Third Power Life

In the corporate world, and the world in general, there is constant pressure to be busy. We are inundated with (mostly) pointless tasks. My biggest challenge is around email and online meetings.

We need to make sure we are asking every day, and with every task, "is this truly important, and am I adding value?"

In this video I give a few tips for how to be more effective, rather than just busy.

#busy #effective #productivity #emailoverload #onething #thirdpowerperformance

"Your job is not to plug the holes, your job is to steer the ship"

One of the bigest challenges I have faced is the desire to "do it myself". Delegation is hard at first. As you grow through your organization you are rewarded and promoted for your ability to "patch the holes". But there comes a point where your role is no longer to do the patching yourself, but to help others grow in their ability to patch the holes.

Our job as a leader is to give our team the opportunity to grow and learn.

We don’t have to solve every problem, we just need to make sure all the problems get solved.

#leadership #delegation #growth #learning #thirdpowerlife

After my hospital stay last week, I was physically spent and sore… I knew there was going to be a healing process for my body, and that I would be not 100% for a few weeks.  What I was NOT prepared for was my emotional/mental healing process that was (and still is) needing a similar time.

My message is simple. Give yourself permission to heal. You are allowed to feel some self-pity. Just don’t stay there…

I am very glad to be back, and very glad to be on my journey that gives me these insights..

#healing #mentalhealing #giveyourselftime #thirdpowerlife

So I have spent the last two days in the hospital, and it really brough home to me how grateful I am for many things in my life, and how some things that seem really important, fall away when faced with our own mortality.

So take the time to truly count your blessings.

#hospitalStay #blessings #countyourblessings #thirdpowerlife

One of my grandfather's favorite phrases "Bird of a Feather Flock Together".. He used to tell me that when talking about the importance of choosing friends.

The same is still true as I have grown up. Your circle is critically important. I have heard many times you will earn very similarly to the 5 people you hang out with most. Well, I'm here to tell you it is not just money… it is spirituality, education, etc..

#yourcircle #birdsofafeather #thirdpowerlife

We have all heard the phrase "there is nothing to fear but fear itself"…  probably even heard it in FDR's voice at some point… But the full line tells more of a story..

"So, first of all, let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is fear itself — nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance."

--Franklin D. Roosevelt

It is this fragment that catches my attention: "paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance"

Lets talk about that….

#fdr #fear #fearitself #thirdpowerlife

After my son's middle school open house, it got me thinking about teachers and their importance in the world.. And I share a great quote:

“A teacher affects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops.”- Henry Brooks Adams

#teachers #education #future #ripples #thirdpowerlife

When we are faced with major decisions (and even small ones) we need to make sure it is aligning with our purpose and our Quest.  We need to see how it feels. And it needs to be either "HELL YEAH!" or just say no…

Life is too short for "MEH" things…

#hellyeah #purpose #dowhatsimportant #thirdpowerlife

In order for us to become great at anything, we first have to be terrible at it.. 

As I have watched my podcast following, for a long time, it was a very slow listenership.. But I kept at it, and now after 100+ episodes, I am finally seeing movement and people are starting to listen.

But it was being willing to not be great, to make mistakes, that allowed that to happen.

What are you willing to be terrible at, so you can be great?

#failforward #podcast #thirdpowerlife #consistency

One of my favorite concepts in Physics is Entropy… It is the Second Law of Thermodynamics…

Any ordered isolated system will move towards chaos. And we, as humans, are an isolated system…

If you are not adding energy into any area of your life, it will move to chaos.  Don't exercise? (Energy into physical body) Your body will become flabby and sick (chaos).

The same concept applies to all 9 areas of life balance.

#entropy #negentropy #physics #thirdpowerlife