What leads a couple to infidelity? How can you avoid it happening to you? In this episode, Yvette and I dive into the true causes of affairs and share insights from our years of studying with relationship experts like Tony Robbins and Esther Perel. We explain the six human needs that drive all behavior, and how affairs often happen when the needs for uncertainty and significance go unmet in the primary relationship. Throughout the conversation, we explain how consciously meeting these needs, can keep the passion alive. We believe that by understanding these dynamics, and proactively nurturing your partner's needs, you can build an unshakable love that withstands the tests of time.

[00:00 - 02:29] - Introduction and impact of affairs

[02:30 - 02:52] - Six human needs framework

[02:53 - 04:07] - 1st Need: Certainty 

[04:08 - 05:18] - 2nd Need: Uncertainty 

[05:19 - 06:50] - 3rd Need: Significance

[06:51 - 07:36] - 4th Need: Love and Connection

[07:37 - 07:56] - 5th Need: Growth 

[07:57 - 08:43] - 6th Need: Contribution 

[08:44 - 12:02] - Seminar experience at Mastermind on Relationships

[12:03 - 14:06] - Key causes of affairs: uncertainty and significance

[14:07 - 15:01] - Maintaining behaviors from early relationship stage

[15:02 - 18:58] - "Mating in Captivity" book recommendation

[18:59 - 20:33] - Bringing Back Passion

[20:34 - 23:31] - Closing thoughts and resources

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Esther Perel Book: Mating in Captivity https://a.co/d/1d6kZcn

Secrets of Adventure Dating Program https://adventuredatingplaybook.com/

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What leads a couple to infidelity? How can you rebuild trust? In this episode, Yvette and I open up about the challenging topic of infidelity and share insights from our years of experience helping couples recover and rebuild their relationships. We explain the concept of polarity shifts, frog farming, and how unmet needs can lead to affairs. Throughout the conversation, we share the inspiring story of a couple who transformed their marriage after infidelity by immersing themselves in our Warriors and Queens teachings. We believe that with the right tools and commitment, couples can recover and build a stronger, more loving relationship than they had before. 

[00:00 - 05:03] - Intro and a couple's story of nearly divorcing after an affair

[05:04 - 07:13] - How affairs happen and the role of polarity shifts

[07:14 - 11:12] - Ways women unknowingly emasculate men through frog farming

[11:13 - 11:13] - The 3 stages men go through when needs aren't met

[11:14 - 13:09] - Keys to recovery: forgiveness, understanding both partners' roles

[13:10 - 16:56] - A couple's journey of transformation through Warriors and Queens

[16:57 - 21:09] - Closing thoughts and free e-course offer

We need your help spreading the word so we can uplift even more relationships together! 🙏

Right now all that separates many partners from extraordinary intimacy is missing a few simple keys. Gain instant access to our free e-course to get those keys now.

Esther Perel Book: Mating in Captivity https://a.co/d/1d6kZcn

Secrets of Adventure Dating Program https://adventuredatingplaybook.com/

Free course: => warriorsandqueens.com/3steps <=

Please also take just a moment to subscribe, rate and leave a review for the Warriors & Queens Podcast! 

If you've gained just a fraction of value from our hard-won lessons that we shared, we ask for just a few moments of your time in exchange. 

Simply sharing what connected with you most in an Apple Podcasts or Spotify review will empower the algorithm to reach and rescue more partnerships! 

Do you feel your husband cherishes the kids or even the dog more than you? In this episode, Yvette and I discuss three powerful strategies to help women receive more love and devotion from their partners. We address this common challenge and share how turning complaints into great asks, using hero's language, and stacking the benefits can inspire men to take action. I explain the importance of giving respect to men by avoiding emasculation and creating hero moments. We also highlight the significance of honoring a man's transition time, allowing him to smoothly shift roles from work to home. By implementing these communication skills, couples can transform their relationships and experience the deep love and devotion they deserve. Subscribe to our podcast and download our free course to learn more about nurturing extraordinary relationships.

[00:00 - 00:51] - Introduction

[00:52 - 05:08] - Turn Your Complain into a Great Ask

[05:09 - 06:41] - How to Speak Hero’s Language

[06:42 - 07:13] - Turn Expectations into Appreciation 

[07:14 - 11:13] - How can you Give Respect to Your Partner? 

[11:14 - 14:13] - What Is the Transition Time?

[14:14 - 16:12] - Closing Segment

We need your help spreading the word so we can uplift even more relationships together! 🙏

Right now all that separates many partners from extraordinary intimacy is missing a few simple keys. Gain instant access to our free e-course to get those keys now.

=> warriorsandqueens.com/3steps <=

Please also take just a moment to subscribe, rate and leave a review for the Warriors & Queens Podcast! 

If you've gained just a fraction of value from our hard-won lessons that we shared, we ask for just a few moments of your time in exchange. 

Simply sharing what connected with you most in an Apple Podcasts or Spotify review will empower the algorithm to reach and rescue more partnerships! 

How can a couple survive when one partner goes through a midlife crisis? In this powerful episode, Yvette and I vulnerably share my challenging journey through the tunnel phase between the prince and king stages of development. Yvette discusses how my crisis made her question herself, but she learned to support me with unconditional love. We explain how a man in a mid-life crisis may suddenly change and create chaos, but the couple can emerge stronger by the partner being a compassionate and loving friend. We offer strategies like surrounding the couple with supportive people and resources. By showing appreciation and getting the right help, relationships cannot only survive this crisis but thrive on the other side.

[00:00 - 05:03] - Introduction

[05:04 - 10:23] - Mid-Life Crisis explained: 4 stages of development

[10:24 - 12:48] - The tunnel experience for Yvette 

[12:49 - 18:06] - How to support a man through the tunnel phase?

[18:07 - 21:10] - Testimony of the couple that asked for support 

[21:11 - 21:59] - How to identify if your partner is in the tunnel phase?

[22:00 - 23:43] - Closing segment

We need your help spreading the word so we can uplift even more relationships together! 🙏

Right now all that separates many partners from extraordinary intimacy is missing a few simple keys. Gain instant access to our free e-course to get those keys now.

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Have you ever worn a mask to protect yourself from getting hurt, only to realize that it's preventing you from experiencing true love and connection? Heads up: we all do. In this episode, Dave and I discuss the concept of "masks" - protective layers created by past traumas and experiences that can affect personal growth and relationships. We share our own stories of developing masculine and feminine masks as a result of childhood wounds. When triggers arise in relationships, it's an opportunity to get curious about what past pain or trauma is being activated, rather than blaming or judging one's partner. If you have struggled with making and pushing the ones you love back because of hidden wounds, this is a must-watch. 

[00:00 - 02:26] - Introduction

[02:27 - 07:22] - The masculine and feminine mask 

[07:23 - 09:43] - We choose partners that trigger us 

[09:44 - 12:58] - What to do when we get triggered? The four F's technique

[12:59 - 17:43] - The mask framework and how to set yourself free 

[17:44 - 19:54] - Closing Segment

We need your help spreading the word so we can uplift even more relationships together! 🙏

Right now all that separates many partners from extraordinary intimacy is missing a few simple keys. Gain instant access to our free e-course to get those keys now.

=> warriorsandqueens.com/3steps <=

Please also take just a moment to subscribe, rate and leave a review for the Warriors & Queens Podcast! 

If you've gained just a fraction of value from our hard-won lessons that we shared, we ask for just a few moments of your time in exchange. 

Simply sharing what connected with you most in an Apple Podcasts or Spotify review will empower the algorithm to reach and rescue more partnerships! 

Is it possible to bring your relationship back from the brink of divorce? After nearly ending our marriage twice, we were finally ready to call it quits. Sitting across from the divorce attorney, clenching the documents in our hands, we asked ourselves – how did it come to this? In this episode, we pull back the curtain of why couples fall out of love and how we recovered the passion we were convinced was gone forever. We expose the hidden forces that covertly sabotage relationships – keeping lovers trapped in cycles of dysfunction. If you’re tired of repeating the same destructive fights or you feel your romance flatlining, this is the episode for you.

[00:00 - 06:14] - Introduction

[06:15 - 10:15] - Our early marriage struggles

[10:16 - 17:22] - The epiphany that saved our marriage

[17:23 - 19:25] - When past traumas sabotage your partnership

[19:26 - 21:28] - Passion and polarity

[21:29 - 29:31] - Healing triggers before resentment kills love

[29:32 - 33:01] - Closing segment

We need your help spreading the word so we can uplift even more relationships together! 🙏

Right now all that separates many partners from extraordinary intimacy is missing a few simple keys. Gain instant access to our free e-course to get those keys now.

=> warriorsandqueens.com/3steps <=

Please also take just a moment to subscribe, rate and leave a review for the Warriors & Queens Podcast! 

If you've gained just a fraction of value from our hard-won lessons that we shared, we ask for just a few moments of your time in exchange. 

Simply sharing what connected with you most in an Apple Podcasts or Spotify review will empower the algorithm to reach and rescue more partnerships! 

How do you heal yourself and your relationship when you've reached a breaking point?

Dave and Yvette Ulloa, founders of The Warriors and Queens Show got married 24 years ago and decided to start several businesses together, adding a new dynamic to their relationship. Despite incredible times, they faced challenging times where they almost called it quits twice. Instead of blaming and judging each other, they realized that their pattern would repeat in new relationships. So, instead of blaming each other, they decided to heal themselves, believing that healing themselves would heal their relationship. They spent over a million dollars and 20 years learning from the best relationship, communication, and leadership teachers. The Warriors and Queens Show was born out of their 20-year self-discovery journey, and they hope the show will transform and heal listeners, helping them achieve their dream partnership and marriage.

Tune in to this powerful show and learn how to:

Dave and Yvette's mission is to empower dream relationships one person at a time. Join them on this incredible journey and discover how to heal, grow, and create the thriving, loving relationship you deserve.

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Don't settle for a broken relationship or a life of loneliness. Take action today and join Dave and Yvette on their quest to empower dream relationships. Subscribe, like, and share, and get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery that will heal your heart and transform your life.

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Key Quotes:

"Instead of blaming and judging each other, we decided to go on a self-discovery to heal ourselves because at some level we knew if we healed ourselves, we would heal our relationship." - Dave Ulloa

"We hope that you enjoy it. Most important thing is that there's transformation for you, that there is healing for you, that there is that dream partnership, that dream marriage that you've been praying for because of the Warriors and Queens Show, we empower dream relationships one person at a time." - Yvette Ulloa