Hey there sports lovers, In this episode Rob sits down with Stephan Weyers, a former sports lawyer and corporate executive who transitioned into a high-performance triathlon coach. Stephan shares his "unlikely" journey from being an out-of-shape professional weighing 115kg (18 stone) to founding Wingman, a global coaching business specializing in helping busy midlife executives conquer the Ironman.
The conversation explores Stephan’s early days as a 10-year-old "boxing promoter" in South Africa, his high-stakes legal career representing top rugby stars, and the "trigger point" on a beach in Port Elizabeth that changed his life forever. Stephan provides practical advice for those who believe they "don't have time" for endurance sports and explains his philosophy on why a customized, flexible training program is essential for the modern professional.
The "Make Time" Philosophy: Stephan argues that "not having time" is an excuse; by analyzing screen time and utilizing "dead time"—such as during children's sports practices—anyone can find 15–20 minutes to start.
The Power of Personal Momentum: Stephan's own transformation from someone who couldn't swim a single 20-meter length to a sub-11-hour Ironman finisher proves that boundaries expand rapidly with consistency.
The Corporate Edge: Achieving an Ironman goal provides a "tri-high" that lasts for weeks, significantly improving productivity, alertness, and patience in a high-pressure workplace.
Customisation is Key: Static programs from magazines fail busy executives; success requires a fluid plan that can adapt to sick children, work travel, and shifting deadlines.
Diversity at the Finish Line: Stephan encourages anyone "on the fence" to stand at an Ironman finish line to see the incredible variety of body types and physical abilities that complete the race, proving it is for everyone.
[00:01:27] Stephan's early years: A self-described "lazy student" and "party guy" in Bloemfontein.
[00:01:50] The 10-year-old entrepreneur: Organizing backyard boxing matches and selling tickets.
[00:02:40] Career fast-track: Becoming a law firm partner and representing rugby legends John Smith and CJ van der Linde.
[00:02:45] The health decline: Working until 2:00 AM on an office mattress and eating "garbage" fast food.
[00:02:50] The Turning Point: Watching the electric atmosphere of the Ironman South Africa swim start.
[00:02:55] Learning to Swim: The struggle of failing at one pool length at 5:00 AM in the winter.
[00:03:10] Mentorship: Seeking out coaching legend Joe Friel to build his credentials.
[00:03:20] Scaling Wingman: Moving to the US and growing a global athlete fraternity during the pandemic.
[00:03:50] The Flip van der Merwe Story: Helping a legendary 150kg rugby player run a half-marathon in 2:20.
[01:02:40] Final Pearl of Wisdom: Why anyone at any age can finish an Ironman.
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