The Wall

Hello. The list of WHO NOT TO DATE, SEX, or MARRY in 2021 is here. I was condensing list while recording so I apologize for loosing track of the numbers. 

Women over 40 are being targeted for sex, money and a place to stay. Know what type of guy to stay clear of for your demographic. 

Additional Note...Any man who refuses STD test? Block. Any man pressuring you for sex? Block. Any man who insults you? Block them now. 

It will only get worse. 

Assumptive Relationship are situations that women find themselves in. Due to environmental pressures she is confusingly pushing herself into the role of the Pursuer of Sex and Companionship with attractive men who make her swoon. The confusion comes in much later as she realizes the financial weight of her relationship is not shared equally and she often feels ridiculed by the man of her choosing. 

She made the assumption that this chosen man would financially provide for her and her children if she continued to make his life easy sexually and otherwise. This assumption has confused "Consensual" sex partner with a man who has CHOSEN to financially secure and protect her and their household. 

Her chosen LOVER has made no such Confirmation of this Assumption. In fact, he is convinced that she is delusional about what she wants in a relationship and how to go about getting it. He is Shocked at the "switch up" in responsibility she is demanding of him while previously willing to provide out of her love for him. 

Environmental influences allowed her to think that it is okay to act one way at first and then "switch up" to what she actually needs later. 

This delusion is common in most relationships. Lifestyle is not discussed at all and Sex masks "Intimacy and Intercourse" as the  Confirmation of Progress in the relationship. No boundaries were ever set nor agreed upon. There is NO Goal for the relationship. 

This is not an option for women who want to feel protected and financially secured by their spouses at all times. We must act differently.

Please ladies get off these dating apps giving out your phone # and location. These are unsafe times for casual sex. Only entertain Protective Providing men who secure your rent or mortgage in hopes to prepare for future marriage or JUST GET MARRIED. Do not give him money. Do not give him a place to stay. Don't bail him out of jail! 

Be alone and create a better you for an improved option to reveal itself to you. 

For those that are Abstaining from sex during the Pandemic Thank You for having GOOD SENSE. Many Blessings to all. 

Besides sleeping and eating all day what should I do with my time during Self Isolation? How do I make the most out of Agoraphobia or mild depression? How do I not feel soo alone? Do you need a nudge in the right direction? Take a listen.

This will be the first and last time I speak of politics on this podcast. I now own pocket copy of US Constitution and its amendments. 

America is my home and I love her. 

No Alcohol

No Drugs 

No Problems

Do not invite family who live felonious lifestyles

If you have to have alcohol, 4 drink max per adult

Keep event to 4 hour max

Are your sons 18 and older and completely ungrateful to you? Do they reject your request to run to the store? or get you something to eat while their out? Do they pay 0.00 to you in bill money?

Now ladies this is normal. Do not belittle your children for any reason and do not curse your child. They are exactly the way you raised them to be. 

However, if you want to stop experiencing rejection from your sons than STOP expecting them to give back to you. 

They are adults. Your final lesson to them as their mother is to prepare them to financially support themselves. Take a listen...

Do you suffer from obsessive compulsion when it comes to your ex? Take control of yourself and move forward.

Get help if you must but let go of your EX now.

Are you tired of paying for every Xmas dinner, buying most of the gifts, and doing all of the cooking? STOP. 

Are you the organizer every year for the family? STOP. 

What would happen if you treated Xmas like any other day?

What would happen if you let other people do the work?

Save your money if your family is ungrateful for the efforts you make every year. STOP.

When is the last time you held yourself accountable for your emotional state? When have you ever taken stock of how you feel? Why have you not responded to what you need to feel secure? Why are waiting on others to give you something in return for your kindness, your worry, your feelings towards them? They do not and will not reciprocate in the way you want. 

Ladies take accountability for your situation. Stop giving out your car, your money, and your time for some big reward at the end of the rainbow. 

No one cares for you better than you. It is time for SELF VALIDATION not SELF VICTIMIZATION. There is nothing wrong with saying NO if you feel unappreciated or ridiculed.  You need you right now. STOP SAYING YES to other people's needs.