaluated.
Personal growth often requires shedding outdated identities.
The essence of who we are should be celebrated and expressed.

Chapters
00:00
Introduction to The Tinder Project
01:23
Wit and Dim Wit of the Week
10:14
Should You Change for Dating?
23:29
Identity and Authenticity in Relationships

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