This is the human resource for those surviving family court, social workers and lawyers etc. The reality vs the Myths we are told. How to be prepared for the bullying stress or fear and confusion. The strange things that have been reported to go on. From a woman and mother’s perspective rather than what we are told by lawyers , Cafcass, GALs , charities and society in general. Also I hope for those professionals listening 👂 it will give you an insight into how it feels and what really goes on so they can improve their approaches.

I’m getting sick of hearing people dismissing, criticising, smear campaigning, labelling, gaslighting and bullying mothers. Let’s put a stop to it.

What next , after experiencing all this hell? Well putting all our experiences into a book 📚 that’s what. To help others and to raise the profile and issue we women face. Feeling so positive. See Fb page for more information. Join me for a chat and a live soon .

Empower yourself and others and make sense of what could happen, is happening, has happened with free and low cost access to information re family law and your rights/ responsibilities

Today’s episode covers the basics of requesting information about yourself or your children. How to put in a request. What to expect.

The term “ Body Count” how language is used to control women .

Tell me more about your experience of stalking. How to make a plan. How to recognise it. Where to get help. How to get help and what to expect

Thanks everyone for sharing with me your stories, information and facts about your experiences. I can collect this to update and educate . Hope you are all off to a positive January start and able to access my Fb page too. The trauma of abuse podcast Fb page . For further information, interest and how to contact me.

I’m often asked how can I avoid a bad relationship again or how can I decide if I should leave a bad situation. Apology if this recording is quiet may need headphones and I have a chest infection when recording. So not as clear as usual. Be sure to visit my trauma of abuse Facebook page .

Hi everyone, thanks for all your input into my research. I’m offering individual support and help to people who want help with documentation and understanding the system etc. get in touch @traumofabuse Fb page message The Trauma of abuse. Or to Donate ( optional)