This is a great tool when you are looking to resolve conflict or when you've been wronged but still want to maintain your values. When you feel as if you've been cheated, you can still let those who have wronged them know that we've been offended by them kindly and still give correction when needed. You can keep your own morals by avoiding fight fire with fire, but to be affective, we can convey the message we need to convey while still keeping the morals and values we need to treat people as people, even if we don't feel like they deserve it.