The Underwire Podcast

On this episode, we’re diving into the powerful topic of self-exploration, identity, and finding clarity through creativity.

Joining us is our special guest, Dani Nightingale — vocalist/guitarist of the UK metal band Conjurer on Nuclear Blast Records. Conjurer is known for their emotionally heavy, genre-blurring sound and their newest record, Unself, explores themes of belonging, identity, neurodivergence, and acceptance. Dani and I had never met before this conversation, but it felt like two people comparing notes on life — what it means to feel misunderstood, what it means to find community, and how creativity can help us make sense of the hardest parts of being human.

Follow Conjurer on Instagram:
 @conjureruk

In this episode, we discuss Dani’s journey with metal music, their late-in-life autism diagnosis, the process of understanding themselves, and how Unself became a cathartic expression of everything they were piecing together. Dani opens up about loneliness, healing, friendship, deep gratitude, and the power of connection — and their honesty is going to hit home for a lot of people.

WHAT WE’RE TALKING ABOUT:

• The surprising emotional depth behind heavy music — and how Dani uses it to process what words can’t reach
• How writing Unself helped Dani move through exhaustion, chaos, and self-acceptance
• Receiving an autism diagnosis at 31 and finally understanding a lifetime of feeling “different”
• The loneliness of being misunderstood — and the transformation that comes from finding real connection and community
• The moment Dani realized they were proud of who they've become

We hope this episode reminds you that you’re never as alone as you think, and that understanding yourself — truly understanding yourself — can bring more peace than you ever expected.

If you’ve ever struggled with identity, belonging, neurodivergence, or feeling like the world wasn’t built for you, Dani’s honesty will land with you in a big way.

Keywords: Conjurer, Unself, metal music, neurodivergence, autism diagnosis, self-discovery, healing, catharsis, creativity, mental wellness, connection, belonging

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On this episode, we’re diving into the importance of play — and how bringing more joy, laughter, and connection into your work life might just be the key to creating a healthier, happier you.

Joining us is our special guest, Blake Cohen. Blake is an incredible Corporate Speaker, TEDx Speaker, and Work Culture Expert whose mission is to transform workplace dynamics by fostering connection, purpose, and joy. He brings a powerful blend of lived experience and academic insight, currently pursuing his doctorate in Leadership and Organizational Psychology, with a master’s in Leadership and a bachelor’s in Psychology already under his belt.

Before focusing on executive coaching, corporate speaking, and consulting, Blake worked in the mental health and recovery space, helping people rebuild their lives and rediscover purpose. He’s also a best-selling author and the host of The Workplace Wonderer podcast, where he explores what it really means to feel human at work.

In our conversation, we talk about how leadership, culture, and authenticity all intersect — and why embracing play, laughter, and human connection in the workplace isn’t just “nice to have,” but essential for well-being.

WHAT WE’RE TALKING ABOUT:

• Why play and joy aren’t distractions — they’re powerful tools for better work
• The link between leadership, trust, and company culture
• How to recognize burnout and micromanagement
• Blake’s journey from recovery to leadership
• What neuroscience says about laughter, creativity, and connection at work
• How to bring more fun, authenticity, and humanity into your day-to-day

Blake's Links:

• Visit Blake's website: https://blakeevancohen.com/
• Watch Blake's TedX Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQF_kmOcJt0
• Follow Blake on Instagram: blake_e_cohen 
• Connect with Blake on LinkedIn

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On this episode, we’re diving into why most productivity tools keep failing us—and the fix you didn’t know you needed.

Ever feel like you’re working twice as hard just to keep up—like everyone else got the manual for life except you? The truth is, most “perfect” systems were never designed for how your brain actually works.

In this episode, I’m joined by my longtime friend Matt Canning—a technologist, entrepreneur, ex–Fortune 50 executive, former touring musician, and the founder & CEO of NoPlex.ai, the first productivity and personal organization system built specifically for adults navigating ADHD and anxiety.

We dive into:

• Why traditional productivity tools miss the mark for so many people and why NoPlex is different
• How to design systems that work with your brain instead of against it
• The role of strengths, weaknesses, and the people you surround yourself with
• The understanding that multi-millionaires are JUST people too
• Plus, a mysterious musical talent of Matt's

If you’ve ever felt like “staying organized” is an uphill battle—or you’re ready to ditch the one-size-fits-all approach to productivity—this episode is your permission slip to find a system that finally sticks.

RESOURCES & LINKS:

•  Check out NoPlex HERE! (and receive a complimentary coaching session for signing up!):
  • 🔗 https://www.noplex.ai/underwire
• Follow NoPlex on Instagram:
  • 📸 noplex.ai — https://www.instagram.com/noplex.ai/
• Join the NoPlex Reddit Community:
  •  👥 https://www.reddit.com/r/NoPlex/

Keywords: productivity tools, ADHD systems, personal organization, mental wellness, workflow design, NoPlex, productivity hacks, anxiety tools, systems that stick

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On this episode, we’re diving into what it really takes to build something from the ground up—creatively, consistently, and without a roadmap.

Joining me is my good friend Mike McGinnis, a veteran of the South Jersey and Philly hardcore scene. Mike is the founder of Knife Hits Records and Heavy Claw Shipping, two self-made businesses rooted in the same DIY mentality that shaped him through years in the punk and hardcore scenes.

Mike’s one of those people who just does the thing, and this convo pulls back the curtain on what it actually looks like to be your own boss, navigate self-doubt, make messy progress, and build something sustainable while staying true to who you are.

He also shares how perfectionism might be the reason you’re stuck, and why just talking about your big idea isn’t the same as actually doing the damn thing. We also talk about the power of taking breaks, what to do when self-doubt creeps in, and how beating a rented video game in 36 hours (yes, really) might have been early training for the kind of grit it takes to run a business.

Follow Mike and check out his work:

• knifehitsrecords.com
•  heavyclaw.com
• Rid of Me on Spotify
• Fight Amp on Spotify

WHAT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT:

• The origin stories behind Knife Hits Records & Heavy Claw Shipping
• Owning your self-doubt without letting it run the show
• How urgency culture and outside pressure can sabotage your decision-making
• The power of small steps
• How music + DIY ethics shaped his work ethic
• Practical ways to reset your brain when you’re stuck
• Why talking about ideas can be a sneaky trap

A HUGE THANK YOU TO MY MONTHLY “BUY ME A COFFEE” SUPER SUPPORT SQUAD SUBSCRIBERS:

• Chrissy Duffin
• Sean Downing

• ALL LINKS HERE
• Instagram: @TheUnderwireOfficial
• Now on TikTok!: @TheUnderwireOfficial
• 1:1 Coaching: START HERE to Learn More!

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From sneaker restoration to spiritual coaching, Chase Maccini’s story is a reminder that healing and transformation don’t always look the way we expect them to.

Joining us is my friend Chase Maccini—a spiritual advisor, sneaker restorer, and one of the most thoughtful people I’ve had the chance to sit down with. Chase now lives in Australia, but we originally met through (yep, you guessed it) the hardcore music scene in Boston years ago. Since then, his journey has taken many turns—through entrepreneurship, deep healing, and powerful self-discovery.

Follow Chase on Instagram:
@xchasemaccini

Subscribe to Chase's YouTube Channel:
xChaseMaccini

WHAT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT:

• How Chase went from restoring sneakers to coaching spiritual alignment
• The deeper meaning behind everyday routines
• Spirituality without the fluff—real talk about intuition, ego, and energy
• Moving to the other side of the world and trusting the unknown
• Letting fear guide you without letting it lead you
• Identity, self-worth, and the ongoing work of reconnecting with yourself
• A few sneakerhead gems, favorite video games, and some solid music nostalgia

If you’ve been feeling stuck, disconnected, or just ready to rethink the stories you’ve been telling yourself—this conversation is a heart check and a gentle push forward.

A HUGE THANK YOU TO MY MONTHLY "BUY ME A COFFEE" SUPER SUPPORT SQUAD SUBSCRIBERS:

• Chrissy Duffin
• Sean Downing

If you love the podcast and want to help keep it going, you can join the squad ($5 - $10 monthly subscription) or make a one-time contribution at buymeacoffee.com/theunderwirepod. Every bit helps me continue creating content and bringing you amazing guests like Chase!

Keywords: sneakers, spirituality, self-discovery, personal growth, energy work, identity, intuition, mindset, transformation, healing, presence, hardcore music, lifestyle change

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• Now on TikTok!: @TheUnderwireOfficial
• 1:1 Coaching: START HERE to Learn More!

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On this episode, we’re diving into the world of Muay Thai—but not just the sport itself. We’re talking about how this martial art builds resilience, strengthens your mindset, and can help you navigate life’s toughest moments.

Joining us is my longtime friend, Jenine Pilla. Jenine has been training in Muay Thai since 2015, earning local, national, and international titles along the way. She now coaches at 8 Limbs Academy in Philly and does incredible work in harm reduction, violence prevention, and community outreach for the Philadelphia DA’s office.

Follow Jenine on Instagram:
 @jeninepilla

Follow 8 Limbs Academy:
@8limbsacademy

WHAT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT:

• How Jenine got into Muay Thai and what kept her going
• The mental and emotional side of training and competing
• How Muay Thai helped her process grief and build resilience
• Balancing training, work, and personal life
• The role of community in personal growth
• And, of course, a little love for Taylor Swift and bike rides

SHOUTOUTS TO:

• Charlie and Kate from 8 Limbs Academy for building an amazing training space and community
• 8 Limbs Academy for fostering growth and resilience in their students
• Philly Devo Bike Program for their work in getting more people on bikes and strengthening the community

If you’ve ever been curious about Muay Thai or just need some motivation to push yourself outside your comfort zone, this one’s for you.

A HUGE THANK YOU TO MY MONTHLY "BUY ME A COFFEE" SUPER SUPPORT SQUAD SUBSCRIBERS:

• Chrissy Duffin
• Sean Downing

If you love the podcast and want to help keep it going, you can join the squad ($5 - $10 monthly subscription) or make a one-time contribution at buymeacoffee.com/theunderwirepod. Every bit helps me continue creating content and bringing you amazing guests like Jenine!

Keywords:

Muay Thai, martial arts, mental resilience, training, competition, grief, mindset, fitness, Philly, community, discipline, Taylor Swift, cycling

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• Now on TikTok!: @TheUnderwireOfficial
• 1:1 Coaching: START HERE to Learn More!

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Why Passion Projects Matter: Finding Joy and Purpose Through Music, Hobbies, and DIY with Rick Jimenez

On this episode, we’re diving into the power of passion projects and how they shape our sense of joy, purpose, and creativity.

Joining me is my good friend, Rick Jimenez - a musician, songwriter, and all-around creative powerhouse. Rick has spent years channeling his energy into music, collecting, and DIY projects, proving that the things we love—no matter how small—can be grounding forces in our lives.

• Follow Rick on Instagram:  RickIsHell
• Extinction AD Instagram: ExtinctionAD
• Extinction AD/It's Go Time, You Asshole on YouTube
• This is Hell Instagram: ThisIsHellNY

In this episode, we discuss how creativity fuels personal growth, the importance of hobbies beyond just being “for fun,” and how a DIY mindset can be a game-changer. Rick’s perspective on making time for what brings you joy, whether it's music, collecting toys, or fitness, was a huge reminder that passion projects aren’t just hobbies—they’re essential for well-being.

WHAT WE’RE TALKING ABOUT:

• The joy of collecting—why surrounding yourself with things you love can be surprisingly fulfilling
• How the gym and music serve as outlets for mental clarity and self-expression
• How involving his wife in his songwriting process became a unique bonding experience (and why he won’t send new songs to his band without her input first!)
• DIY ethics from the hardcore/metal scene and how they apply beyond music
• Perfectionism, to-do lists, and learning to embrace progress over perfection
• Why indulging in what you love is essential when you're feeling stuck or uninspired

If you’ve ever felt like your hobbies are “just for fun,” this episode will remind you that they might be doing more for you than you realize.

Tune in and let’s talk about why passion projects matter!

🎧 Listen now and join the conversation! 🎧

****A BIG SHOUT OUT AND THANK YOU TO MY BUYMEACOFFEE MONTHY SUBSCRIBERS:  

• CHRISSY DUFFIN <3 <3*****

• ALL LINKS HERE
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• Now on TikTok!: @TheUnderwireOfficial
• 1:1 Coaching: START HERE to Learn More!

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On this episode, we’re diving into the inspiring journey from artist to entrepreneur.

Joining us is our special guest, Danielle Kincaid, a powerhouse in the cosmetic tattooing world and the founder of Face Studios, a thriving cosmetic tattooing business with 4 locations across the U.S. Danielle has been a cosmetic tattooer for 9 years and has expanded her business from a single studio to multiple locations, all while navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship. Danielle also opens up about her involvement in the hardcore music scene and her passion for helping others through initiatives like "Brows for Barb," which offers complimentary brow services to those who have undergone chemotherapy and radiation.

WHAT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT:

• The transition from artist to entrepreneur
• Overcoming challenges in business growth
• The impact of the hardcore music scene
• The importance of surrounding yourself with supportive, like-minded individuals
• Balancing entrepreneurship with personal well-being
• Advice on starting a business with limited resources
• Getting cozy in the chaos for entrepreneurial success
• Celebrating accomplishments along the journey

Follow Danielle on Instagram: (and see all of her amazing work and updates!)
IG: Danielle.Facestudios

Face Studios Website:  https://facestudiosusa.com/

This episode is packed with motivation, relatable insights, and real talk about the ups and downs of building a business from the ground up. Whether you’re an aspiring entrepreneur, someone navigating personal growth, or curious about the world of cosmetic tattooing, Danielle’s story is sure to inspire and resonate.
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DISCLAIMER: The Underwire Podcast provides content for informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Jess G. and Ryan Rainbro are not medical professionals, and the opinions expressed on the podcast are based on their personal experiences, research, and general knowledge. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast.

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• Now on TikTok!: @TheUnderwireOfficial
• 1:1 Coaching: START HERE to Learn More!

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On this episode of The Underwire, we’re rolling into the world of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu with my friend Kelsey Hunter!

Kelsey is a Board Certified Behavior Analyst and a proud blue belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. She’s passionate about mental health, empowering women in male-dominated spaces, and sharing the lessons she’s learned on and off the mat.

In this episode, we explore:

• Kelsey’s journey into BJJ—what inspired her to try it and what made her stick with it, even when the going got tough.
• The powerful connection between physical activity and mental health, and how jiu-jitsu has helped Kelsey build resilience and emotional strength.
• How lessons from the mat influence her work as a therapist and empower her to communicate effectively in all areas of life.
• The transformative impact of community, failure, and self-discovery in BJJ.
• The three-month rule, a game-changing mindset Kelsey uses to push through the hard parts of starting something new.

Whether you’re curious about jiu-jitsu, considering a new hobby, or just looking for inspiration to tackle life’s challenges, this episode has something for you!

MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE:

• Laura Kent: Instagram: @lauralies10p 
• East Coast No-Gi Women’s Camp Instagram: @EastCoastWomensCamp
• Maya Nazareth: Check out her brand, Alchemize Fightwear, at alchemizefightwear.com
• Friends Living Well Podcast:
  • Instagram: @FriendsLivingWellPod
  • Spotify Link: (Click here!)

Kelsey’s story is a reminder that even in life’s hardest seasons, we’re all capable of growth, connection, and learning to fight—on and off the mat. Tune in to hear how Kelsey has transformed her mindset through BJJ and what lessons you can take into your own life. Let’s roll!

Takeaways from This Episode:

• How Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu helps build resilience and confidence.
• Why failure and discomfort are essential parts of growth.
• The unique connection between physical activity and mental clarity.
• How finding a supportive community can deepen your commitment to any practice.

KEYWORDS: Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, mental health, resilience, women in BJJ, personal growth, empowerment, community, therapy, mental clarity

DISCLAIMER: The Underwire Podcast provides content for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Opinions expressed are based on personal experiences and research. Always consult a professional with any medical concerns.

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• Now on TikTok!: @TheUnderwireOfficial
• 1:1 Coaching: START HERE to Learn More!

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On this episode, we’re diving into the transformative world of music, exploring its impact on our well-being and livelihood, sense of community, and creativity.

I’m joined by two of my favorite musicians and friends, Eric Benites and Chrissy Duffin, who play together in band called Prosper or Perish (and are talented instrumentalists in several other bands as well). Together, we share a candid conversation on how music has influenced every aspect of our lives

WHAT WE'RE TALKING ABOUT:

• Our introductions to music and how each of us found our instruments
• What inspires us to create
• Challenges and rewards of collaborating with others in a band setting
• How music fosters community and lifelong friendships
• The therapeutic impact of music
• Practical advice for anyone interested in starting music or joining a band

BONUS STUFF!:

• A heated debate regarding Nintendo princesses
• Eric talks about his cheese addiction

BANDS (Instagram/Spotify Links):

• Prosper or Perish - ProsperOrPerish
  • Prosper or Perish Spotify
  • IronBorn Music Video
• Assayer - AssayerMetal
  • Assayer Spotify
• Half-Ton of Humanity - HTH_Band
  • HTH Spotify
• Cognitive - Cognitive_nj
  • Cognitive Spotify
• Sunburster - SunbursterPA
  • Sunburster Spotify

SHOUT OUTS:

• Ted Waters
  • Website:  http://www.1111ave.com/
• Mike Schramm/Schramm Guitars
  • Schramm Guitars Instagram - schrammguitars
  • Website:  https://westchesterguitarrepair.com/
• Adam Benites / Rockers Galore
  • Rockers Galore Instagram - RockersGalorePhilly
  • Rockers Galore Spotify

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• Now on TikTok!: @TheUnderwireOfficial
• 1:1 Coaching: START HERE to Learn More!

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