In this episode, Joe sits with Dr. Jaime Goff, executive coach, leadership consultant, and founder of The Empathic Leader.
During their conversation, Jaime introduces listeners to attachment theory and explains how the internal working models we develop early in life shape the way we show up in relationships and leadership. Together, they explore the four attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and ambivalent—and how these patterns often surface in leadership behaviors like approval seeking, micromanaging, emotional withdrawal, or control.
They also discuss themes from Jaime’s new book, The Secure Leader, which explores the hidden forces that shape a leader’s story and how greater awareness can help leaders build trust, strengthen relationships, and lead with more security.
A key takeaway from the conversation is that these patterns do not mean someone is broken. They simply offer insight into how we learned to navigate relationships.
Because leadership is not just about what someone does. It is about who they are becoming. And if better truly has no finish line, the work of becoming more secure is part of that lifelong pursuit.
Connect with Dr. Jaime Goff
Learn more about Jaime and her work:https://drjaimegoff.com
Purchase Jaime’s book, The Secure Leader:https://drjaimegoff.com/the-secure-leader
Sponsors and Partners
This episode is brought to you by Connecting Heads to Hearts (C2H). If you are looking to elevate leadership through both cognitive and affective development, visit:https://c2htransform.com
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Better has no finish line.