Are we even supposed to judge others?...

What does it mean to CONDEMN someone versus JUDGE someone?

In our opinion..."Weaknesses are strengths that are out of balance"

"If we really care about growth, development and improvement, we will seek correction and work on weaknesses."

"If someone has an extreme strength, others can seem to be weak in that area, through that person's lens."

Hear us discuss our weaknesses and how we reframe them into a new way of thinking about them.

Have the scary conversation of asking those close to you what they think your strengths and weaknesses are as a way of growing and improving! You can do it!

In this episode, we reflect on some of the great wins we have had by being open and willing to share some of our struggles.

There is strength in turning to face our challenges and sharing them is one of the quickest ways to put them to rest.

Remember, as you are looking forward, setting goals and raising your own standard that attaching a "WHY" to what you are doing will anchor you when the process of achieving difficult things gets tough.

We wish all of you big success this year in obtaining what you want but more importantly becoming who you want to be!

In this episode we are so happy and excited to introduce to you our great friend, Ashlee Turley.

Ashlee bravely shares some of her journey with pornography use and accompanying depression. We learn amazing insight from the road that Ashlee has already traveled and are so happy to have her share that with the listeners.

This is our first guest episode and the beginning of our "Our Sister/Our Brother" series.

Our goal for "Our Sister/Our Brother" is to highlight

Lets level up from last weeks episode!

When you are faced with the difficult decision of breaking a personal promise, are you "SUBORDINATING" it to a higher cause?

What are these higher causes?

What is the right balance of taking care of the goose in order to produce golden eggs?

Join us as we discuss our individual journeys of building relationships with ourselves and how making and keeping commitments is the core of how we change.

Exercise the mental and emotional muscles of making and keeping bigger commitments to yourself with some of the suggestions in this podcast.

Happy New Year!!

In this episode we give our take on goal setting and resolutions during this New Year's season.

What is the purpose of goals?

How do you scale up and improve habits?

Dylan has a systematic approach to forming new habits that is ahead of its time.

HAPPY NEW YEARS!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

This short and sweet episode takes a shallow dive into some of the reasons we, as Christians, may struggle with pornography more than other vices, addictions and habits.

Struggling is a necessary part of the journey and you shouldn't feel alone or isolated because of the way that you struggle.

If you could choose between a problem-free life or a life that involved overcoming adversity, which would you choose?

Maybe you have already picked the second plan!

In this episode we discuss both of the plans through parable and the beautiful blessings that can be found in the "PERFECTLY IMPERFECT PLAN"

What we have learned from serving and being served by others is that you can feel God's love in these moments of opportunity.

These moments don't have to be massive or life changing but we do have to look for them. We do need to engage in asking, seeking and acting on these opportunities to love and help others when God gives them to us. On the flip side, we need to be gracious recipients of service and love from others.

If you want to have an immediate response from God...

1. Ask "God, who can I serve today?"

2. Ask "God, how can I improve today?"

3. Ask "God, can you show me you are aware of me?"

Everyone knows the great feeling of serving someone else but it can be hard to allow others to serve us.

We are doing a giveaway. We will be selecting one person to split the cost of Sara Brewer‘s “Overcome Pornography for Good” training. This is the same program we used and want to share it during this season of giving.

DM us on instagram: @dylanandhayden

Sara’s podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/overcome-pornography-for-good/id1549605485