You know the feeling. You open your laptop, see that little notification, and your stomach drops before you've even read the words… a one-star review. Your hands go sweaty, your mind starts spiralling, and suddenly all the beautiful work you do feels invisible. Andy and Jacinta have both been there, and in this episode they're walking you through exactly what to do when it happens, why it stings so much, and the reframe that turns your first critic into proof you're doing something right.
In This Episode:
- Discover the "judgment tax" reframe, and why the more people you serve, the more opinions and criticism come with the territory (it's the price of visibility, not a sign you're failing)
- Hear Jacinta's raw story of getting her very first critic after her first live event, and the phone call with her mentor that changed how she sees negative feedback forever
- Learn the peach analogy that gives you full permission to stop trying to be liked by everyone
- Get the exact first move to make when a bad review lands (hint: it's not replying straight away)
- Find out the one question to ask yourself before you respond, and why even 5% of truth is worth listening to
- Learn how to write a response that actually wins over future clients, using conscious communication, kindness, and zero defensiveness
- Understand when to report a fake or unfair review to Google and get it taken down
- Discover how to "bury the bad boy" with a simple five-star review drive in your practice
- Try the Seven Levels Deep exercise to reconnect with your big why so no review can shake you
Key Quotes: "You can be the juiciest, ripest peach and not everyone likes peaches. It's not that you have to change what type of peach you are." - Jacinta
"Congratulations, you have your first critic. For you to have someone not like what you did, it means you were big enough and polarising enough to stand for something." - the advice that changed everything for Jacinta
Mentioned in this episode:
- The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz (a short, powerful read on not taking things personally)
- The Seven Levels Deep exercise (learned from Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi) for reconnecting with your why
- Schedule your FREE Practice Plan Call
If this episode lit something up in you and you're ready to build a business that supports your life instead of consuming it, book a free Practice Plan call and let's map out your next chapter together.