Theme nights, phallic paraphernalia, tequila shots, and... suppressed bi awakenings?! That's right, babe, we're talking about bachelorette parties.
While the topic may seem aggressively hetero, we couldn't help but notice a couple things that feel... well, a little bi. Joined by bestie of the pod, NYT bestselling author, and host of the Sounds Like A Cult and Magical Overthinkers podcasts Amanda Montell, we dive into the deeply heteronormative tradition of the bachelorette party and find the sapphic energy hiding underneath it all. We're talking patriarchal origins, the marriage industrial complex's iron grip, and why queer bachelorettes hit different (more whimsy! more camp! fewer penis straws! okay maybe some penis straws!). Two Amandas swap stories from their own recent bachelorette weekends, and Erin surfaces from the trenches with real PTSD from one too many straight bachelorette parties (you've been warned).
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