What happens when you spend your life trying to meet everyone else's expectations?

In this episode, we sit down with entrepreneur, author, speaker, and identity and leadership strategist Kamini Wood to talk about one of the biggest obstacles to living an authentic and fulfilling life: outsourcing your self-worth.

Kamini shares how people-pleasing, external validation, guilt, shame, and unhealthy relationship patterns can cause us to lose touch with who we really are. We also explore how to break those patterns, establish healthier boundaries, rebuild confidence, and become the leader of your own life.

Kamini brings a deeply personal perspective to the conversation, including her experience leaving an abusive marriage, helping her children heal, and transforming her own relationship with herself.

In this conversation, we discuss:

• Why we become dependent on external validation
• The difference between people-pleasing and genuinely caring for others
• Codependency vs. healthy interdependence
• How toxic relationships can affect our identity
• Why setting boundaries can trigger guilt and shame
• How self-compassion builds resilience and confidence
• Breaking limiting beliefs and destructive behavior patterns
• How to stop living according to other people's expectations
• What it means to become your own “self-leader”
• How to rebuild your relationship with yourself

Kamini Wood is the author of OM: Life's Gentle Reminders, a speaker and the host of the RiseUp - Live Joy Your Way podcast. She studied positive psychology at the University of Pennsylvania and works with high achievers on confidence, imposter syndrome, boundaries, relationships, resilience, and authentic self-leadership.

If you've ever struggled with people-pleasing, needing approval, setting boundaries, or feeling like you're responsible for everyone else's happiness, this conversation is for you.

Learn more about Kamini and access her free ebook on limiting beliefs: kaminiwood.com

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/itsauthenticme

#SelfWorth #PeoplePleasing #PersonalGrowth #SelfLeadership #Confidence

Jordan Meyer seemed to have everything figured out. As a multi-sport scholarship athlete, his future was set—until a devastating accident at just 16 years old left him paralyzed from the waist down.

Although he eventually learned to walk again, the greatest challenge wasn't physical recovery. It was rebuilding his identity after losing the life he thought he was meant to live.

In this episode of Think Your Way to an Epic Life, Jordan shares his remarkable journey from tragedy to purpose, and how that experience inspired him to become a licensed psychotherapist, mental performance coach, trauma specialist, and Ph.D. candidate in Performance Psychology.

Together, we explore:
- How to rebuild your identity after trauma, injury, divorce, burnout, or major life transitions
- Why so many athletes and high achievers struggle when their identity is tied to performance
- The hidden psychological effects of adversity
- How resilience is built—not born
- Breaking generational trauma and creating a new future
- Practical strategies for overcoming setbacks and living with greater purpose

Whether you're navigating a difficult season or simply looking to become mentally stronger, this conversation offers hope, perspective, and actionable tools to help you move forward.

Connect with Jordan Meyer:
🌐 Website: https://www.jordan-meyer.com/
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordanmichaelmeyer
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordan-meyer001/

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What makes a truly great leader?

According to executive coach Bradley McDevitt, leadership starts from the inside out.

In this episode of Think Your Way to an Epic Life, Bradley shares how developing a stronger inner life can transform the way we lead, communicate, and build relationships. Drawing from more than two decades in professional theater, depth psychology, somatic practices, and executive coaching, Bradley explains why presence, attention, imagination, and self-awareness are essential skills for modern leaders.

Bradley discusses:

✅ Why self-awareness is the foundation of authentic leadership
✅ How our inner world impacts the way we lead others
✅ The connection between theater, psychology, and leadership development
✅ How leaders can build trust and create healthier teams
✅ Why reclaiming attention and presence is more important than ever

Bradley McDevitt is an Executive Coach, Leadership & Teams Development expert, Dynamic Facilitator, Jungian-Based Coach, and founder of IACULUS Coaching & Consulting. He also serves on the leadership coaching team at the Center for Creative Leadership and teaches as adjunct faculty at Pacifica Graduate Institute.

Whether you’re a business leader, coach, entrepreneur, or someone looking to grow personally, this conversation will challenge you to look inward and rethink what leadership really means.

Learn more about Bradley:
LinkedIn | Facebook | Instagram

#Leadership #SelfAwareness #PersonalDevelopment 

What if the biggest obstacle to better mental health is our search for quick fixes?

In this episode of Think Your Way to an Epic Life, we sit down with Dr. Celeste Birkhofer, licensed clinical psychologist, Stanford Medical School adjunct clinical faculty member, and author of Beyond Quick Fixes: Essential Ingredients for Better Mental Health and a Fulfilling Life.

Together, we explore what it truly means to build lasting mental health, why happiness is so closely connected to our emotional well-being, and the inner resources that help us navigate life's challenges with greater resilience.

Whether you're struggling with stress, anxiety, relationships, grief, or simply want to become a healthier, more fulfilled version of yourself, this conversation offers practical wisdom that goes far beyond the latest self-help trends.

In this episode:
- Why quick fixes rarely create lasting change
- What "good" mental health actually looks like
- Common misconceptions about emotional well-being
- The habits that quietly undermine your mental health
- How to build resilience and inner strength
- Creating a more meaningful and fulfilling life
- Practical insights from Beyond Quick Fixes

About Dr. Celeste Birkhofer:

Dr. Celeste Birkhofer is a licensed clinical psychologist, adjunct clinical faculty member at Stanford Medical School, Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, and author of Beyond Quick Fixes. She has spent decades helping people improve their mental health through psychotherapy, mindfulness, self-compassion, and evidence-based approaches to personal growth.

Learn more about Dr. Birkhofer:
🌐 https://www.celestebirkhofer.com/
📖 Beyond Quick Fixes
📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/celestebirkhofer

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#MentalHealth #BeyondQuickFixes #SelfHelp #Mindset 

What does it take to build a marriage that not only survives—but thrives—through demanding careers, raising a family, and the pressures of everyday life?

In this episode of the Think Your Way to an Epic Life Podcast, Ryan and Justin Major share their journey of building a strong, lasting relationship while balancing successful careers and family life. Ryan serves as an FBI agent, while Justin has built a successful career in real estate. Together, they discuss the habits, mindset, and intentional choices that have helped their marriage grow stronger over the years.

In this episode, you'll learn:
- Why communication is the foundation of every healthy relationship
- How to establish healthy boundaries between work and family
- The importance of trust and mutual support
- Ways to navigate conflict with respect and understanding
- How to balance demanding careers while staying connected
- Practical habits that strengthen marriages over time

Whether you're married, engaged, dating, or simply looking to build stronger relationships, this conversation offers practical insights you can apply in your own life.

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#Marriage #Relationships #Communication #Trust #Family #PersonalGrowth #Podcast #Leadership #WorkLifeBalance #MarriageAdvice 

What if everything we've been taught about success is backwards?

Most people believe they need to become successful before they can be happy—but research in positive psychology suggests the opposite.

In this featured episode of Think Your Way to an Epic Life, Kara shares key lessons from The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor and explains why happiness isn't the reward for success—it's one of the biggest drivers of it.

You'll discover practical ways to improve your mindset, build resilience, strengthen relationships, and create habits that lead to greater fulfillment both personally and professionally.

In this episode:
✔ Why happiness comes before success
✔ The science behind positive psychology
✔ The 7 principles from The Happiness Advantage
✔ How to retrain your brain for positivity
✔ The power of gratitude, mindset, and social connection

If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who could use a little more positivity in their life. 

What if the stories you tell yourself are the biggest factor determining your success, health, and happiness?

In this episode of Think Your Way to an Epic Life, we sit down with Connie Kwan—CEO, speaker, former Microsoft and Atlassian product executive, and author of STORYHabits—to explore how changing your internal narrative can lead to lasting behavior change.

Connie shares lessons from over 20 years of leadership, product innovation, and helping people change deeply ingrained behaviors. From building a smoking cessation product that doubled the success rate of competing solutions to developing the 4S Method for storytelling, she explains why identity—not willpower—is the key to building habits that last.

In this episode:
- Why most habits fail
- The connection between identity and behavior
- How storytelling shapes your daily decisions
- The STORYHabits framework
- Leadership, communication, and influence
- Building healthier habits that actually stick
- How to change the story you tell yourself

Whether you're looking to become a better leader, improve your health, communicate more effectively, or simply create lasting personal change, this conversation is full of practical insights.

Connect with Connie Kwan:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/conniekwan/
X: https://x.com/Conniekwan_

📚 Subscribe to Connie's free STORYHabits newsletter:
https://conniekwan.substack.com

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#StoryHabits #ConnieKwan #Habits #PersonalGrowth #Storytelling #Leadership #Mindset #BehaviorChange #SelfImprovement #ThinkYourWayToAnEpicLife 

In this episode, Adam Roach breaks down what it really takes to build a business, lead effectively, and step fully into ownership of your work and life.

Adam is an entrepreneur, coach, and founder of I Love Coaching Co., with a track record of building, scaling, and exiting multiple companies across real estate, recruiting, tech, and professional services. He’s helped generate nearly $2 billion in sales and now coaches leaders, coaches, and entrepreneurs on building businesses aligned with their purpose.

We dive into leadership, coaching, business growth, mindset shifts, and the tools high performers need to move from uncertainty to ownership.

🔑 What You’ll Learn
- Why success can quietly become a trap
- The difference between expertise and true ownership
- How to build a coaching or service business that fits your life
- Why high performers often feel stuck after “winning”
- Practical leadership lessons for coaches and entrepreneurs
- How to stop chasing and start building with clarity

Adam Roach is the founder of I Love Coaching Co., former Keller Williams MAPS Coach, and a seasoned entrepreneur who has built and exited four companies. He now helps coaches and entrepreneurs build aligned, scalable businesses rooted in purpose and ownership.

Website: www.ilovecoachingco.com
Instagram: @adamrroach
Podcast: The I Love Coaching Podcast 

What happens when you fully commit to personal growth?

In this episode of Think Your Way to an Epic Life, Ryan Major shares her powerful Hero's Journey and the transformation she experienced over an intensive 8-week journey. Through breathwork, meditation, self-reflection, and intentional action, Ryan discovered new levels of confidence, clarity, and purpose.

Ryan discusses the challenges she faced, the breakthroughs that changed her perspective, and how these practices helped her grow both personally and professionally. She shares how embracing discomfort, developing self-awareness, and committing to continuous growth allowed her to create a life more aligned with her values and goals.

Whether you're interested in personal development, entrepreneurship, mindset, leadership, breathwork, meditation, or creating meaningful change in your life, this conversation is filled with valuable insights and inspiration.

In This Episode:

✔ Ryan's Hero's Journey experience
✔ The impact of breathwork and meditation
✔ Personal and professional growth lessons
✔ Overcoming limiting beliefs
✔ Building confidence and self-awareness
✔ Creating an intentional and fulfilling life
✔ What it means to truly live your own epic life

Subscribe for more conversations on leadership, mindset, personal growth, and living an extraordinary life. 

What does success really look like—and is it possible to build a thriving business, lead at a high level, and be fully present at home without burning out?

In this episode, we sit down with entrepreneur, speaker, and community leader Ashley Huegi to discuss sustainable ambition, burnout, leadership, motherhood, identity, and what it means to redefine success on your own terms.

Ashley shares her journey from chasing the traditional version of success to creating a life and business that feel aligned, intentional, and fulfilling. She also discusses the challenges many high-achieving women face, including the pressure to "do it all," balancing family and career, and maintaining ambition without sacrificing well-being.

Topics covered include:
• Burnout and recovery for high achievers
• Entrepreneurship and leadership
• Motherhood and identity
• Building a meaningful life and business
• Personal growth and self-awareness
• Sustainable ambition
• Success without self-abandonment
• Community, impact, and fulfillment

Whether you're a business owner, entrepreneur, parent, leader, or someone navigating a busy season of life, this conversation offers valuable insights on building success that actually feels good.

Connect with Ashley Huegi:
Instagram: @ashley.huegi
LinkedIn: Ashley Huegi
Website: theandlife.co
GoBundance Women: gobundancewomen.com

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