The Tried & Truth Podcast: Rethinking Success for This Season

Ruth Chou Simons, bestselling and award-winning author, artist, entrepreneur, speaker and owner of GraceLaced.com joins us in this week’s episode. She shares more on her story of finding freedom from striving and how we, too, can be free from the burden of performing and bettering ourselves to be “good enough”.  Through conversations about her latest book, she invites us to experience the upcoming holiday season with greater meaning and new perspective. 

Episode Highlights

What the internet causes us to think (4:28)

How we’re wired to view self worth (7:48)

What we underestimate and the journey we’re actually called to (8:46)

The pressure to perform (9:10)

The root of our unhappiness (14:27)

A tip from Ruth on raising kids and staying grounded today (24:05)

What success looks like (29:22)

Truths and Takeaways (36:09)

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

https://ruthchousimons.com/

Books: 

Emmanuel www.emmanuelbook.com

When Strivings Cease https://ruthchousimons.com/whenstrivingscease/

Follow Ruth Chou Simons @:

https://www.facebook.com/gracelaced

https://www.instagram.com/ruthchousimons/

https://www.instagram.com/gracelaced/

If he could only have one conversation with someone, he knew what it would be (and so he wrote a book about it) and we’re talking all about that in this episode. James Patterson, author of From Your Biggest Fan: Discovering the Potential of Those We Love and Lead, joins us to share more on his latest book. Whether those you “lead and love” include friends, neighbors, staff, co-workers, classmates, a spouse, or kids, he’s unpacking simple habits for you to help others around you discover their true worth and fullest potential.

In this episode, Jason talks about the challenges we face with our own insecurities and shares insights on why and how to overcome them.  He speaks to his own story of choosing voices wisely and how we, too, can take practical steps to do the same.  You’ll hear his take on what to do if you want to leave a life-long impact and learn the three things that help you become a better leader (and the biggest fan) to those you love and lead. 

Mentioned in this episode: 

Book: From Your Biggest Fan: Discovering the Potential of Those We Love and Lead

Website: https://biggestfanleaders.com/

Follow Jason on IG @jasonmpatterson

In today’s episode, we’re talking all about anxiety with licensed professional counselor, Bessie Ann Christenson. She shares the paradoxical truths about anxiety, the #1 question you can ask yourself when anxious thoughts begin to creep in, and how to re-engage when you feel disconnected at work and home.  You'll hear her tips on what to avoid and not avoid when fear and anxiety set in and practical steps to move past the anxious thoughts that are holding you back from making decisions, moving forward, and taking healthy risks. 

You’ll be encouraged by her words and practical tips, knowing you’re not alone and can have simple tools at your fingertips. 

Mentioned in this episode: 

Rehope Counseling - www.rehopecounseling.com

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Kicking off a new season and ready to share some great conversations with some amazing guests! In this episode...

What beat have you been marching to? Is it the one driven by busyness or anxiousness? Perhaps it's one that has led you to feeling stuck or stressed? Whether you're feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or simply in need of a breathe of fresh air to lead you towards greater contentment and joy filled anticipation of what is to come, we're kicking off this season talking all about it.  

Mentioned in this episode:

Book: Rhythms of Renewal by Rebekah Lyons

Podcast Episode: Holding Space and Living Open Handed with Stefanie Boyce

Place: The Oaks Center 

It's a wrap! Signing off for the summer, but not without this episode first!

Listen in on this short and sweet episode as we chat more about:

• Letting go of things we've held onto, allowing things to change, knowing they can still be wonderful. 

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If you're just tuning in, welcome!  I'm Annica and I’m on a mission to build a community around simple truths, life and business secrets, and everything in between...To uncomplicate the learning experience, keep us all growing, inspired, leading more fulfilling lives, and doing more meaningful work! You can find me on Instagram - @annicafischer or at www.annicafischer.com. 

Stefanie Boyce, Director at The Oaks, joins us on the podcast this week to encourage us and talk through holding space for ourselves and others.  We’re talking about: 

• Where transformation happens

About Stefanie: Stefanie Boyce is The Oaks Director and creator of the Oaks Flagship Retreat signature framework. Blending her creative passions and training in psychology, yoga, and spiritual direction, Stefanie loves holding space for others to rest, recalibrate, and refocus as they build a rhythm of retreat. Stefanie lives outside of San Diego, CA with her family.

You can find Stefanie on IG @stefanieboyce5 and check out the Oaks @oakscenter or theoakscenter.com

Mentioned in the episode: 10% off the program fee for any flagship retreat - TTP22

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If you're just tuning in, welcome!  I'm Annica and I’m on a mission to build a community around simple truths, life and business secrets, and everything in between...To uncomplicate the learning experience, keep us all growing, inspired, leading more fulfilling lives, and doing more meaningful work! You can find me on instagram - IG@annicafischer.  I'd love to learn more about your story - send me a DM! You can also check out other helpful resources at www.annicafischer.com to help you navigate this season and find greater clarity in your every day.  

Ryan Frederick of Fierce Marriage joins us this week to talk about marriage.

In this episode, we’re talking about: 

- What marriages need most right now

- The #1 thing you need to know about your marriage 

- What's plaguing marriages and the common struggles couples face today (be encouraged, you're not alone in them)

- Practical tips to strengthen, invest in, and further ground your marriage

- Creating alignment to sustain the season you’re in and the seasons you’re moving towards (together)

He walks us through the behind the scenes story of Fierce Marriage -  from a quarter-life moment of reaching a “goal” that turned out not to meet up to its hype that led him and his wife down a path of using what they had to impact lives around them, including their own. 

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About Fierce Marriage 

Ryan and his wife, Selena, started Fierce Marriage to help them process marriage’s trials as well as celebrate its joys. They are in our 18th year of marriage and have learned a ton about what works and what doesn’t. Their hope is that as they share openly, it will help you grow and cultivate a truly Christ-centered marriage. They've spent the past 7 years ministering to married couples around the world. Fierce Marriage ministry has grown  beyond their wildest dreams, all while giving them three wonderful daughters (Adelaide, Clementine, and Louisa). 

Find them and follow along at:

@fiercemarriage on Instagram

https://fiercemarriage.com/

https://fierceparenting.com/

AND...If you're new here, welcome! You can find more at annicafischer.com

Nicole Zasowski, author and licensed marriage and family therapist, joins us this week to share more on her latest book - What If It’s Wonderful? Release Your Fears, Choose Joy, and Find the Courage to Celebrate. 

In this episode, Nicole: 

• Unpacks fears that keep you from looking forward to the future with joy.

If you’re a worst case-scenario thinker, worried that joy and celebration come with a catch, are held back by fears, or simply want to live a more wonder-filled life, this is your episode.

Nicole Zasowksi  

Get Nicole’s latest book: What If It’s Wonderful?

Book Bonuses: nicolezasowski.com/wonderful

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Katie Roering is the co-founder of Fontana Candle Co., a candle company passionate about natural health and wellness. After walking away from what she thought was her dream business in the dog industry, Katie shares her journey through the in-between chapter of their story, which eventually led them to launch Fontana Candle Co. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, wanting to start something new, or in the midst of a transition, you’ll be inspired by their story.  We’re talking about entrepreneurship, knowing yourself best, doing business with a spouse, and her advice on what to do when plans don’t turn out as expected. 

Katie share more about: 

• What has been the biggest challenge you've faced/lesson you've learned as an entrepreneur?

About Fontana Candle Co. 

Fontana Candle Company is family-owned company, founded in 2017 by Katie and her husband, Eric. They are passionate about natural health and wellness; and handcrafting the best all natural candles for a healthy and happy home. 

Website: https://fontanacandlecompany.com/

Instagram: @fontanacandlecompany

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If you're just tuning in, welcome!  I'm Annica and I’m on a mission to build a community around simple truths, life and business secrets, and everything in between...To uncomplicate the learning experience, keep us all growing, inspired, leading more fulfilling lives, and doing more meaningful work! You can find me on Instagram - @annicafischer or at www.annicafischer.com. I'd love to connect with you there, too! 

Work looks different for all of us, but regardless of the "kind of work" you do, it all comes with the opportunity to build value for others.  In this episode, I'm sharing a few of the best value-adding tips to enhance your work, relationships, business, team, or the experience of those you work with. 

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If you're just tuning in, welcome!  I'm Annica and I’m on a mission to build a community around simple truths, life and business secrets, and everything in between...To uncomplicate the learning experience, keep us all growing, inspired, leading more fulfilling lives, and doing more meaningful work! You can find me on Instagram - @annicafischer or at www.annicafischer.com. 

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