Low self-esteem is often seen as something that leads to people-pleasing and a need for support. Sometimes that search for validation isn’t malicious—it’s simply someone struggling and looking for connection.

But there’s another side people don’t talk about.

In this episode of The Unfiltered Real Talk Podcast with the Back Road Chicks explore how insecurity can sometimes flip into overcompensation, where low self-esteem turns into narcissistic traits, control, and validation-seeking at any cost.

We discuss how this extreme compensation can lead to triangulation, flying monkeys, and toxic relationship dynamics. especially when insecurity turns into resentment toward those who don’t constantly validate or support them.

Understanding this pattern can help people recognize the difference between *healthy support, insecurity-driven behavior, and manipulative dynamics* in relationships.

#Narcissism

#SelfEsteem

#selfWorth

#confidence

#supportNetwork

#FlyingMonkeys

#Psychology

#ToxicRelationships

#BackRoadChicks

Why is it easier for some to standup for themselves and others not?

We discuss the difference between confrontation and being Assertive and why is important to learn the different and improve your quality of life and relationships.

Stop being taken advantage of.

When is it appropriate and what are the risks?

#life #communication #assertivecommunication #confrontation #relationships #workplace #selfesteem #selfworth #podcasts #viral #motivation #goals #howto

Join us as we tackle the discussion of equality in the workplace! Bringing your A game to the table... Does it matter in the end?

What does it mean to be an equal in the work environment? Have we replaced work ethic with entitlement? We get into it this week! We talk about everything from religious practices in the workplace to mental health advocacy and burnout!

Please like, subscribe, and comment wherever you listen! Tell us where you stand!

This episode takes us through the Journey of quality time versus parallel existing in that you can be in the same room with someone but it doesn't mean you're connecting. Quality refers to undistracted fully focused time with the people around you without distraction.

Why cuddle the glass when you can grab your partner's ass?

Is the cell phone the third wheel of your relationship? Has a television taken over?

Join us in a deep discussion of what quality time means versus parallel existing some of the Ebbs and flows and how to's. What it means to reconnect with your partner and close the gap in distance that distraction can create between us

We always welcome your feedback and insights! Who's the third wheel in your relationship? How have you overcome this struggle?

Come join our discussion on the perspectives of smoking. What does smoking etiquette look like? The behaviors of smokers versus non-smokers. Where do we draw the fine line of respect and is that line a pony wall between a smoking and non-smoking section of a restaurant?

Smoking, where do you stand? Figuratively or literally....

We're back with our season 3 premiere!! This season is all about controversy! We discuss all the topics that make people nervous to discuss.

We are opening with parenting advice from non-parents.. Is our opinion valid or not? We tackle the difficult conversations and unpopular opinions we've experienced as outside observers with lots of experience with kids. Tell us what you think! Leave a comment and share your perspectives, tell us where you think we're right and where you think we're wrong!

Stay tuned for more controversy this season! Please like, subscribe, and comment wherever you listen!!

#BlindChats #Parenting #NonParents #HotTake #KidsRuleTheRoost #Controversy #Season3

P.S.... BRE WAS RIGHT!!

Stay tuned! We're back on the airwaves! February 4th, 2026 at 6am CST!

Please like, comment, and subscribe wherever you listen!

Hey Roadies!

We are taking a much needed brain break! We can't wait to be back in the saddle, cruising and having a blast!

Stay tuned for updates!

#Friends #WeWereOnABreak #Summer2025 #podcast #PawsAndAppreciate

Join us as we explore what it means to be connected in the 21st century. Do you think social media and the internet has caused a problem with instant gratification? Keeping up with the Joneses? Fomo?

We discuss how social media and the internet has impacted relationships. Do you feel that loyalty and faithfulness has increased or decreased? How do you feel bullying has been affected any problems in family and friendships?..

We explore the pros and cons and the impacts and would love to hear from you!

#communication #relationships #love #internet #socialmedia #connections #fomo #bullying

How would you seek justice in moral or ethically controversial situations?

When if ever is capital punishment okay?

What factors affect your decision when punishing a criminal?

Do you believe in an eye for an eye?

Join us as we explore these questions!

Share your perspectives with us!

Paws clip:

https://youtu.be/AV2lCjDyWOw?si=CF6wJHaa759jGqqM

#capitalpunishment #crimeandjustice #ethics #morals #decisionmaking