Theninetofivers

Theninetofivers

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  • Episode 42 - Perception vs Reality

    It has been an interesting week filled with displays of dominance in the sporting arena and astonishing tales of luck and drama TheNineToFivers detail their harrowing experiences not in day to day life but in the space after falling asleep. It was a vivid and realistic experience which is not typical as a lot of people are not able to remember or accurately communicate what transpired at the point of waking up. How do you like to communicate? Texting, phone calls, face to face, emails? There is a variety of ways to do it, but do we tend to gravitate towards one more than the others, is it purely situational or is there a distinct preference one way or another? Does being too accessible bite away at your free time? If you attempt to find out the reason behind someone’s message or call too early is that too cold or just an efficient thing to do? Something important that is not always as efficient as it should be, is the adoption service. There have been a number of cases where people have not gotten their preference due to availability or other issues and because of that you have the rare cases of transracial adoption. Is it natural for things out of the norm to garner stares or is it a bad trait that should be actively trained out of you? Sometime even if we stare we are not able to see the full picture and often our mind can jump to conclusions and form a perception that is vastly different from reality. Why do we do this? It is not exclusive to situations we look at but sometimes even how we view ourselves. Take a listen to another engaging episode of TheNineToFivers Podcast.

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    1 hr 26 min
  • Episode 41 - Trust Issues
    Nous saluons le retour! Akwaaba! Okaerinasai! Whilst you have been welcomed back to another week’s episode in a variety of languages, unfortunately for a large number of Brits, english is the only language they speak. Why is this the case when a large proportion of Europeans can speak their own language and are pretty fluent in English as well. Are Brits self-centred or is it a failing in the schooling systems. With the development of technological tools that aid in language, will the need to be bilingual be as advantageous in future? Time will tell but, in the meantime, a select few took the opportunity to try and level the playing field by learning a new language during the lockdown period where unexpected periods of free time became available. Those that missed out the first time might get a second opportunity to do so as the 2nd wave of Covid 19 seem imminent. The disease has been a problem for far longer than anyone anticipated and there is not end in sight, but what if the various vaccines they are working on prove successful? Would you get one? With everyone frustrated with the mixed messages from the government, people around the country have been following their own guidelines. 2tones details his family’s own defiant stance in face of the rule of 6 recently imposed. An encounter with a dyson hoover sparked a conversation into how heavily people rely on reviews. Is it natural to prefer something with positive reviews, high views, likes and high engagement? Do you ever consider that some reviews are fake, or do you assume the majority must be real? A lot of things are overlooked fairly or unfairly if they do not have enough social validation but for a lot of people reviews are a way of trusting something is worth buying or consuming. Switching away from companies though, what actually makes you trust a person? Is it time spent knowing a person, experiences or maybe a combination of these things and more? How important is demeanour and a person’s smile? A good smile is often considered an attractive trait but if someone was to give a compliment to you, how would you react? Why are they sometimes awkward to deal with? Do they highlight insecurities in us or is it because we don’t know the agenda behind these compliments. At what point does compliments become flattery and is it a bad thing to flatter someone? Find out about all these topics and more in another fun and engaging episode of TheNineToFivers Podcast.
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    1 hr 21 min
  • Episode 40 - Look Beneath The Surface 🧐

    Quotes. We hear them all the time, most go in one ear and out the other but on occasion there are a few that stick out and become mantras that we live by at the places we spend the most time at be that home school or work. By the time people are of working age statistically for the average person work is where most of your day is spent. This can lead to a work family being formed from work mum and dads that look out for you and help you out like your parent would to people of similar age becoming work wives or husbands. Supposedly work environments are happier when you have these close relationships however is there any danger of lines being blurred with so much time being spent together? For the single folk there is no issue, but it starts getting sticky when people with partners and spouses become too comfortable with their work colleagues of the opposite sex. Marriage itself is viewed negatively amongst a growing number of people but what are the reasons? Are there too many bad examples from celebrity couples to people's personal lives. Is the destructive nature of divorce off putting especially for men? Why do so many marriages struggle? In fact, why do so many relationships struggle to last the distance? Are we complicit by simply not looking beyond the superficial surface of the people we choose to date? Are we guilty of trying to mould people into holes they don't fit? Whatever it is, there are numerous marriages and relationships that do work out and for a lot of people the next steps tend to be kids but with the average cost of a kid ranging between £100-200k are people still willing to have lots of children? With both genders focusing on careers, is the status quo of old being removed? Black people emboldened by the continual injustices around the world are now speaking up in an outward manner and forcing light to topics that too often have been condemned to the darkness. From John Boyega to Ashley banjo, Lewis hamilton to Stormzy. UK stars are using their platform to raise awareness and bring about change but is it time the UK itself do more by returning stolen artefacts for example? See ourviews on all these topics and more in a captivating episode of TheNineToFivers Podcast. Follow us, Like, Share & Subscribe biolinky.co/theninetofivers

    1 hr 30 min
  • Episode 39 - Say One Thing, Do Another!
    In an introspective episode TheNineToFivers explore why we as humans often say one thing but then do another. It is a constant state of hypocrisy and raised expectation that when dashed, leads to a whole host of negative emotions and yet the cycle usually continues  and sometimes unconsciously. The emerging England stars Foden and Greenwood fell victim to this and fell at the first hurdle after stating how much breaking into the England team meant to them. Is it just a human trait? Over promising and under-delivering? How do these experience shape how we treat people who have left these negative feelings with us? Are these experiences different when viewed as memories or are the two one in the same? Some experiences are good in the moment but when looked at after a period of time, perhaps after learning new information the memory can become quite sour and vice- versa. Maybe a relationship was tainted by misplaced loyalty and that memory is altered forever. Or perhaps that uncool friend that could always be depended on is appreciated more in retrospect when that 'true friend' disappoints. Loyalty is a rare quality but what conditions allow it to be broken? Or should it be unconditional? Regardless the damage lack of loyalty and the toxic discussions have ensued have seemingly caused major distrust between the two genders. Does trust have a place when traumas still exist? Should one heal before engaging with someone else to stop the cycle of pain? There are many struggles with relationships in general but maybe the amount of options we have is contributing to the problem. Does it fuel desire? Is desire the route to unhappiness or simply an enabler to a more content future. With desires of a better life, many migrants have made the treacherous journey to the western world and yet there have been a distinct coldness in the handling of those seeking safety and stability. When public figures like Banksy and Gary Lineker have to intervene due to lack of government response what does that say? There is an insidious racism that reveals itself overtly from time to time in the UK and the most recent example of this was in the conservatives MP comments to Marcus Rashford who had simply been campaigning for underprivileged kids to be fed. Give the episode a listen and let us know what you think.
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    1 hr 43 min
  • Episode 38 - Wakanda Forever

    Have you ever heard of the term black English? If you haven’t you are not alone black british is the commonly used term, however why is this the case. TheNineToFivers explore why this is and what it actually is actually means to be English. Are English flags a symbol of bigotry and hatred or just simply displays of patriotism. So often black brits have struggled with their actual identity until they realise they are a unique blend of cultures that contribute to the UK as we know it. The problem has been far worse however for Black Americans whose culture was stripped from them completely. This is perhaps why despite opening the realms of possibility for black people around the globe, black Panther particularly gripped so many African - American hearts. It was a chance for a reconnection to the motherland, a futuristic imagination of what Africa could be had things turned out differently. It was because of this that Chadwick Boseman’s tragic and sudden death resonated sharply with many of us. He diligently carried out the role of T’Challa and featured in a number of films in the lead up to his death all whilst battling colon cancer. It is interesting how some people can lead short but impactful lives whilst others can live long unfulfilled ones without purpose, but would things be different if we all received a set of instructions for life itself? Would it make everybody content? Or would it just set limits on creativity? In a time where creators are trying to break out of the limits of what is perceived as normal, Joe Budden opened dialogue potentially at his own expense that will surely benefit creatives in the long run. Will Spotify live to rue their letting their number 1 podcast go? Barcelona also seem to be in the same position with their star player of the last 15 years determined to make an exit. Is there ever a bad way to leave a job? Are their lessons to be learned from other people’s exits? There were certainly lessons to be learned about from childhood from all the cartoons and anime consumed it begs the question whether there are more concealed messages in these art forms than we realise? Check out all these topics and more in a heartfelt episode of TheNineToFivers Podcast.

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    1 hr 23 min
  • Episode 37 - No reason, I just deserve it!😌
    In a time where we have seen people rally behind causes from the global BLM movements to the more local campaigns like the GofundMe page for the Stormzy lookalike Akwasi or more recently the student who received a huge donation to her GofundMe page from Taylor swift. TheNineToFivers explore what it is that causes people to support one cause and ignore others. Whatever the reason, it is clear that there is massive power in unity and certain routes to stability, affluence and success are only accessible when you work together. XO explores his idea of how black people can harness the power of unity and position themselves for a better future where injustices like those suffered by the likes of Jacob Blake and others will be met with the full retribution of an empowered black people. There are more things that contribute to success and with the big results fiasco orchestrated by the government and people’s future being decided via algorithms, it highlights the classism that exists in society and the incompetence of those in charge. Entitlement is a word that is now synonymous with this generation, some of the entitlement is rational but a lot has no basis other than a deep feeling with, whether that be for life partners, work partner, gifts or otherwise. Is even a bad thing to be entitled? Do entitled people set goals or do they just sit a wait for whatever it is they feel they are owed. Successful people tend to have a plan and successfully execute it but does success corrupt? Or does it just expose your character flaws? As we have seen with the Tory Lanes situation, one incident can dramatically alter someone’s opinion of you and change your life completely. One thing that doesn’t seem to change however is the fact that sex sells. WAP shot to number one with many criticizing the vulgarity of the lyrics and video. Is this female empowerment or simple trash? Fair point or double standards? Is this simply a shortcut to fame? At what point do you stand by your morals? Could you do it at the expense of success or accolades. Find out about all these topics and more in a jam packed and extended edition of TheNineToFivers podcast.
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    1 hr 33 min
  • Episode 36 - Nah, That Version Of Me Doesn't Exist Anymore

    Fresh from the last week divisive topic, 2tones gives his final stance on femininity and it quickly becomes a discussion on female and male nature once they reach powerful positions. What would make lure each gender away from their partner? Is there a difference? Sometime reinvention means you outgrow your partner, your friends and your environment however people who have not interacted with you in a while will still have an expired version of you in their minds. Sometimes shaking old tags and labels can be difficult especially in an working environment. How do change an impression of you when people's minds are set? Do you need to? In an interesting take about reinvention, what would be the outcome if instead of jail time, young offenders were sent to the military? Would anything change? The guidance of young people has always been paramount to any thriving society. Does making them stay in school until 16 stifle their development? Would allowing them to make money earlier help those uninterested in the traditional path? With the emergence of social media, and avenue has opened up for money to be made whilst in school but what if social media had opening and closing times. How would that affect normal people and influencers? One Influencer Sideman made a courageous and bold move and resigned from his BBC 1xtra position. The BBC decided to stand behind their brazen use of the n word by not one, but two white women in a week. It is very likely that without Sideman's swift and dramatic departure and the subsequent outpouring of support, the black community would likely still be waiting for an apology that was never coming. But what about the actual use of the n-word? Should it be taboo for white people to say when black people regularly use it? Will systematic racism ever end? Find out all this and more in thought provoking edition of TheNineToFivers Podcast.

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    1 hr 17 min
  • Episode 35 - Balancing The Scales Of Inequality ⚖
    The UK is scorching  and TheNIneToFivers along with the rest of the country are feeling the heat. Eerily predicited by XO in the previous week the devastating news of Beirut bomb blew across the media outlets and reminded us that tomorrow is not a given.  Who do you turn to when you cannot depend on the people supposed to protect your interests from the governments that allowed the ammonia to remain unchecked in Beirut to police abusing power and not prioritizing repeat offences. One man decided enough was enough and took the law into his own hands. Was it right? Maybe not. Was it fair? Maybe yes. Who decides what is fair and what is equal and on that topic is equality even truly what we want? There are many areas where we are far from equality from race, to class to gender. What would the world look like if things were truly equal and would a more matriachal society make females happy? With the rise of feminism and successful female bosses is this a good in terms of relationships? Is feminity being lost in it's traditional sense? Does the word just need to evolve in line with the 21st century? Society is full of workers  but if things were flipped and everyone was an entrueprenuer would that work? Could society function? Why is it that more people don't actually take the plunge? TheNineToFivers share their tips and advice for anyone looking to make that transition. Give us your thoughts on another thought provoking edition of TheNineToFivers Podcast.  Follow us, Like, Share & Subscribe biolinky.co/theninetofivers
    1 hr 6 min
  • Episode 35 - Balancing The Scales Of Inequality ⚖
    The UK is scorching  and TheNIneToFivers along with the rest of the country are feeling the heat. Eerily predicited by XO in the previous week the devastating news of Beirut bomb blew across the media outlets and reminded us that tomorrow is not a given.  Who do you turn to when you cannot depend on the people supposed to protect your interests from the governments that allowed the ammonia to remain unchecked in Beirut to police abusing power and not prioritizing repeat offences. One man decided enough was enough and took the law into his own hands. Was it right? Maybe not. Was it fair? Maybe yes. Who decides what is fair and what is equal and on that topic is equality even truly what we want? There are many areas where we are far from equality from race, to class to gender. What would the world look like if things were truly equal and would a more matriachal society make females happy? With the rise of feminism and successful female bosses is this a good in terms of relationships? Is feminity being lost in it's traditional sense? Does the word just need to evolve in line with the 21st century? Society is full of workers  but if things were flipped and everyone was an entrueprenuer would that work? Could society function? Why is it that more people don't actually take the plunge? TheNineToFivers share their tips and advice for anyone looking to make that transition. Give us your thoughts on another thought provoking edition of TheNineToFivers Podcast. 
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    1 hr 6 min
  • Episode 34 - Welcome Back!💥🤪
    TheNineToFivers are back and in a shiny new studio. So much has happened in the time away, from Will and Jada to Tory and Megan. From sexual expose lists to the rebranding of Aunt Jemima. 2020 is the gift that keeps giving. Black lives still matter and corona virus just won’t go away. It is only right that these topics are touched on as TheNineToFivers catch up and get reacquainted with the each other and the audience. The TV show I will destroy you, seemed to arrive just in the right climate as women’s rights have been rightly put to the forefront in recent times. Men especially have been forced to pay attention in lockdown conditions and the details not often taken into account, have been highlighted in a way that not only educates but entertains too. In a way these small details are missed in all aspects of life and it is not a problem unique to the common folk, as seen with the music industry where contracts are often not read or fully understood. Is this due to lack of care or does the enticement of what is being offered just override the rational part of the brain.  The brain is powerful but sometimes it is led by emotion to devastating effect. In Wiley’s Anti-Semitic outburst he shocked and upset many people and his legacy seemed to be tarnished. Or has it? Was the blocking of all his social media and Youtube account a proportionate punishment? Has the same energy been applied to all hate speech? Maybe in fact, Wiley has become a martyr for a cause that highlights the disparity in responses for one type of hate speech compared to others. Make sure to stay tuned because all these topics and more are discussed this lively comeback edition of TheNineToFivers Podcast.
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    1 hr 21 min

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Two worker bees discussing everything and anything.