Blimie Heller is a parenting coach and unconditional parenting advocate who tackles controversial and difficult topics in child development, psychology, and parenting. With a 160K followers on Instagram, she has become a trusted voice for parents seeking to create a more respectful and loving relationship with their children.In this conversation, Blimie discusses the difficulties in avoiding sexual abuse, the dangers of guilt and shame, and the use of fear and control tactics in parenting. Blimie's personal experience and expertise provide invaluable insights into the challenges of being a parent and the importance of unconditional love and acceptance.Guest Info:https://www.blimieheller.com/about
0:00:00 Opening
0:00:15 Jordan Peterson's parenting philosophy
0:05:20 (not) using fear & control tactics
0:09:00 Blimie's favorite piece of advice
0:10:46 Downsides of gentile parenting
0:15:45 Fight or Flight?
0:21:35 Guilt + shame = disaster
0:26:05 The hardest part of being a parenting coach
0:29:15 How will our kids parent?
0:30:25 Overcoming fear of public speaking
0:35:39 The secret to becoming a guru
0:37:53 Getting over my anger issues
0:38:40 Why fathers resist parenting advice
0:42:42 Masculine vs feminine roles
0:48:18 Consequence vs punishment
0:52:14 Avoiding sexual abuse
0:59:53 Believe all women (kids)?
1:03:12 How to know you're ready to have kids