On this segment the boys wrap up their discussion of what it means to be an adult. Thulani discusses his experience of dealing with failure and coping with seeing his friends move on to chase their dreams or continuing their studies. He also discusses his experience being forced to not continue his post graduate studies due to financial difficulties in his family.

The boys also close the loop on what it means to make the required sacrifices to chase your dreams and whether or not our dreams are valid.

Thank you for joining us on this particular segment of the Adulting Theme.

Please feel free to reach out to us in our DM’s:

IG: @darrol_drabile

IG: @uthulani_

Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io

Produced By White Hot

So when exactly did you stop asking for pocket money from your parents or guardians?

On this next segment, Thulani explores the moment which hit him when he realized that he had finally become an adult. He touched on his experience leaving his parents nest, finding a job and adjusting to a world he never knew. We discuss some of the trade off decisions our parents needed to make when they were younger and whether or not they had to grow up a lot sooner than the millennials did.

We also take a deep dive into whether or not it’s okay to drop everything you are currently doing and follow a different career path.

Please feel free to reach out to us in our DM’s:

IG: @darrol_drabile

IG: @uthulani_

Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io

Produced By White Hot

Is life a journey or a destination? If it is a destination what happens when you get there? If it is a journey what is the process of this never ending trail? These are the questions we are all asking ourselves as we grow older. Is all the pain and suffering going to be worth it or are we doomed for a lifetime of trials? We urge you to ask yourself what level of achievement you are willing to strive for and if you are ready for the sacrifices attached to it.

Please feel free to reach out to us in our DM’s:

IG: @darrol_drabile

IG: @uthulani_

Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io

Produced By White Hot

Welcome back to the Trench Effect(s) podcast!

On this opening episode the duo kick it off by catching up on where their heads are today. They go on to introduce the next theme (we won’t mention it in the description so you actually listen to us!). They close off the episode by discussing university relationships and if one needs a season of singleness to find their soul.

Please feel free to reach out to us in our DM’s:

IG: @darrol_drabile

IG: @uthulani_

Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io

Produced By White Hot

The Boys are back at it with a new Series. Do you like getting old? Most people find the transition from teenager to being adults quite tough. The term coined for this transition is Adulting and that is the name our new series name. Varsity is the first of this butterfly effect process. We invited a few Trenchies to share their experience. The boys tried to channel their inner Morgan Freeman . Enjoy The process.

Please feel free to reach out to us in our DM’s:

IG: @darrol_drabile

IG: @uthulani_

Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io

Produced By White Hot

On this segment the duo take some time to reflect on the past few weeks and discuss their observation of the response to the Love and Relationships theme.

They also selected some common questions from the listeners and addressed them in order to provide some closure.

Thank you for joining us on the journey for this theme! We hope this answers any outstanding questions you have.

Please feel free to reach out to us in our DM’s:

IG: @darrol_drabile

IG: @uthulani_

Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io

Produced By White Hot

THE END – Welcome to the last episode of the Love and Relationships series.

What’s scarier? Bungee Jumping or talking about finances with your partner? Most would probably go Bungee Jumping before they utter a word about their Financial standing with their partners. In this final installment we deal with social hierarchies, talking money with potential and current partners and why its important to talk about clearly defined financial goals with your partner. We then round up with Darrol telling us which show he believes portrays real love the best.

Please feel free to reach out to us in our DM’s:

IG: @darrol_drabile

IG: @uthulani_

Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io

Produced By White Hot

What are trophies? A trophy is a tangible, durable reminder of a specific achievement and serves as recognition or evidence of merit. In this next episode the boys discuss treating their exes like trophies and feeling entitled to dictate who their former partners should date. Are you over your ex? It might seem like an easy answer for you right now but wait until your best friend starts courting your ex. It might make you start questioning whether you over them or not. We hope you enjoy the episode

Please feel free to reach out to us in our DM’s:

IG: @darrol_drabile

IG: @uthulani_

Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io

Produced By White Hot

Welcome Back and thank you! We are in the midst of the Love and Relationship series. This is Episode 2 of that conversation. We start off by taking a look at the history of relationships and how love eventually started becoming a prominent part of the relationship concept. We delve deeper and look closely at the music and lifestyle of the rapper Future. We explore why so many people relate to his music and how you and I find ourselves in his music. The Chuck Norris of the Dynamic Duo (Darrol) opens up about his past relationship and tells us about his journey to the restoration of his heart.

Please feel free to reach out to us in our DM’s:

IG: @darrol_drabile

IG: @uthulani_

Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io

Produced By White Hot

Welcome and stay tuned! We hope our minds are a safe space for you to relax in for the next 50 Minutes. This is episode 1 of a series talking about 21st Century dating, love, relationships and marriage. In the Episode we deal with the truths of change, regardless of whether good or bad. We speak of dealing with expectations in relationships and the ones we have with ourselves. We also try to offer our versions of mitigating these expectations.

Please feel free to reach out to us in our DM’s:

IG: @darrol_drabile

IG: @uthulani_

Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io

Produced By White Hot