Summary:

In this episode Jess and Sav discuss their recent bachelorette party weekend and reflect on their experiences. They talk about recovering from the weekend, their social batteries, and the fun activities they did. They also mention the challenges of being in a predominantly white area and the importance of respecting dress codes. Overall, they had a great time and enjoyed the company of their friends. In this part of the conversation, Jess and Sav discuss their experience on a boat cruise and their thoughts on the TV show Perfect Match. They also talk about their plans for future cruises and their preferences for cremation over traditional burial. They share their perspectives on the cost of funerals and the idea of affordable afterlife options. The conversation ends with Jess addressing rumors about her marital status. In this conversation, Sav and Jess discuss the different types of moms and the pressures of motherhood. They talk about feeling the need to constantly be in contact with their children and the guilt that comes with being away from them. They also discuss feeling pressured by societal expectations and the added pressure of being a black mother. They share personal experiences and reflect on the importance of self-care and setting boundaries.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Recovery

02:50 Activities: Picnic, Photoshoot, Pool Party, Baywatch Cruise, Bike Ride

08:01 Challenges in a Predominantly White Area

15:48 Addressing Inappropriate Behavior

20:30 Fun Times on a Boat Cruise

22:20 Binge-Watching Perfect Match

26:36 Reflections on Father's Day

28:33 Thoughts on Cremation and Afterlife Options

32:54 Addressing Marital Status Rumors

38:00 Different Types of Moms

44:30 Feeling Pressured by Motherhood

47:01 The Added Pressure of Being a Black Mother

49:18 The Fear of Not Doing Enough

52:04 Proud Moments as a Mom

56:00 Navigating the Pressures of Business and Personal Life

01:01:58 Lighthearted Banter and Reminders

01:02:24 podcast intro1.mp4

Summary

In this episode, Jess and Sav catch up on recent events in their lives. Sav shares about her friend's injury and the challenges she's facing at work.

They share their experiences and observations, providing insights into their lives and perspectives, conspiracy theories, documentaries, parenting opinions, and school policies regarding gender identity.

They discuss their skepticism towards certain conspiracy theories and their belief in the authenticity of the documentaries they've watched. They also share their parenting opinions, expressing that they prioritize their children's happiness and well-being over academic achievements.

They also touch on the topic of dating and how to let someone down gently.

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This week Sav had to deal with some business emergencies, so Jess and Tim discuss various topics including, the hardest parts of their relationship, navigating different seasons, postpartum psychosis, and the importance of communication.

They also talk about their highs and lows of the week and the qualities they value in a partner. Overall, they emphasize the importance of support, understanding, and being present for each other.

Jess and Tim discuss various topics, including therapy, postpartum psychosis, autism, TV shows, and social media. They touch on the importance of communication in a relationship and the challenges they face. They also talk about the concept of throuples and polygamy. Throughout the conversation, they share personal anecdotes and express their love and support for each other.

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In this episode, Jess and Sav discuss their recent activities. They talk about their Memorial Day weekends, including beach trips and hiking. They also discuss a disagreement they had about the definition of being self-made. Jess shares her experience with postpartum preeclampsia and the lack of awareness around it. They also mention therapy and the importance of finding a therapist who understands their individual needs.

The girls discuss various topics including a controversial commencement speech, asking uncomfortable questions as parents, a documentary about Nick Carter, and a series of 'Am I the Asshole?' scenarios.

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In this conversation, Jess and Sav discuss their week and recent experiences. They talk about going to an adult skate night, taking mushroom gummies, and the challenges of dating while balancing work and school. They also discuss the issue of microplastics and the impact on the body. Overall, they reflect on their personal growth and the importance of making new memories. In this part of the conversation, the principal themes discussed are: 1) Diddy's abusive behavior towards Cassie, 2) Interracial relationships and the black wife effect, and 3) Parenting and children's mental health. In this final part of the conversation, Jess and Sav discuss the importance of setting goals for their children and teaching them to leave a positive impact on the world. They also talk about the need for boundaries and not giving in to every desire of their kids. The conversation then shifts to the topic of poor hygiene in relationships and how to address it. They also briefly touch on the reasons why men and women cheat in relationships. The conversation ends with book recommendations and a discussion about upcoming plans.

Chapters

00:00 Weekend Adventures and Restful Breaks

03:14 Balancing Work, School, and Dating

07:38 The Impact of Microplastics on the Body

11:30 Making New Memories After a Breakup

15:17 The Importance of Reducing Plastic Use

20:16 Supporting Survivors and Apologizing

21:13 The Importance of Believing and Validating

22:58 Empathy and Imagining the Impact

30:09 Exploring Interracial Relationships

34:55 The Trend of Black Women Dating White Men

41:30 Prioritizing Children's Mental Health

42:11 Teaching Children the Value of Earning Privileges

42:29 The Importance of Kindness in Parenting

42:44 Being Stern with Children and Setting Goals

46:50 Addressing Poor Hygiene in Relationships

47:52 Understanding the Reasons for Cheating in Relationships

01:00:39 Book Recommendations for Strengthening Marriages and Essential Conversations

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In this episode, Savanna and Jessica discuss various topics, including voicemail storage, couples therapy, and the man versus bear movement. They also touch on the importance of teaching children to defend themselves and the challenges of finding the right therapist. The conversation highlights the need for open and honest communication in relationships and the impact of family dynamics on personal growth. They also discuss the disturbing trend of men neglecting their parental responsibilities. Overall, the episode explores the complexities of human relationships and the importance of self-care and personal development. The conversation explores the different experiences and lessons learned from the hosts' mothers. They discuss the resilience and pickiness they inherited from their mothers, as well as the importance of being intentional in choosing partners. They also talk about the impact of their mothers' actions on their own parenting styles, such as teaching their children to navigate chaos and fostering self-awareness. The hosts share their favorite moments as mothers, including witnessing their children's milestones and accomplishments. They also plan a haircut session for their children. In this conversation, Savanna and Jessica discuss their experiences with motherhood and the impact their own mothers had on them. They talk about the importance of having a supportive mother figure during pregnancy and how it can affect mental health. They also discuss the role of mothers in allowing their children to make their own decisions and not projecting their own desires onto them. The conversation touches on the topic of narcissistic parents and the lasting damage they can inflict on their children. They also explore the idea that motherhood is not for everyone and that being a woman does not mean you have to be a mother. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexity of mother-daughter relationships and the importance of creating a safe and supportive environment for children to grow and make their own choices.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Catch Up

02:09 Voicemail Storage and Phone Issues

04:23 Couples Therapy and Finding the Right Therapist

09:56 The Man Versus Bear Movement

13:27 Teaching Children to Defend Themselves

23:01 The Importance of Self-Care and Personal Development

28:42 Lessons from Our Mothers

33:06 Being Intentional in Choosing Partners

38:21 The Impact of Our Mothers on Our Parenting Styles

40:36 Favorite Moments as Mothers

48:42 Haircut Session for the Kids

53:27 The Impact of a Supportive Mother Figure During Pregnancy

54:21 Allowing Children to Make Their Own Decisions

57:30 Motherhood is Not for Everyone

59:43 The Effects of Narcissistic Parents

01:13:04 Creating a Safe and Supportive Environment for Children

Catch up with Jess and Sav- This week we talk about how the world did, in fact, not end like Savanna thought, but she did look directly at the sun. Getting asked on a date and getting the ick before even meeting him, as well as another person reaching out about her ex. Jess got her wedding rings resized and can happily wear them again after 3 years. She also discusses how it feels to finally be done having kids and be out of her post-partum depression. We also revisit talking about Quiet on Set since they released a follow up episode. Then we get into our 20 years of friendship and asking some deep questions like How we can be better friends, how Sav felt when Jess got pregnant at 19, our favorite memories together, and then some! Follow, Share, Like, or Subscribe