Every time you try to “do it right,” for a system, you have to abandon what you know in your body.

The SKILL I talk about in this episode is the skill of building SELF-DETERMINED value.

This is the skill of being able to discern in your body

what is actually right for you

This skill is you: 

I don't know any more valuable skillset: This is world making.

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Transcript: https://www.solasystems.xyz/s/022

If you are someone who has learned that you have to manage your energy,

your protective vigilance around your energy will be high.

This relationship with your energy treats it like a finite resource that gets emptied. And needs a lot of space and time to drip back up into adequacy.

It's the relationship of: managing the cost of contortion.

Creating more energy, more capacity is the work of aligning your life structures with your actual truth and value.

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Transcript: https://www.solasystems.xyz/s/021

Not freedom from accountability.

But freedom to be in integrity with what you *actually* most value.

In the first of four 'bridge' episodes (from this podcast to the next!), I speak to how starting with low belief is just part of the work.

And what the experience is like, when a practiced belief gathers enough evidence to reach a crescendo of conviction; 

A "leap of faith" becomes available!

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Transcript: https://www.solasystems.xyz/s/020

which is YOUR WORK IN THE WORLD

I share the core insight that underpins my new offer, and what the offer is:

it's called FLAREHOUSE

HERE IS ALL THE INFO: 

https://www.solasystems.xyz/FLAREHOUSE

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Transcript: https://www.solasystems.xyz/s/019

I invited previous podcast guest Laurie Green back onto the podcast, this time to talk about the culmination of what was once a vague dream, now realised as a tangible reality in the form of a BOOK.

The BOOK: Deliquescent Beings: A Neuroqueering Book of Love

https://www.neuroqueering.network/product/deliquescentbeings/

Neuroqueering Love: A Gathering:

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/neuroqueering-love-a-gathering-tickets-1042904935737

Laurie's instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/neuroqueeringhumans/

Artists in the book:

Axe Raulet

Georgia Holman

Ila

Jess Murrain

Laurie Green

Lua Bairstow

Rebecca Jagoe

Rrangwane

Sam Metz

Sef

V Westerman

Artists for the gathering on 1st November:

সঙ্ঘমিত্রা sanghamitra @the.poison.faeline

Saint-Saëns @saintsaenssaid

Hannah Mae Buckingham @natureb.y

Georgia Holman @georgiaholman

Oscar Vinter @oscarvinter

Florin Garzotto @florin_garzotto

Rrangwane @semausu.sa.pulayakgojana

Quieting @quieting_sounds

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The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to realise the self-reinventions, life pivots and culture-shifting projects to become your boldest most authentic self.

Hosted by Louisa Shaeri, artist, coach, cultural activator, founder of SOLA Systems.

Subscribe to the mailing list HERE

It turns out I'm in a SEASON of change...

and why I closed doors to UNMASKING UNSCHOOL early!!

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The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to realise the self-reinventions, life pivots and culture-shifting projects to become your boldest most authentic self.

Hosted by Louisa Shaeri, artist, coach, cultural activator, founder of SOLA Systems.

Subscribe to the mailing list HERE

ENROL HERE: https://www.solasystems.xyz/unun

This is the online group coaching, support system, and social context for #autistic/audhd visionaries, creatives, change-makers who are not here to fit in,

to enact the life pivots, self re-inventions involved in becoming your boldest self, and realising your most impactful work in the world.

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Self belief that you can create a new thing in the world, or in your life

that you can be in new ways

and builds as you create evidence that your body brain nervous systems understand as a REALITY that can be trusted

and BELIEVED.

Until that point,

you best source of belief is your own ACTIONS

and being able to keep moving forward during the ‘lag time’ between the doing and REALITY around you catching up.

But there is another source of potent belief: DECISIONS.

not just any decisions

but the ones which ask you to EXPAND

to be BIGGER that your problem

to decide that you are up for the HARD

and willing to ride the waves to make it REAL.

This episode is about those kinds of decisions.

I speak to how my own recent decision to ‘handle it’

to move through difficulty without compromising on my dreams

to SHOW UP for what I want

and the impact of that on my self belief.

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The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to realise the self-reinventions, life pivots and culture-shifting projects to become your boldest most authentic self.

Hosted by Louisa Shaeri, artist, coach, cultural activator, founder of SOLA Systems.

Subscribe to the mailing list HERE

In this week’s episode of The Unmasking Unschool Podcast,

I am joined by Rebekah Ubuntu (they/them, she/her)

who generously shares their unique perspective on what it means to be in transition;

Refusing to be a finished product; a destination, a known self,

and being open to the mystery of being in process.

Rebekah articulates felt truths that have emerged inside the experience of not knowing, and not needing to know, who they are becoming next;

Photo: Ciaran Frame

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The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to realise the self-reinventions, life pivots and culture-shifting projects to become your boldest most authentic self.

Hosted by Louisa Shaeri, artist, coach, cultural activator, founder of SOLA Systems.

Subscribe to the SOLA Systems mailing list HERE

I'm doing something I've never done before.

I'm inviting all my clients, my podcast listeners, and my subscribers into ONE space;

To coach with me,

and you are invited.

I'm inviting you too,

To become someone who can CREATE CHANGE on purpose.

https://www.solasystems.xyz/cmcc

This week on the Unmasking Unschool podcast, I speak with artists Mia Rushton and Eric Moschopedis (Mia + Eric).

They share insights from their 15-year collaborative art practice, and what unfolded in our coaching journey that formed part of their ongoing project 'Art School'.

You'll hear about their struggles with art world opacity and inaccessibility, and the resulting self doubt, and sense of not belonging, as well as the breakthroughs that enabled them to recognise the value of their work, and embody that value with a new level of confidence.

Plus the ripple effects - including in how they care for themselves within their practice.

Mia and Eric also share about their unique approach to creating a poetic, adaptive and relational culture of access, that informs their work now, and their artwork: 'A Guide for the Prepared'.

miaanderic.ca

@mia.and.eric

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The Unmasking Unschool Podcast is for autistic visionaries, creatives and change-makers. Who are seeking to exit the burnout cycles, pathology paradigms, masks and self-negations of the past that keep you stuck, and want to realise the self-reinventions, life pivots and culture-shifting projects to become your boldest most authentic self.

Hosted by Louisa Shaeri, artist, coach, cultural activator, founder of SOLA Systems.

Subscribe to the SOLA Systems mailing list HERE