Why do people hurt the people they love—and why do they leave?
In this powerful recorded-live episode of Walking in ALOHA; Let’s Talk Story, host Michelle A. G. Ebalaroza Kawano welcomes Indrani Lewthwaite, a clinical supervisor, neuro-informed psychotherapist, relationship and family therapist, speaker, educator, and human behaviour expert with more than 10,000 hours of clinical experience.
Indrani shares how profound loss, abandonment, grief, and starting over led her to explore the hidden patterns behind human behaviour. Her journey reveals how gratitude became a compass that helped redirect her attention from everything she had lost toward faith, hope, possibility, and purposeful action.
Together, Michelle and Indrani explore:
• Why our brains automatically repeat familiar behaviours—even when they no longer serve us
• How gratitude can redirect attention without denying pain or excusing wrongdoing
• The hidden biology behind emotional reactions and regretted responses
• How small, consistent actions can help interrupt destructive patterns
• Why compassionate leadership includes emotional safety, accountability, and healthy boundaries
• How couples and families can communicate through conflict without losing love
• The connection between neuroscience, trauma-informed care, faith, healing, and resilience
• Why human connection is one of the greatest investments we can make
• How the MIRROR Steps™ model helps people understand what is happening beneath the surface
• Why healing can begin before our circumstances change
Indrani also introduces her forthcoming book based on the MIRROR Steps™ model—a practical exploration of the psychology, neuroscience, relationships, faith, and automatic patterns that influence everyday conversations and human connection.
This Christ-centered conversation is for anyone seeking stronger relationships, healthier communication, emotional healing, resilient leadership, greater self-awareness, and the courage to change their focus and move forward.
Powerful reminder:
“The day your life changes may not be the day your circumstances change. It may be the day your focus changes.” — Indrani Lewthwaite
Connect with Indrani Lewthwaite:
EFL Counselling and Coaching:
https://www.eflcounsellingandcoaching.com.au/
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/indrani-lewthwaite
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Hosted by Michelle A. G. Ebalaroza Kawano—International Award-Winning Speaker, Award-Winning Author, Certified Facilitator, Certified Human Rights Consultant, and Creative Life Coach.
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