In this episode of The Wedding Help Desk, we’re flipping the script on traditional wedding planning advice. What if we told you that acting less like a hesitant shopper and more like a dream client could actually get you better service, more attention and maybe even a few perks from your vendors?

 Kevin breaks down simple reverse psychology tactics that work on everyone from venue owners to photographers—and explains why showing up confident, decisive, and low-drama can completely change the energy of your planning experience. If you want vendors to prioritize you, this episode is your secret weapon.

What do you do when everything goes wrong? Like… hit-a-deer-on-the-way-to-a-wedding wrong? In this episode of The Wedding Help Desk, I’m sharing a personal nightmare travel story that turned into the ultimate lesson in why backup plans are everything—for vendors and couples.

From car trouble to wedding-day disasters, I’ll break down: ✅ Why I always travel early for out-of-town weddings (and why you should build buffer time into your wedding day). ✅ The importance of expecting the unexpected—vendor emergencies, bad weather, timeline hiccups, you name it. ✅ Practical ways to make sure your wedding stays on track even when things go sideways.

Because here’s the truth: the best weddings aren’t the ones where nothing goes wrong—they’re the ones where you’re ready when it does. Let’s talk about it.

Are wedding myths costing you time, money, and unnecessary stress? In this episode of The Wedding Help Desk, we’re tackling some of the biggest wedding myths out there.

Some traditions have meaning, but others? Total nonsense.

Join me as I break down the truth behind these common wedding misconceptions, help you make informed decisions, and maybe even save you some cash along the way. Whether you're newly engaged or deep into planning, this episode is packed with insights to help you create a wedding that’s yours, not just what tradition tells you it should be.

🎧 Listen now and let’s separate fact from fiction!

Ever notice how every hero in a great story has a guide? Life’s biggest moments—whether in movies or reality—are easier when you have someone showing you the way. And if there’s one time in life where you really need a guide, it’s wedding planning.

In this episode, I break down why having a guide is essential, how wedding planning is often a first-time challenge for most couples and why The Wedding Help Desk exists to make the journey easier. Don’t let stress, wasted money, and overwhelming decisions take the joy out of your big day—tune in and learn how to navigate the wedding process like a pro.

🔹 Listen now to learn: ✔️ Why every great story has a guide (and why you need one, too). ✔️ The biggest mistakes couples make when planning a wedding. ✔️ How to avoid wedding-day regret and actually enjoy the experience.

👉 Follow the podcast for more wedding wisdom, and let’s make sure your big day is one you’ll love looking back on.

🎉 Bigger Isn’t Always Better: The Festival Effect on Weddings 🎉

This week, I’m celebrating my birthday with an 80s neon party—think small gathering, but with big vibes. I’ve brought in vendors, hired a dancer, and created an experience that feels like a festival, all without breaking the bank. And here’s the kicker—this same approach works for weddings.

In this episode, we’re diving into The Festival Effect—how small, strategic details can make your wedding feel grand without blowing your budget. From unique vendor experiences to entertainment that wows, I’ll show you how to create an unforgettable wedding day using less-is-more magic.

🔹 Why perception matters more than price 🔹 Low-cost add-ons that elevate the guest experience 🔹 Vendors & entertainment that make your wedding feel next-level

If you want your wedding to feel like a high-end event without the high-end price tag, this episode is for you! Tune in and learn how to create impact without overspending. 💡✨

Weddings aren’t like water or oxygen—you won’t die without one. But you really want one.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason wedding services cost what they do, why comparing prices to DIY is a bad move and how to stop stressing over things you want but don’t need. Spoiler: Weddings are a luxury event, and that’s okay! Just don’t get mad at me… get mad at your Pinterest board. Let’s cut through the BS and talk about what actually matters!

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When it comes to planning a wedding, you’re not just hiring individual vendors—you’re assembling a well balanced team. But what happens when those vendors don’t mesh well? Miscommunication, timeline hiccups and a disjointed wedding experience. In this episode of The Wedding Help Desk, we’re diving into the importance of hiring vendors who know each other, respect each other’s roles and work seamlessly together.

I’ll break down: ✅ Why vendor compatibility impacts your wedding day flow ✅ The hidden advantages of hiring a team that already collaborates well ✅ How to spot red flags when hiring vendors

Whether you’re just starting your vendor search or finalizing your wedding team, this episode will help you make choices that lead to a stress-free, smooth and unforgettable day.

🎧 Listen now and start building your vendor dream team!

They say love conquers all, but what about debt? 💸 In this episode, I sit down with financial planner Ken Calcutt from Cornerstone Financial to talk about the money conversations every couple must have before saying "I do."

We dive into the hard truths: financial issues are one of the leading causes of divorce so we look at how to prevent money from becoming a wedge in your relationship. Whether you're engaged, thinking about getting married, or just curious, this episode will help you say “I do” to love and financial stability.

What is the intention behind The Wedding Help Desk? This isn’t just about Pinterest-perfect designs or trendy wedding inspiration—it’s about real, no-nonsense help. Weddings can be magical, but they can also be overwhelming, stressful, and expensive.

Join us as we dive into why The Wedding Help Desk exists, the practical tools and guidance it offers, and how to approach wedding planning the right way—without jeopardizing your relationship, mental health, or finances.

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In this episode, Kevin tackles three of the most common wedding planning dilemmas: how to trim your guest list without drama, writing heartfelt vows that won’t make you cringe, and clever budget hacks to plan a wedding that feels luxurious without breaking the bank.