Theninetofivers

Theninetofivers

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  • Episode 52 - Question Time❓❔
    This week marks XO’s birthday but does the lustre of birthdays dampen as you age. Should you dub it down as you mature or is every birthday one that should be heralded and cherished. Whilst the birthdays keep coming, the topics sometimes don't but sometimes a good chat is a perfect opportunity to good chance to get to know the team. As the question rain down from music choices to introspective questions from trending topics to pertinent discussion this is an light-hearted episode that gives insight into the individuals behind the podcast. Follow us, Like, Share & Subscribe biolinky.co/theninetofivers
    1 hr 10 min
  • Episode 51 - Be A Man💪🏾
    It is the last year of the month and what a year it has been 2020 is the year that just keeps on subverting expectations and there will undoubtably be more twists and turns to come. The one constant you can count on in December however is Christmas and for many the shopping has already commenced but how soon is too soon? One thing that is too expensive for a lot of people’s Christmas lists are houses but relocation is a daunting task for many. Starting in an entirely new network can prove more difficult and uncomfortable than first imagined. How do you make friends as an adult? It is certainly easier for outgoing people compared to conservative people but can be awkward either way but sometimes you have to do unconventional things to create the environment you want for yourself. There has been an argument of late that men are not conventional as they used to be, that the masculine man is being lost. Are typical ideas of masculinity correct in this day and age or do they need to evolve with the times? Regardless life as a man comes with pressures that are often overlooked and downplayed because men are supposed to suck it up and deal with it and in doing so, it often leaves men with a range of damaging feelings and emotions that are unaddressed and unresolved. It can manifest in a whole range of negative contexts from addiction to suicide, from resentment to inadequacy so often men feel forced to adopt a façade to appear more together than they are. Join TheNineToFivers in a story filled edition of this week podcast. Follow us, Like, Share & Subscribe biolinky.co/theninetofivers
    Apologies for the audio issues this episode, it will be sorted for the next one :/
    1 hr 31 min
  • Episode 50 - Risk It For A Chocolate Biscuit🍪
    With the acts of selflessness, we have seen lately seemingly stemming from Marcus Rashford’s fight against child hunger. TheNineToFivers consider the implications of charity and volunteering. Is volunteering specifically still relevant in todays world? In certain industries volunteering was a way to get a foot in the door but is this still the case? What about volunteering time for charitable causes, does that even cross minds for the average joe? Popular figures who have done this and recorded themselves doing so have often been touted as clout chasers, but does the good deed and potential inspiration it provides to others dispel actions done for self-interest? Sometimes though, it is damned if you do, damned if you don’t so you have to do what you think is best and deal with the risks associated with that. What shapes our attitudes to risk though, is this something innate or does this develop through environment? Does our upbringing or own experiences shape this or a combination of the two? There are many aspects of life that people have varying appetites for risk for. From finances to health from business to integrity. Those who are able to apply a healthy dose of risk in their life have the potential to soar above the masses in terms of achievement and lifestyle as seen with the majestic rise of the billion-dollar brand Gymshark. For a company to thrive they usually have a set of values and morals that they stand by even when this is not pleasing to their customer base. Whilst Sainsbury’s retained rating following their response to racism, Tesco decided to duck the smoke entirely by removing their planned all black family advert from circulation. It is something we see far too often; profits often supersede morals and often action is only taken when silence starts to affect the brand and ultimately the coin. Rappers are not only constantly risking their coins with their connection to their road lives but also in certain instances their lives. Can anything be done to stop the cycle of hate? Will the masses continue to support the artists with more dirt on the soles? When people who have inflicted hurt and pain on others end up dying, should they be afforded the same sympathy as civilians or has their lifestyle just caught up to them? Find out in a thought-provoking episode of TheNineToFivers Podcast. Follow us, Like, Share & Subscribe biolinky.co/theninetofivers
    1 hr 23 min
  • Episode 49 - There's No Excuse😤
    TheNineToFivers have not met in real time for 2 weeks but despite lockdown there is always exciting, intriguing or downright strange things happening. There are those who denied lockdown and tried their hardest to keep their businesses open using varied combinations from bullish stubbornness to incredible application of judicial and common law. Covid 19 is devastating the country in more ways than one but with the announcement of two viable vaccines there may be a light at the end of the tunnel.  In the Royal Family’s case however a tunnel (where Dianna lost her life) nearly spelled the destruction of the Royals as we see them. It was the culmination of scandals and infidelity, fraud and deception that ultimately spawn from Camilla not being deemed suitable for Prince Charles. In a twisted tale with far reaching collateral damage somehow true love prevailed with the couple marrying and remaining together to this day. For many people however this is not their reality, and this is not always down to conscious choices but sometimes down to unresolved traumas and emotional unavailability. When questioned about relationship statuses these individuals are often quick to give excuses rather than address or recognize the core issues. Which is a protective mechanism, but it begs the question, do excuses harm or help us? Is it a simple way to shift responsibility or are there actually valid excuses? Sometimes we may have good reason and we realise life is not fair, but it is often how you play the card you are dealt that determines how your life turns out. The choices we make can have a big contribution to our happiness and a lot of these moments are immortalised in picture form but do we consume photos like we used to? Are they as valuable stored in phones as they were when they are printed out for viewing pleasure? Find out what we think in a introspective edition of TheNineToFivers Podcast. Follow us, Like, Share & Subscribe biolinky.co/theninetofivers
    1 hr 20 min
  • Episode 48 - Pass The Courvoisier🥃
    Together we stand divided we fall sounds good in premise but what happens when opportunities seem limited? So often we suffer from a crabs in a barrel mentality and sometimes that is because that is the reality. If opportunities are limited not everybody can thrive. What would happen if those who thrive dropped a hand to those below them and what if that notion was continued all down the chain. Would things start to change? It is certainly an interesting thing to consider as a united people certainly have the power to create mass change. The sway of a friend or loved one can have a dramatic behaviour on our own behaviour but how far do we allow the actions of others to influence our own? Is drinking alcohol sheep mentality or just a pathway to enjoyment? If you can’t enjoy yourself without alcohol is it a problem or even an addiction? Addictions can be hard to detect when there are no obvious problems in our lives, whether it be alcohol, drugs, food, sex, or otherwise how do we know the balance between enjoyment, overindulgence and addiction. Does it require something major to happen or does someone need to point it out. Whilst say fame and clout are addictive there are certain celebs in precarious situations that might argue that it is exhausting and invasive lifestyle where mistakes and flaws in their character are exposed and magnified beyond measure. With the latest sting of celebrities to have their public affairs and allegations of domestic violence blasted on the news outlets, it begs the question when should allegations affect your work life? Can the two be separated? What about when your work requires you to become someone that is not representative of the person you are at home like actors in sex scenes. Can these contradictions be separated because it is work and pays the bills? See what we think in a thought-provoking edition of TheNineToFivers Podcast. Follow us, Like, Share & Subscribe biolinky.co/theninetofivers
    1 hr 18 min
  • Episode 47 - Lockdown 2.0🔒
    2tones starts off the show this week with frustrating tales of discrimination, prejudice and encounters with difficult members of staff.  Why do people bring their own personal feeling into decisions they have no authority making? Is it a display of power or do they deem it as a challenge to their pride? Whatever the case, when staff are wrong and strong it completely goes against the ethos ‘the customer is always right’ and often leads to call for the manager. Depending on the manager’s assessment of that member of staff, they may back them or they may take control and lockdown the situation. Unfortunately, the government seem to be taking the same approach with the country as lockdown 2.0 approaches. Should this have come earlier? Will people comply with the new lockdown? When will this nightmare end? There are no clear answers, but institutions of education remain open and kids still need to be taken to school by their parents…or do they? At what age is it appropriate for kids to start going to school because at one point the saying, ‘it takes a village to raise a child’ seemed to resonate, as areas were community based but has this sense of community been lost? With the repulsive act that took place following a failed kidnapping, is it more dangerous now than it has ever been? What should be done with child predators. Should the problem be dealt with further up the chain?  From sexual predator register to those on the suspected terrorist list, so often the perpetrators come from this pool of people so should more be done to monitor them? Or is it a complex issue in need of a variety of answers. Find out in an emotionally charged episode of TheNineToFivers Podcast. Follow us, Like, Share & Subscribe biolinky.co/theninetofivers
    1 hr 16 min
  • Episode 46 - Hidden Money 💰
    Money controls so many aspects of our lives and you would think people would be fighting tooth and nail to make sure every penny is used to its full extent, but over a 150 billion is wasted collectively in a variety of a ways. From expired gift cards, forgotten about oyster cards to zombie bank accounts and lost bonds there is a lot of money that is being wasted and for those who want to live and buy in London every penny is needed. Would it be so bad to move out of London though? With prices at a premium, many will be forced to look elsewhere for their houses and the reality is, that many people will need to expand their thinking or drastically increase their finances if they want to live in the capital. Mortgages aside, banks provide us with a variety of services the main one of which is to store our money. A lot of people have stuck with the first bank account they ever opened but is it important to look around every so often or is it a case of if it is not broken, don’t fix it. One thing is for sure, banks do try to lure new customers to them with introductory offers or other incentives whether that be free money or cheap loan rates. If you are financially responsible it can be a great thing to take advantage of, if you are not though, you can find your self in a hole trying to keep up with the trends and buying things beyond your capabilities. With the damaging message regarding Birkin bags recently, it is important to note that you should cut your coat according to your cloths as people are in varying situations and circumstances are different. No human is the same but there are certain individuals that have separated themselves from the rest. By becoming leaders in their fields both in performance and ethically they inspire new generations to carry on and even improve or what they have done, but when is enough, enough? Find out in an insightful episode of TheNineToFivers Podcast. Follow us, Like, Share & Subscribe biolinky.co/theninetofivers
    1 hr 36 min
  • Episode 45 - Under Pressure 🔗

    The government have been spending a lot of money recently and they are now trying to reclaim it forcefully. From the proposed expansion of the congestion charge and ultra-low emission zone to the 24hr bus lanes it really does feel like there is an attack on motorists. Is it a ploy to get people back on public transport? Are we simply dancing to the tune the government is playing? Will our choices from here on out really be our own or part of an elaborate plan to force the masses to play ball? Can a man really be forced into his decisions? How about in the case of relationships and monogamy? The viral clip featuring Devale and his wife discussed this very topic and the team had varying opinions. Does monogamy truly benefit humans? Or would being polygamous or polyamorous lead to happier situations? It is true that there are many reasons why humans are monogamous creatures. Studies have shown those in successful monogamous relationships tend to live longer, healthier lives however everybody dies as some point. It is an area people are uncomfortable with and for a significant proportion of people it is something they only really consider when they are close to deaths door. Setting up a will and assigning a power of attorney could really make a huge difference if something horrible or unexpected were to occur. An act of love is making death as stress free as possible for loved ones who will undoubtably be going through a lot already, but love is not always reciprocated especially in the land of the living. As Big Tobz highlighted not everybody is happy for you even those you consider friends, so it is important to be prepared for such situations but how far is too far? Should you constantly be in a state of paranoia? One group who certainly had reason to be paranoid the system was working against them were Posty and Pierre of GrimeDaily, when their life’s work was erased, and they were forced to build themselves up again. What separates those people who hit setbacks and never recover versus those who are able to go harder? At what point does principles overtake money or lifestyle? With 50 cent’s recent endorsement of Trump over tax plans for rich personnel by Joe Biden, a lot of these questions have been put to the forefront. Find out about all these topics and more in a jam-packed episode of TheNineToFivers Podcast. Follow us, Like, Share & Subscribe biolinky.co/theninetofivers We stand in solidarity with our brothers and sisters in Nigeria over the atrocities that are being commited by those that are supposed to serve and protect. Global pressure must be put on the Nigerian government over their brutal handiling of the Nigerian Youth who were simply protesting in a peaceful and lawful matter. This was a massacre that was meant to supress the voices of justice but let us not let the courageous voices of the youth be lost in vain. Let us use our pain to mobilise and create real lasting change! #EndSARS Help Below https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/554150

    1 hr 20 min
  • Episode 44 - The Underdog's On Top🐶
    In all walks of life when something happens that has never happened before, it is recorded and confined to the history books. But what effect do records have on the masses and more importantly, what effect does it have to those in the industry? Does it become the new target to exceed or should records not be compared? It can seem like we give more praise to people who have turned their lives around after going through a negative phase than those who have always been on the straight and narrow? Is it simply a human trait to prefer a comeback story in comparison to the goody two shoes who have always performed in our society? Is it fair? Does it matter? In a spicy week the fuse has been lit by Chip who sent two firecrackers in the direction of the current golden child of music Stormzy. In what has the potential to the biggest clash grime has ever seen Stormzy has not currently replied and many are not surprised. Chip is the current knock-out king in this arena but is this move by Chip simply defending his honour or is it a simple grasp at clout? Is Stormzy obligated to respond to defend his own reputation? How important is reputation for individuals and what is the value of a brand for a company? We have seen businesses go to amazing lengths to protect what they have built but when is it important to mind your own business and when should you intervene? We come across situations from time to time where we could enquire and get involved but chose not to. Sometimes the more people that are there the less is actually done due to the bystander effect and the diffusion of responsibility. There are certain instances however where people are united in their actions to make a difference and a change. None more so pertinent than SARs which has received a lot of spotlight both from the people of Nigeria and beyond. Make sure to listen to all this and more in another action-packed edition of TheNineToFivers Podcast. 
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    1 hr 50 min
  • Episode 43 - Black History Month✊🏾
    Episode 43 – You’re Fired
    So, it’s black history month and to open the show we hear instances of black excellence from both the past and current history. Despite the displays of brilliance and ingenuity, business acumen and the ability to strike decisively in areas others cannot proved to be the difference to living life in prosperity or squalor. We are mostly all educated in the same way but why is it that some can break out of the confines of mediocrity and others are not able to? Book smarts are one thing but Is independent learning a vital component? Is it something you either have or you don’t? Or is it a mixture of the two? When it comes to black excellence the way Ryan Leslie has stayed independent and grown a loyal fanbase can only be respected. With so many trapped in 360 deals with the label getting most of the profit, it is a breath of fresh air to know it can be done independently. Not all that glitter is gold however and life as a musician, especially an up and coming one may prove testing. As streams become the main source of income in light of Covid – 19 insight into the numbers needed to bring home money is quite eye opening. It may be an important lesson into why diversifying the income portfolio is a necessity not just an option. With Puregym the latest brand to apologise for tone deaf messages, TheNineToFivers explore how one bad seed can tarnish a brand. Can it be protected against? Would hiring the right people for the right roles or drilling in policies help? Are companies at fault for not breeding the right culture or not incentivising workers? Or are humans simply prone to make mistakes and bad choices? One thing is for sure, too many significant mistakes and you are likely to be fired. Should it ever get to that stage or should you resign before it happens? Find out about all this and more in an action-packed episode of the NineToFivers Podcast
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    1 hr 39 min

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