The Wall

Ok your at the Dollar Tree and want to know what to buy to feel like a new person. I list all the products I use for hair and back pain at work. 

It is between 5am and 9am and your still tossing and turning under the covers. Stress and panic are present because you may be late for work, 

school, or being first in line at the DMV. What about the days where you have nothing planned and you still can't sleep well? What if the nightmares

keep coming? What if your body really hurts and you don't want to get up?

The solution? Give your body what it needs before hand. Go pillow shopping. Change your bed and bedding. No money? Budget and plan to purchase immediately. Go to bed on time before time and wake up refreshed. Turn off the cell phone and sleep. Stop eating dinner after 7pm. 

Learn how to lull yourself to sleep to awaken refreshed. Invest in a dietician and purchase the supplements to support calm sleep. If you really want to change how wake up than change your SELF CARE Routine. No More Soda.

If someone accuses you of Spiritual Warfare or tells you that you are in it, excuse yourself from the conversation. They are saying that you are working with Spirits and those Spirits are at odds with their religious beliefs. Ladies, kindly remind these people that your Spirituality is PRIVATE. 

There outside opinions about your soul, spirit, or mindset were not asked for. Remind them that they asked you a question and you answered. 

End of conversation. 

Stop listening to others tell you how they can be convinced of your love for the divine. You did not ask their opinion but will gladly conversate on anything constructive like leads on a high paying employer or them helping you pay college fees. 

Do not get rattled by others. Be unbothered. Smile silently. Walk away. Drive to the beach.

Apologies...The recording cut in half and I had to salvage what I could to post.

Yes, I was fired the same day I put down payment on new vehicle. I feel calm because my money got my back. 

Click support as the hotel is 100.00 per night but please give what you can. I will continue to build on what I receive regardless.

Thanks for listening.

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As of February 1, I am now without a room to rent due water pipe issue at the home. I thought I would panic but my money had my back. 

When your over forty and single helping hands are basically absent, in your time of need. Think ahead, according to what you can afford, and plan accordingly. The little financial sacrifices now will save you later.

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This podcast post states what questions to ask to determine if your current relationship can be transitioned into a marriage to a provider. 

First THANK HIM for meeting with you and thank him for his responses to your question. 

Second DO NOT Get emotional. You are changing NOT him. 

Third be prepared with a list of bills you would like him to pay every month to relieve you of financial stress. Also explain you would like to be more feminine in your behavior with him but you feel tired and run down. Let him tell you what he expects in a wife if he pays bills. Say yes ONLY when you feel that financial weight has been lifted and secured by him as your soon to be spouse or live in boyfriend. 

If your unsure, he should pay ALL bills for RENT, Renters Insurance, Utilities, Cable and Internet, Car loan and Insurance (especially if he drives your car) and Date Night. This is the minimum if he has set the date for wedding. If he wants to do more LET HIM.

Live In boyfriend? The same minimum with hair, nails, and past debt payoff included. For relationships that are 2 years old or more at the time you listen to post with no marriage in sight.

Hello. This was a quick definition of what I mean by Upper Class. I equate the highs and lows of society with Income not your condition at birth. 

Women over 40 must be careful of our money and health during this time in America. Keep a reserve account and do not discuss your financial affairs with anyone outside of tax attorney and Insurance carrier. Women live longer than men so let him provide for you. 

Go where you are praised not ridiculed. Income + Assets = Wealth 

Are you a religious women over 40? It behooves you to practice abstinence until married and insist on a very public engagement. Finally, keep your money under maiden name separate from him. Put it in a Certificate of Deposit for 5 years with your name and your mothers (or other trusted person) incase marriage does not pan out. (Research Community property states as well.)

Ask for the HIGH AMOUNT dowry, especially; if you are new to religious community or not as educated. Give 10% of dowry amount to your family and place the rest in savings bond with your government for 5 years. Keep these funds separate and private from household funds in HIGH INTEREST accounts or start a business with other women to get percentage of profit in return. DO NOT Invest with the Groom or his family! This is a trap! Stop.

Women over 40 are more likely to suffer homelessness after divorce, or theft from joint bank accounts by spouses, or violence concerning money issues. Cut out the bums in your religion and DO NOT Take vow of poverty. The Upper Income household exist for the wealthy and righteous. Get your money from the start.

Remember NO State Certificate of marriage then NO Marriage at all. He is hiding and needs your money to do it. Do not be duped because of loneliness and religious guilt tripping. Ask for the money or property before the marriage NOT after. Be Wise. 

These are things that I realized to be true upon turning 40. I no longer do the chasing because everyone dies alone even in a room full of people. 

I embrace myself regardless if a man is present because I cater to me. 

Special thanks to my mother who told me about the importance of GOLD. Love you Mother.

This is the list of Men to date after Fall 2021. Do not chase them, let them chase you. No Exceptions. Do not waiver on what you want and they will give it to you. Stay Marriage Minded do not get distracted. 

Let them know you only date for marriage or a man that pays bills. Stop seeing losers, date up and move up. 

**Fall 2021**My Estimation of when Pandemic will end officially***If Pandemic continues only date the serious.