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   Number 1: Parenting, Stress, Slowing Down and Finding Joy

   Get the BOOK In this episode, we share our honest experiences of parenting through a challenging summer, the stress, expectations, slowing down, and finding joy in simple moments. We discuss how societal pressures and personal struggles impact our mental health and relationships, emphasizing the importance of grace and perspective. 0:00 — Intro 0:18 — A hard summer 1:45 — No breaks, no help 3:42 — Comparing our summer 5:31 — Teaching patience 6:05 — The pressure of comparison 8:19 — Too much stimulation 10:08 — Boredom was a luxury 11:27 — Are we doing enough? 13:27 — Give yourself grace 14:27 — Present vs. realistic 17:01 — Slow down, don’t speed up 18:10 — What would we miss? 20:12 — Random togetherness 21:33 — Creating a home you don’t need to vacation from 23:59 — Small moments matter 26:21 — Entering a new phase of life 27:51 — Sobriety and daily work 28:03 — Looking beyond yourself 29:09 — The pressure of being the provider 31:31 — Perspective and mental battles 34:23 — You’re not alone 36:24 — Calling it what it is 39:02 — Struggle builds strength 41:38 — Closing and subscribe reminder Follow The Tired Dad Follow The Tired Mom Follow on YouTube Follow on Substack Follow on Facebook Follow on TikTok Send your questions, comments, and stories to [email protected] Send collaboration inquires to [email protected]

   July 28, 2026·44min
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   Number 2: The Roommate Phase

   Get the BOOK Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the episode and personal background 00:48 The roommate phase and its effects on marriage 02:18 The importance of stopping competition in relationships 03:28 The dangers of rehearsed arguments and ego defense 04:28 Influence of outside opinions and family on marriage 05:42 Effective communication and understanding each other's perspectives 07:28 Emotional intelligence and gender differences 09:22 Killing the ego to connect emotionally 10:14 Jessica's independence and power struggle in early marriage 12:22 Embracing authenticity and emotional vulnerability 14:12 Redefining strength through emotional intelligence 15:18 The impact of ego on intimacy and sex life 17:11 Reciprocity and unconditional love in marriage 20:32 Addressing purity culture and past relationship influences 22:26 Recommended reading: Ego as the Enemy by Ryan Holiday 23:24 Closing remarks and gratitude Follow The Tired Dad Follow The Tired Mom Follow on YouTube Follow on Substack Follow on Facebook Follow on TikTok Send your questions, comments, and stories to [email protected] Send collaboration inquires to [email protected]

   July 24, 2026·24min
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   Number 3: A Safe Home, Real Community, and Showing Empathy

   Pre-Order a Signed Copy of The Tired Dad Pre-Order The Tired Dad (00:00) Introduction—Setting the tone with real talk on parenting and life (02:04) The significance of home as a safe space for kids and the importance of emotional support (08:55) Shifting parenting styles and the rise of modern, empathetic approaches (11:29) Understanding bullies and their backgrounds; inner child perspectives (15:09) Road rage and everyday scenarios as expressions of personal struggles (17:44) The lessons from martial arts: self-control, humility, and true strength (21:07) Discussing martial arts levels and the benefits of consistently practicing Jujitsu (24:38) The humorous side of martial arts practice—blue belts and playful competitiveness (36:55) Reflections on community, friendships, and the idyllic outdoor lifestyle in Florida (42:18) The impact of environment and seasonal changes on mental health (43:42) Time zones and daylight hours—how location shapes daily life (45:14) Relationship insights—comparing past loves with current partners (52:30) The evolution of skateboarding culture—from outsider activity to Olympic sport (55:27) Upcoming podcast guest appearances and personal milestones

   March 31, 2026·58min
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   Number 4: Mental Health, Social Media, and Family Life

   Pre-Order a Signed Copy of The Tired Dad Pre-Order The Tired Dad In this episode, Jess and I open up about our experiences with mental health and the realities of raising kids in a social media-driven world. We share our personal struggles, what we’re learning along the way, and why authenticity, boundaries, and staying connected as a family matter more than ever. Chapters 00:00 – Introduction: Parenting, mental health, and honesty 00:19 – Jess shares her ADHD diagnosis journey 01:24 – Childhood experiences and managing symptoms 02:36 – Family reactions to the diagnosis 03:59 – High school years and organization struggles 04:57 – Social pressure and its impact on parenting 06:28 – Illness and canceled spring break plans 08:54 – Embracing imperfect family moments 10:20 – Spring break highlights and simple joys 12:47 – Parenting in a social media-driven world 15:13 – Kids, YouTube, and consumerism concerns 18:49 – Setting boundaries and protecting childhood 23:09 – Mental health and excessive phone use 26:31 – Addiction, recovery, and seeking help 39:00 – Supporting loved ones through struggles 44:01 – Kindness, community, and reducing screen time 44:36 – Healthier alternatives to social media 45:39 – Final thoughts and encouragement

   March 23, 2026·47min
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   Number 5: Friendships After Kids, Discipline, and You're Not Doing As Bad As You Think

   Pre-Order a Signed Copy of The Tired Dad Pre-Order The Tired Dad 00:00 - Welcome and episode overview 00:18 - How parenting can isolate social life 01:10 - The impact of sobriety and limited social opportunities 02:09 - Longing for female friendship and deep connection 03:07 - Recalling pre-parenthood friendships and their depth 03:45 - Winter isolation and planning spontaneous meetups 04:21 - The importance of informal hangouts and neighborhood bonds 04:52 - Building new friendships without a long shared history 05:03 - Challenges of starting over socially in adulthood 06:44 - Men’s struggle with connection, interests, and shared hobbies 07:43 - Common male pursuits: exercise, golf, food, and hunting 08:50 - The cultural differences in interests and hobbies 09:04 - Parenting phase differences and social opportunities with young children 10:24 - Male loneliness epidemic and emotional health 11:51 - The effect of fulfilled childhood friendships on current loneliness 12:49 - Recognizing loneliness and seasonal depression 13:25 - The tendency to isolate and burnout management 14:28 - The need for planned adult outings and social planning 15:38 - Moving out of toddler survival mode into a more balanced phase 16:25 - The joys of children’s self-expression and growth 17:14 - Balancing sports, commitments, and family priorities 18:08 - Age and interest alignment in extracurricular activities 19:08 - Debating sports legends and cultural icons 20:46 - The emotional significance of witnessing childhood milestones 23:44 - Parenting moments, memories, and the fleeting nature of childhood routines 28:23 - Recognizing and celebrating children’s independence and growth 29:29 - The influence of children’s communication and emotional development 33:05 - Teaching children life skills like gratitude and boundaries 34:30 - The importance of modeling good behavior, not just compliance 35:42 - The emotional depth of parenting and self-regulation 36:47 - Continuing to show up and care despite fatigue 37:04 - Exciting announcement: pre-ordering the host’s book, special incentives, and a playlist 38:03 - Closing remarks and gratitude for listeners Subscribe to my weekly reflections on Substack Follow The Tired Dad on Instagram Follow The Tired Mom on Instagram Subscribe to Youtube Follow on TikTok Follow on Facebook For partnerships, email [email protected]

   March 10, 2026·39min
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