Your nervous system might be the reason your spiritual awakening feels like chaos.

I’m back after my second dark night of the soul—and this time, everything was different.

In this episode, I break down the real difference between my first dark night years ago and this one:
 control vs. surrender.

The first time, I fought everything.
 I tried to control my body, shut down the experience, and make the spiritual awakening symptoms stop—and it made everything harder.

This time, I let it happen.

After working with both an energetic coach and a nutrition/fitness coach, I finally started resourcing my body—and saw a pattern I had missed for years: chronic nervous system freeze states I had been writing off as “bad days.”

That awareness led to a full nervous system reset—and a week of intense activation leading up to it.

But instead of spiraling, I let my body lead.
 And what used to feel like a dark night… became a dark day.

We talk about:

• dark night of the soul symptoms
• nervous system regulation + freeze response
• spiritual awakening and embodiment
• and why the way you move through these moments determines how hard they have to be

If you’re in the middle of your own awakening—or feel like everything is unraveling—this will help you understand what’s actually happening.

You’re not breaking.
 You’re being rebuilt.

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I'm looking for curious humans, students, practitioners, skeptics, business owners, intuitives and people willing to let us explore the weird stuff.  We may read you. Test you. Ask you to intuit something ridiculous. Connect with Spirit. Experiment with energy. Explore your soul. Or ask you to help us answer a question none of us knows the answer to yet.

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MEET NICOLE

Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com

Are you an empath… or are you clairsentient?

In this episode of The Unity Code, Nicole breaks down the truth most people aren’t talking about:

Being an empath is simply being highly developed in clairsentience.

That’s it.

If you absorb other people’s emotions…
If your mood shifts instantly around certain people…
If you get physical sensations that aren’t yours…
If you’ve ever felt “emotionally volatile” and didn’t know why…

You’re not broken.
You’re energetically receptive.

Nicole shares:

• What clairsentience really is
• Why empaths often struggle with emotional overwhelm
• How to tell what’s yours vs. what you’re absorbing
• The science + energetics behind mood shifts
• Why grounding and protection actually matter
• How to use your empath ability as a superpower instead of a burden

This episode will change how you see your sensitivity — and your power.

Because once you know what’s yours…
You stop carrying what isn’t.

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We're doing things differently for the next 200 episodes.

I'm looking for curious humans, students, practitioners, skeptics, business owners, intuitives and people willing to let us explore the weird stuff.  We may read you. Test you. Ask you to intuit something ridiculous. Connect with Spirit. Experiment with energy. Explore your soul. Or ask you to help us answer a question none of us knows the answer to yet.

Want in? Join here: https://portal.mediumnicole.com/offers/ZytRAfoo

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MEET NICOLE

Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com

Is clairsentience really the “soft” metaphysical sense… or is it actually the most powerful clair of them all?

In this episode of The Unity Code, Nicole breaks down why clairsentience (clear feeling) is often misunderstood, underestimated, and yet absolutely game-changing in mediumship and intuitive development.

Most developing mediums expect spirit communication to come through clairvoyance (seeing) or clairaudience (hearing). But what happens when those turn off—and all you’re left with is feeling?

Nicole shares:

• What clairsentience really is (beyond the fluffy definitions)
• How it shows up in your body
• The difference between clairsentience and being an empath
• How physical sensations, emotions, and personality traits come through in readings
• Why traditional mediumship often misses this critical layer
• How to develop clairsentience intentionally

From feeling physical ailments to embodying personality, to understanding what death actually feels like from the other side, this episode challenges everything you think you know about psychic abilities.

If you’ve ever said:
“I’m just sensitive.”
“I don’t see or hear spirit, so maybe I’m not intuitive.”

This episode is for you.

Clairsentience isn’t weakness.
It’s embodiment.
And it might be your strongest spiritual gift.

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We're doing things differently for the next 200 episodes.

I'm looking for curious humans, students, practitioners, skeptics, business owners, intuitives and people willing to let us explore the weird stuff.  We may read you. Test you. Ask you to intuit something ridiculous. Connect with Spirit. Experiment with energy. Explore your soul. Or ask you to help us answer a question none of us knows the answer to yet.

Want in? Join here: https://portal.mediumnicole.com/offers/ZytRAfoo

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MEET NICOLE

Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com

This is an atypical Unity Code episode — and it might be the most useful one you’ll ever listen to.

In this “user manual” episode, Nicole shares the exact process her spirit team asked her to teach: how to listen to The Unity Code podcast to get the most out of every episode. Because these episodes aren’t just information — many of them are energetic transmissions, co-created with Spirit, designed to support your expansion, healing, and self-trust while you listen.

We cover how to:

• Listen with an open mind + curiosity (even with topics you think you already “know”)
• Come to each episode with a growth takeaway you can actually apply
• Recognize when you’re receiving frequency, not just words
• Understand the difference between Nicole vs. her spirit team in channeled episodes
• Practice presence so you don’t miss the “broth” of the message
• Engage with questions — and learn how questioning accelerates intuition, integration, and spiritual development

Nicole also shares behind-the-scenes truth about her process: why she won’t record when her energy isn’t steady, how channeling can sound like “just her,” and why she’s done over-explaining and ready to run with the work she’s here to do.

If you’ve ever felt like something different is happening when you listen — like you’re calmer, clearer, expanded, or activated — this episode explains what you’re sensing and how to intentionally receive it.

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WANT TO BE PART OF THE UNITY CODE?

We're doing things differently for the next 200 episodes.

I'm looking for curious humans, students, practitioners, skeptics, business owners, intuitives and people willing to let us explore the weird stuff.  We may read you. Test you. Ask you to intuit something ridiculous. Connect with Spirit. Experiment with energy. Explore your soul. Or ask you to help us answer a question none of us knows the answer to yet.

Want in? Join here: https://portal.mediumnicole.com/offers/ZytRAfoo

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MEET NICOLE

Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com

This episode marks the beginning of recurring collective healing sessions on the podcast. Recorded on National Strike Day, this guided experience is for empaths, lightworkers, and sensitive souls who are feeling energetically overwhelmed, emotionally flooded, or “not quite themselves” in the current collective climate.

In this episode, Nicole explores why doom-scrolling drains our light, why bypassing reality doesn’t work, and offers a third option: stay in the light and send the light. You’ll be guided through a grounding and energy-healing experience to reconnect with your body, your support team, and your own vibration—while collectively sending healing energy to the world.

The episode also includes a spirit-led message using oracle cards that speak to unity, emergence, rebuilding, and community. Listen when you need to feel lighter, steadier, and reminded of why you’re here.

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WANT TO BE PART OF THE UNITY CODE?

We're doing things differently for the next 200 episodes.

I'm looking for curious humans, students, practitioners, skeptics, business owners, intuitives and people willing to let us explore the weird stuff.  We may read you. Test you. Ask you to intuit something ridiculous. Connect with Spirit. Experiment with energy. Explore your soul. Or ask you to help us answer a question none of us knows the answer to yet.

Want in? Join here: https://portal.mediumnicole.com/offers/ZytRAfoo

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MEET NICOLE

Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com

In this groundbreaking Unity Code experiment, Nicole brings together three Reiki Masters, two intuitive recipients, and one very curious medium (spoiler: it’s her) to test something no one seems to be talking about…

✨ What actually happens when multiple Reiki practitioners work on the same person at the same time?
✨ Do they pick up similar insights? Different ones? Does the energy amplify? Split? Stay separate?
✨ And how does a collective healing session compare to a traditional one-on-one?

This episode is raw, unfiltered, experimental, and unlike anything on the internet right now.

****** Our Reiki Practitioners ******

Heather Garcia: 

• After a decade of massage therapy, Heather has developed a deep love and respect for the energetic and spiritual realms. As an intuitive bodyworker, she naturally tunes into the body, identifying where pain originates and whether it’s physical tension or energetically held grief or trauma. While Reiki is one of her favorite modalities, she is also embracing the continued development of her mediumship abilities.
• Instagram: @h34th3r_G

Sarah Tolson:

• Sarah Tolson is a Reiki practitioner, spirit led medium, and founder of Grounded Harmony. Her work is shaped by the profound lessons she learned while supporting her daughter through pediatric cancer, which deepened her understanding of compassion, presence, and the ways Spirit supports us. Through Reiki, group classes, and mediumship circles, Sarah helps people reconnect with their bodies, regulate their nervous systems, and trust their intuition. She brings a grounded, heart-led approach to healing and spiritual connection.
•  Website: www.groundedharmonywellness.com
• Instagram: grounded.harmony.wellness

Summer Paradiso

• Summer Paradiso is a psychic medium, intuition coach, Reiki Master, and creator of Soul Inspirit®, a transformative method that blends movement, meditation, and creative expression as a way to remove emotional blocks and guide women back to live as their highest selves. Her work anchors the mystical into real life, guiding women to feel clear, aligned, and fully rooted in their own energy.
• https://soulinspirit.com/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/summer_paradiso_/
• CHECK THIS OUT! Summer has a FREE virtual workshop of my Soul Inspirit® method.  It blends yoga based movement, 

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WANT TO BE PART OF THE UNITY CODE?

We're doing things differently for the next 200 episodes.

I'm looking for curious humans, students, practitioners, skeptics, business owners, intuitives and people willing to let us explore the weird stuff.  We may read you. Test you. Ask you to intuit something ridiculous. Connect with Spirit. Experiment with energy. Explore your soul. Or ask you to help us answer a question none of us knows the answer to yet.

Want in? Join here: https://portal.mediumnicole.com/offers/ZytRAfoo

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MEET NICOLE

Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com

In this episode of The Unity Code, Nicole sits down with Reiki researcher and archivist Lindsey Harper, a self-described science nerd of energy healing who somehow manages to live in both worlds: academia and the metaphysical.

By day, Lindsey is an associate professor and archivist with degrees in psychology, library science, and behavioral statistics. By night (and in all the liminal spaces in between), she’s the founder of Open Your Eyes Reiki, where her goal is to create Reiki content that genuinely shifts the collective.

Together, Nicole and Lindsey talk about:

• How a Saturn return, a book on empaths, and a literal deer sign led Lindsey to her first Reiki class
• Lindsey’s Reiki & Wellbeing Interviews Project at Marshall University, where she interviewed 14 Reiki-certified practitioners across 6 countries
• How religion, culture, and family systems shaped people’s paths toward or away from Reiki
• The common patterns she found in their stories: trauma, burnout, spiritual seeking, and the desire to connect with Source beyond rigid structures
• Why the term “Reiki master” can be deeply problematic in Western contexts, and what language she’s using instead
• The very real purging and integration that can happen after attunements (physical, emotional, spiritual)
• Creative ways practitioners weave Reiki into daily life: tea, showers, homes, cars, writing, parenting, and more
• Why simply sitting alone for 10 minutes in a quiet room is, in itself, an energetic gift most people never give themselves

You’ll also hear the story of how Nicole and Lindsey originally met on Reddit, how a mediumship reading took three years to be fully validated, and why “I don’t know” during a reading doesn’t mean “it’s wrong.”

If you’re curious about Reiki, skeptical but open, or already attuned and wondering how others actually live this work in real time, this conversation will give you both heart and data — a grounded, compassionate look at how energy healing shows up in real people’s lives.

Follow Lindsey on Instagram at @oyereiki to keep up with her Reiki & research world, and to watch where this project goes next (yes, there’s a book brewing and a sabbatical in the works).

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Lindsey Harper is a certified Reiki person working as an associate professor and archivist at a higher ed institution. She’s has degrees in psychology and library science, and a graduate certificate in behavioral statistics.

Instagram: @oyereiki

YouTube: https://youtube.com/@oyereiki

Link to Lindsey's Reiki Research: https://mds.marshall.edu/reikiconversations/

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WANT TO BE PART OF THE UNITY CODE?

We're doing things differently for the next 200 episodes.

I'm looking for curious humans, students, practitioners, skeptics, business owners, intuitives and people willing to let us explore the weird stuff.  We may read you. Test you. Ask you to intuit something ridiculous. Connect with Spirit. Experiment with energy. Explore your soul. Or ask you to help us answer a question none of us knows the answer to yet.

Want in? Join here: https://portal.mediumnicole.com/offers/ZytRAfoo

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MEET NICOLE

Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com

In this episode of The Unity Code, Nicole continues the spirit guides conversation — and takes it “sideways” into a live, messy, honest processing session about timelines, vibration, free will, and your highest path.

So many people ask their guides:

• What’s the best path for me?
• What’s the most abundant timeline?
• When can I quit my job?
• Is this the right decision?

But here’s the twist Nicole has realized in the last few weeks: sometimes your guides aren’t vague because they’re withholding — they’re vague because you’re asking about a timeline you’re not currently inhabiting.

In this episode, Nicole breaks down her evolving perspective that timelines and vibrations may be a one-for-one, and why guidance can feel “clear as mud” when your question is oriented toward an outcome that sits outside your current nervous system capacity, frequency, or lived reality.

You’ll hear:

• Why there’s no single “set path” and why spirit guides won’t make your decisions for you
• What “free will” actually means in spirit guide readings
• How to recognize when the answer is unclear because the question is wrong
• Why “How do I get there?” can be a divine masculine / spiritual bypassing trap
• How higher vibration shifts the experience of life (not just the outcomes)
• Better questions to ask your guides like: What am I missing? What am I blind to? What internal work raises my frequency? Is there a better path available than the one I think I want?

This episode is for you if you’re feeling stuck, craving clarity, or wondering why you can’t seem to access the future you want — and it’s also for practitioners who want to understand why some readings come in crystal clear while others come through sticky, slow, or vague.

If you’ve ever thought, “Why won’t my guides just tell me?” — this one will reframe everything.

Want to explore your highest path with your spirit team?
Book a session on Nicole’s website (link in the show notes) and come join the Unity Code community chat to share your takeaways and questions.

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WANT TO BE PART OF THE UNITY CODE?

We're doing things differently for the next 200 episodes.

I'm looking for curious humans, students, practitioners, skeptics, business owners, intuitives and people willing to let us explore the weird stuff.  We may read you. Test you. Ask you to intuit something ridiculous. Connect with Spirit. Experiment with energy. Explore your soul. Or ask you to help us answer a question none of us knows the answer to yet.

Want in? Join here: https://portal.mediumnicole.com/offers/ZytRAfoo

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MEET NICOLE

Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com

What if working with your spirit guides didn’t require meditation, rituals, or “doing it perfectly”?

In this car-channeled episode, Nicole shares how she works with her spirit guides all day, every day — not as a formal practice, but as a living, breathing conversation. From intuitive nudges and emotional triggers to parking-spot synchronicities and life-altering realizations, this episode explores how spirit guides actually communicate when you drop expectations and learn their language.

You’ll hear why spirit guides are one of the most underutilized sources of soul-level information, how this “middle vibration” can bridge intuition, mediumship, and the Akashic Records, and why guidance becomes clearer when you stop trying so hard to receive it.

Nicole also shares real-life stories of following guidance in the moment — from unexpected emotional healing to being led exactly where she and her kids were meant to be — and explains how constant access to your guides becomes possible through trust, availability, and energetic familiarity.

If you’ve ever wondered:

• How to work with spirit guides in everyday life
• Why you feel blocked, disconnected, or unsure if you’re “doing it right”
• How intuition, higher self, and spirit guides actually differ
• Or how guidance can feel subtle, practical, and deeply supportive

…this episode will change how you think about spiritual communication.

You already have a full team on the other side. The question is: are you listening?

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WANT TO BE PART OF THE UNITY CODE?

We're doing things differently for the next 200 episodes.

I'm looking for curious humans, students, practitioners, skeptics, business owners, intuitives and people willing to let us explore the weird stuff.  We may read you. Test you. Ask you to intuit something ridiculous. Connect with Spirit. Experiment with energy. Explore your soul. Or ask you to help us answer a question none of us knows the answer to yet.

Want in? Join here: https://portal.mediumnicole.com/offers/ZytRAfoo

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MEET NICOLE

Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com

In this episode of The Unity Code, Nicole shares a raw, spirit-led conversation sparked by an unexpected moment inside her Circle — one that turned into a two-hour exploration of what it really means to walk a spiritual path in today’s world.

From staying “in the spiritual closet” to questioning visibility, success, and leadership in the metaphysical space, this episode is a permission slip for anyone wondering:

• Do I have to go public to be spiritual?
• Do I have to quit my job or turn this into a business?
• What if my path looks nothing like the people I admire?

Nicole explores the idea that we are not all meant to be on stages or television — that many of us are meant to be a light in our own homes, families, workplaces, and communities, quietly changing systems from the inside out.

This episode dismantles the myth of a “right way” to be spiritual and invites you to:

• Release comparison and hierarchy in the metaphysical world
• Trust the uniqueness of your story, timing, and role
• Stop waiting to know the destination before you begin
• Give yourself permission to explore, experiment, and evolve

Whether spirituality is a private practice, a side passion, a curiosity, or a calling you’re just beginning to listen to, this conversation reminds you of one essential truth:

There are no wrong steps — and the world needs you exactly as you are.

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WANT TO BE PART OF THE UNITY CODE?

We're doing things differently for the next 200 episodes.

I'm looking for curious humans, students, practitioners, skeptics, business owners, intuitives and people willing to let us explore the weird stuff.  We may read you. Test you. Ask you to intuit something ridiculous. Connect with Spirit. Experiment with energy. Explore your soul. Or ask you to help us answer a question none of us knows the answer to yet.

Want in? Join here: https://portal.mediumnicole.com/offers/ZytRAfoo

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MEET NICOLE

Nicole is an evidential medium and former corporate executive who blends data, systems, and spirit communication after her son began seeing the dead. She’s obsessed with exposing the hidden patterns and frequencies keeping you stuck, and recoding them so you can finally live the life your soul designed for you. She offers private readings, mentorship, and classes in mediumship, spiritual growth, and soul-aligned business. 

Click here to learn more & connect with Nicole: http://links.mediumnicole.com