I had the privilege of working with Laia Sastre as a client at a time before she embarked on her entrepreneurial journey.  She was a strong, driven and independent young woman knowing there was more to life than what she had experienced, yet not clear on what that was.  With a strong masculine energy, she did well with setting goals, taking massive amounts of action, and solving problems.  Fast forward, and the now mom of two is discovering a new way of being, a new space for Self, and a trust in her intuition and feelings.  

In this conversation we delve deeper into the human experience.

Some of what we discussed:

► The pressure of being an independent woman

► The ‘Bad Mom’ club

► Learning how to pause

► Business on heart frequency

► Living with my Self

I would love to hear about your experience of business and networking at this time.  Let me know in the comments.

Connect with Laia Sastre :

[email protected]

www.ebm.nz

LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laiasastre/

Let's do this...

Let's partner

right here

right now

in the calibration to greatness.

Done listening to the lies

of how you're not great

yet

of how you're not capable

yet

when you my darling Sister

ARE the human embodiment of greatness

to the very core of your being.

Anyone who tells you different

who tells you that you first have to heal the past

that you first have to do something to astound the masses

that you first have to find your purpose in service to others

can go jump over the fence

back into the sheople camp of insanity.

I invite you to go within

to the place pulsating with your essence

connect to the knowing

that you've chosen to bring creation consciousness

into your body

to focus on this dimension

in our ever-expanding

ever-evolving

co-creative efforts

to move consciousness into a space

that's not been before.

Yes yes

we are all duped into the limiting beliefs through fear consciousness

the beliefs that has us self-sacrifice for the sake of glory

believing the applause of others dictates our worth.

Bulderdash!

There is no cap to your worth

there is no cap to your deservingness

there is no cap to your artistic capability

there is no cap to your power of influece

because there is no cap to YOU!

Oh my friend,

FEEL the truth in this.

FEEL the glory of remembrance

as she runs through your veins

infusing you with renewed energy

and you finally

finally

salute the masses with your manicured middle finger

in defiance to the lies

and the limitations

giving yourself permission

to unshackle your magnificence

and shine radiantly

so those who have chosen to do the same

can see you

and find you.

In this

we rempower humanity

to stop thinking they have to save another

choosing instead to exemplify

the power of intentional decision

which takes no small amount of faith

for more will detest you than love you

until finally consciousness will tip

and Divine Love will saturate our world once more.

You have to keep strong Hon,

focussed on what you want to grow

through the power of your loving gaze.

This is why lone wolves are congregating in sister-packs

for we no longer choose to go it alone

instead calling upon the amplification of the sum.

It's time to live our legacies: unleashed, unlimited, unapologetic.

It's time to play.

Elle xo

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I have some questions for you today.

Questions

that will serve you well

to ponder upon

as their answers

will be the key

that unlocks

your truth...

Who have you decided

you needed to be

in order for you to be granted permission

to live your best life

to be your best self

to create your best art?

What is the title

the level of success

you've told yourself

you need to achieve

in order for you

to deserve

to be worthy of

the very best of the best?

What I've come to realise Darling

is there is no THERE

where you will ever FEEL

that which you don't OWN for yourself

HERE.

Nobody has authority over you

not your momma

not your daddy

not the preacher nor the teacher

not those who have appointed themselves as your mentors and gurus

who will ever have the influence

appointed by the Creator

as the Creator

which is

You.

In this

you will find your worth

you will find the truth of who you are

of what you are

from which the choice to make

is whether you're going to take full responsibility

through intentional focus and decision

to live your legacy in the now

or if you will continue to negate your sovereignty

putting it falsely on another

whilst still creating contrast and suffering in infantile submission to fear consciousness

which is all it is my friend.

Today I invite you to tap into the frequency of your operating consciousness

and ask yourself:

Am I choosing under the influence of Divine Love

or am I under the influence of collective fear?

For when you're choosing the frequency of Divine Love

you CHOOSE to BE

she who leads from Self

she who lives artistically

she who takes sovereign responsibility for her power of influence on the creation of All That Is

she who focus with intentionality

she who casts spells of abundance, strength and richness

she who lives her legacy: unleashed, unlimited, unapologetic.

It's time to play,

Elle xo

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One of the greatest gifts of the art of coaching, is the symbiotic nature of the relationship.  It’s a space of mutual development, and there’s something remarkable when a young woman brings you profound insight.  

Such a woman is Tinuke.  I remember her for her enthusiastic curiosity and a willingness to be wrong.  An approach which impacted my relationship with Self in a beautiful way.  So it is with great pleasure that I chat to her today about her journey long after we worked together.

In this episode, we delve into a deep conversation around wholeness and congruence.

Some of what we discussed:

► A crisis in faith

► Falling apart and falling together

► Taking a stand for being human

► Shadow integration

► Being at ease with your body

I would love to hear about your journey to self and some of the moments which created space for wholeness.  Let me know in the comments.

Connect with Tinuke Bababola-Harry :

https://linktr.ee/MzBH

Okay Sunshine

it's time for us to have this conversation

the unfiltered

right-hook upper-cut

delivered with Love

as the world has just lost the voice

of another unapologetic Diva

and I suspect

she's moved over

for YOU to step up

and thrive!

Question is,

are you going to?

Are you going to unleash yourself

from all the propriety

the fear conscious jealousy

the unacceptable choice of suffering

by women

allowing themselves

to be dimmed down

toned down

inhibited

through out-dated narratives

speaking of what was

rather than

what can be

if only

you would stop waiting for someone else

to go first

or give you permission

to take centre stage

calibrating to the Diva within.

Yes yes

I heard it too

soooo many times

You're too much Elle

Tone it down Elle

Dim your light for the shadow you cast hides my feeble attempt to feel strong Elle

And so I did

- because nobody has the power to make me small BUT me

taking full ownership of my choice -

I toned it down to a whisper

I shrunk until my knees scraped on the floor

I dimmed my light

and found

that no matter how small I made myself

even to a flicker of being snuffed out

it made to difference to those who live in shadow consciousness

It's not my responsibility to become small enough for another to feel big

it's my responsibility to BE ALL that I have potential of being

inspiring some

offending others

having to choose every step of the way

to sow the seeds of magnificence

or fertilise the status quo.

As it is yours Sister.

Today is the day to choose.

Who will have the audacity

the titanium ovaries

to unapologetically unleash herself from the shackles of smallness

and be

the Diva she was made to be?

Let's live our legacies: unleashed, unlimited, unapologetic and un-dimmed.

You are loved in your fullness.

Elle xo

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This was such an unexpected conversation, and as someone who is going through the effects of menopause, welcome indeed!  

Jen Corcoran is one of those women you meet and immediately know the care she feels for others, is the real deal.  It’s why she made herself available for this podcast recording, whilst on holiday, sitting on her bed.  

We so often hear the word authenticity being used, yet rarely do we get to experience it as beautifully as with Jen.  She opened up unapologetically about her experience going through peri-menopause and how it’s impacting her energy and her business.

Some of what we discussed:

► Learning to play to energy

► The energy of being vs doing

► Sensitivity as a business woman

► Pricing

If you’re going through peri-menopause or menopause, I would love to hear about your experience and some of what you’re doing to navigate this energy change whilst building your business.  Let me know in the comments.

Connect with Jen Corcoran :

My LinkedIn Profile (Jen Corcoran):

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jen-corcoran-mysuperconnector/

LinkedIn Group for Sensitive Female Entrepreneurs – ‘Connecting Tips with My Super Connector’

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5 days of top tips & my Maximise Your Profile Checklist when they subscribe

https://mysuperconnector.co.uk 

Free 20-minute LinkedIn Game Plan Call for Ambitious Ladies who want to Generate Consistent Leads

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Shhhhh Darling

Lock those lips

and let not

one more lie escape them

of how you're not ready

of how you're not worthy

of how you're not the one

born to shine

I call forth truth

of worth through choice of birth

I call forth truth

of readiness through your inhalation

and then ask you

what are you doing with your exhalation?

THIS

is the nugget you've been searching for.

Remembrance of the magic of the exhale.

Where you surrender to your genius within

where you bring your focus to your desires

where you send your energy to manifestation

and in the remembrance

you alchemise your fear of judgement

your fear of abandonment

into sovereign power

as an Unapologetic Woman

here to break through the consciousness barrier of the prostitute sellig her soul, her worth, her dreams, for a pat on the head

the consciousness barrier of the child relinquishing her power for the sake of irresponsibility

the consciousness of the victim unwilling to be a burden, unwilling to be disciplined, unwilling to take ownership of life

the consiousness of the saboteur always doubting herself, never feeling qualified enough, never willing to trust her magic, her intuition because she would rather play small and explain why she has to shuffle step by step than obliterate reasononing with the unexplainable power of creation

here to set a path ablaze for generations to follow

here to cast a new spell

of Divine Love

of Rempowerment

of Luxury

of Intentionality

of Synchronicity

This my dear sister

is how we shall live our legacy: unleashed, unlimited, unapologetic

You are loved in your allness,

Elle xo

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It's arrived...

The day you've been waiting for

the day you've been getting ready for.

The day

you get to choose

to astound us

with the fullness of YOU.

Thing is Darling,

you still have free will

you still have choice

so you can either grab this day by his mane

riding him like the proud stallion he is

or you can keep telling yourself

you're not ready

you just need one more day

one more week

one more month

& then

you'll show us

who you really are

IF

you have remembered you are magnificence in human form

the alternative is

you're still caught in the illusion

that you are a small insignificant shadow of a woman

scrutinised by strangers

found lacking...

When did we start telling our daughters they are ANYTHING but ASTOUNDING???

When did we start believing it???

Before you make your choice

let me ask you:

Where did you first hear the stories

the reasons

as to why now

or why not now

Do they originate from within

from your Inner Being

your Inner Knowing

as indicated by a resounding

HELL YES LET'S GO

or did you pick them up along the way

either from someone saying something to you

that had you hesitate

that had you doubt

that made perfect sense

as to the A B C's you first had to do

before you could shine

or maybe you're simply hypnotised by the spells cast all around

as more and more people are regurgitating the same words

without question

without introspection

thereby taking their power

wrapping it in toilet paper

and sending it off to the big blue ocean?

It's here my friend

this day

& it's asking you to choose

without judgement or shame

for Consciousness evolves regardless

but what you need to start asking yourself is

why would you allow one more day to pass you by

without experiencing the phenomenal potential it holds

as mirrored by the evolved potential within you?

I'm sitting with abated breath

ripe with anticipation

for you to

live your legacy: unleashed, unlimited, unapologetic.

You are loved in your allness,

Elle xo

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What if

it never works

would you still create it?

What if

it never brings in a single dollar

would you still create it?

What if

it never receives a single recognition

would you still create it?

Would you?

Because if the answer is no

Stop!

If the process of creation

is not the source of your joy

you're simply not an artist Darling

you're a producer

and there's nothing wrong with being a producer

but if you are

then get yourself the template

the blueprint

the proven steps

and simply crank those babies out.

On the other hand

if you answered yes

then I want you to drop away from the crowd

go into your Soul

and start creating that which is ripe

to explode into form

for the sake of the creative action

as nothing else will do.

If you answered yes

then I want you to step away from the noise

from those who lovingly advise you

how to do it

how they do it

the way guaranteed to get you the results

for they know not the wildness of your muse

they know not the depth of your madness

as you wander in the realms of darkness and chaos

never knowing what's next

and never caring

for it's the daily immersion into the fabric of the Universe

that has you pulsating with lustfull desire.

As you unleash yourself from the egotistical need to perform like a well trained monkey for their applause

you become the unrestrained creator of your preferred life!

This is the most powerful force in all of the universe:

A woman who intentionally creates

through her soul

through her intuition

through her permission to self

to please herself

and to delight in the knowing

that each and every day

truly is a blank slate for the creatives

and that each and every day

is another opportunity

to mold the atoms which forms the patters which forms

everything.

This is how we live our legacies: unleashed, unlimited, unapologetic.

You are loved in your allness,

Elle xo

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Monday morning

time for some

real talk

because any other talk

is just so outdated

and quite frankly

bores me to tears.

So,

why don't we take it all off Darling

the masks

the airs and flares

the armour we falsely believe protects us

when in fact

all it does

is restrain us

like corsets of old

which saw ladies cling to a post

whilst another pulled in the laces

until she's but a moment from losing her breath

all so others could perceive her

as 'desirable'

as socially dictated at the time.

Enough of this cow manure!

Enough of women allowing themselves to be reigned in.

And enough of women reigning their sisters in

for the sake of social perception and approval.

It's time for unapologetic women like us

to be honest with each other

to call each other out

to call ourselves out

to call the lies out

as to why we're not there yet

as to why we're not good enough yet

as to why we're not worthy yet

as to why we're not allowed yet

fuck all the yets

and the conditioning that created this seperation

between us and our greatness

for it's in your birth

that you become worthy

of all your desires

and only YOU

can hold yourself apart

from every full body YES desire!

Nobody else.

Nothing else.

No condition is insurmountable.

No belief is unchangeable.

But you're scared of being shunned and abandoned

again

you're scared of what it will cost you

when you finally stop giving a rat's tail inch of energy

to the demons you hide behind

as your excuse

for not shining out into the world

as the lighthouse of excellence, artistry and unleashed potential of greatness.

So I'm calling myself out

I'm calling you out

in Love

for Love knows

there's never been a better time

for Unapologetic Women to come together

as a pride of lionesses

and live

with PRIDE.

This is how I choose to live my legacy: unleashed, unlimited, unapologetic.

What do you choose Sister?

You are loved in your allness.

Elle xo

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