Imagine being a young child standing in line at the grocery store, minding your own business. You look up and staring at you is a sorry excuse for a man, standing there with his two kids, pointing at you , saying horrible things about the way you look and laughing at you. That’s exactly what happened to Ben Kjar .This experience would have broken a lot of people, for Ben it was a moment that his Mom would use to teach him a valuable lesson. In life, we have a choice, Victim or Victor. In this episode Anthony and Ben talk about having a victor mentality , finding confidence in discomfort , and what it means to allow yourself to have a messy beginning.