After giving everything he had on Mother’s Day—despite having nothing to give financially—Vigil reflects on the emotional cost of showing up when you feel unseen. In this raw, reflective episode, he unpacks the quiet pain of being a man who gives, sacrifices, and carries the weight… only to be told he’s not welcome. He explores the symbolism of the garage—not as a place to escape, but as a place to survive.

Scripture weaves throughout this episode as Vigil questions the imbalance in his relationship, the exhaustion of invisible love, and what it means to stop disappearing for someone else’s comfort. This is about legacy, loyalty, and the quiet kind of heartbreak most men never speak aloud.

This might be therapy.

Or maybe it’s just the moment a man decides to stop vanishing.

This is the most brutally honest episode yet.

In this powerful exposé, we dismantle the myth of equality in modern parenting and shine a light on the weaponization of motherhood—how lies, false allegations, and biased courtrooms are used to erase fathers from their children’s lives.

Backed by hard U.S. data, scripture, and real conversations with alienated fathers, this episode isn’t just therapy. It’s a firestorm.

We break down the truth about:

• 17.5% custody rate for fathers
• $865/month child support for one child
• 60%+ of abuse allegations being false or exaggerated
• Emotional manipulation hidden behind the title “Mom”
• The silence of systems when fathers are erased

Featuring verses from Proverbs, Ephesians, Isaiah, and Malachi, we reveal God’s truth about fatherhood—and call out the legal, social, and cultural systems keeping men silenced and broken.

If you’re a father fighting to stay in your child’s life—

This episode was made for you.

It’s not a breakdown. It’s a breakthrough.

And it’s time to speak for every father still standing.

Now streaming on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.

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This is not a sob story. It’s a war report.

In this raw and unfiltered episode, I expose the brutal reality of how the child support system, custody laws, and parental alienation tactics are being used to break fathers—financially, emotionally, and spiritually. Inspired by a private conversation with another father in the trenches, I’m speaking what most men have been forced to keep quiet for years.

From North Dakota to Texas to Montana, I’ve fought this system without a single lawyer. I’ve bled truth into courtrooms that didn’t care. And now, I’m done playing nice.

This episode is for every father who’s been labeled disposable…

For every dad who’s been told to “pay up and shut up”…

For every man who loves his kids but has to fight for the right to be called “Dad.”

You are not alone. And you are not weak. You were built for war.

Featuring:

• Child support injustice ($865/mo for one child)
• Real stories of fatherhood under legal fire
• Scriptural clarity from Psalm 82 & Revelation 21
• A call to righteous rebellion—not revenge

Listen now. Share it with another father.

We’re done being silent.

#FathersRights #ParentalAlienation #ChildSupportReform #ThisMightBeTherapy #Podcast #VygrantMode

In this raw and unfiltered episode, I speak directly from the battlefield of fatherhood, betrayal, and emotional warfare. After being pushed to the edge by false accusations and a fractured home, I draw a hard boundary—not to hurt anyone, but to finally protect my peace.

This isn’t about revenge. It’s about release.

It’s about reclaiming voice, authority, and truth in a system that tries to silence fathers and reward manipulation.

With scripture, honesty, and unshakable conviction, I declare that I no longer seek peace with the one who broke me—I seek peace from her.

If you’ve ever been blamed for breaking what someone else destroyed, this episode is for you.

Featuring:

• Real reflections on fatherhood, co-parenting, and emotional control
• Scripture from Ephesians 6 and Matthew 5
• A final decision to choose peace without sacrificing self-worth

This might be therapy. But it’s also war.

And I’m not backing down.

This episode closes a chapter—not with fanfare, but with survival. After everything I’ve walked through—parental alienation, emotional warfare, accusations, silence, and the weight of trying to heal while being pulled apart—I’m still here. That’s not weakness. That’s resilience.

I reflect on what this chapter has meant: relearning fatherhood, reclaiming my voice, and letting go of peace that was never real to begin with. This isn’t a triumphant ending. It’s a grounded one. Because the truth is, I didn’t break… even when everything around me did.

If you’re the kind of man who’s still showing up—tired, misunderstood, but standing—this one’s for you.

You didn’t lose.

You lived.

And you’re not done either.

This one’s for the mornings after—the guilt, the silence, the damage you wish you could undo. In this episode, I talk about what it feels like to wake up in the wreckage of your own choices, to not remember what you said or did, and to wonder if your family will ever trust you again… or if you’ll ever trust yourself.

I share the story of a friend who broke his sobriety after five years, and how that moment of collapse reminded me of my own past. We talk about shame, accountability, forgiveness, and the hardest truth of all: you can’t change what’s already happened. But you can choose what comes next.

This episode is about rebuilding after you’ve been the one who broke it.

You are not your worst day.

You are what you become next.

What do you do when the person who knows you best starts calling you the worst names imaginable? Narcissist. Selfish. Cold. In this episode, I unpack what it feels like to be labeled the villain in someone else’s pain—and how easily those words can start to shape how you see yourself.

I talk about the emotional fallout of being misunderstood, especially in a marriage where wounds speak louder than truth. I dive into shame, self-doubt, and the dangerous weight of asking, “What if they’re right?”

Through personal reflection and scripture, I start to separate who I really am from the story shame keeps trying to tell.

If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and hated who you saw…

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re the monster they say you are…

This one’s for you.

You are not what their pain called you.

You are what your healing is becoming.

This episode is as real as it gets—a midnight phone call from a brother barely hanging on, baring his soul because he has nowhere else to turn. I share the raw, unfiltered truth of what it’s like to sit with a man on the edge, wrestling with addiction, family breakdown, the scars of war, and the accusation of being a “narcissist” when all you ever wanted was to love your kids and survive the wreckage.

We talk about numbness, regret, being misunderstood, and what it’s like to be trained for destruction only to come home and not know how to build a life. I open up about the powerlessness of trying to help when you don’t have the answers—about being the lifeline in the dark, even as you’re barely holding on yourself.

If you’ve ever been the one who answered the call, or the one who made it—this is for you.

No fixing. No judgment.

Just truth, presence, and the hope that lives in not giving up on each other.

Tonight, therapy is just refusing to hang up.

This episode is about what it really means to hold up a family—when you’re the one breaking generational cycles, standing between old pain and new possibility.

I open up about learning to discipline without violence, how I became the dividing line in my own family, and the exhausting work of building new ground for my kids to stand on. I get honest about the pressure from both sides—navigating father-in-law and mother-in-law dynamics, old wounds and new power struggles, and the invisible weight of being blamed for pain I never caused.

Through all of it, I keep showing up—not just for my kids, but for the entire house.

Because that’s what a foundation does:

It holds, even when no one sees the cracks it’s carrying.

If you’re fighting to be more than what you inherited, if you’re tired of being the outsider in your own story—this one’s for you.

Tonight, the story changes.

Faith shouldn’t feel like erasure.

In this episode, I talk about what it means to surrender to God’s plan without shrinking into silence. I open up about learning to trust divine direction without losing my identity, and how scripture helped me realize that letting God lead doesn’t mean disappearing—it means becoming.

With raw honesty and biblical grounding, I explore the balance between obedience and ownership, spiritual direction and emotional integrity.

Because God didn’t create me to vanish—

He created me to become.