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Here's the truth: If you can't see the magic in the every day, you won't have a story to tell. But when we can see wonder and magic in the every day - and articulate its meaning - the stories will leap out at you, and those stories will move people.
So, yesterday I got a message from a friend of mine showing me the results of his 23andMe report.... saying that he was genetically predisposed to a fear of public speaking. (And he speaks quite a bit.)
Hmmm! Interesting!
By the end of the day, another 3 people had reached out with their own results on this same thing. (23andMe - nice marketing!)
So... I HAVE OPINIONS!
People ask me all the time:
How long should it take to prep for this big talk?My answer is typically: More than you think.
With incredibly busy lives, juggling way more than one thing at a time - prepping for our talks often gets squeezed. Add onto that the mental and emotional challenge of developing a talk… well, avoidance and procrastination can take on a life of its own.
I get it! It's not easy to create space when the more seemingly urgent can easily jump to the front of the line. But often the last few days and hours and moments before a talk, we are then faced with that moment of regret…
I wish I would have taken more time for this. I wish I would have practiced this more. I wish I knew this better. I wish….
No more wishing!
It's 2019 - let's do things differently this year.JOY.
There were all kinds of signs pointing me to JOY: a journal that jumped out to me at the craft store; our Christmas card; a talk I heard; my latest Netflix craze watching Marie Kondo "spark joy"… The universe has been laying down little pebbles for me on this one.
But what does JOY have to do with you - and what does JOY have to do with speaking?
I think Joy is an essential element of speaking that MOVES people.
Not convinced? Take a listen:
Movers, today is the final idea about how we can bring our idea to life through our Speaking Stories course that goes live Oct. 30th! If you are listening to this it means that the cart is open! After I talk with you about what it is - and why it is - I hope you'll join us over the next few weeks while we bring our stories more to life and to your audience so it's out there moving the world! Go to www.speakingstory.com to sign up!
Bringing your story to life…
To do that, we need to believe some things - deep down - before we can take the stage with courage and authenticity. Last week I talked about Six Rookie Storytelling Mistakes (and what to do instead).
But this week - in anticipation of the Speaking Story course that opens for enrollment this coming Friday - we are diving into three beliefs all of my speakers wrestle with to some level or another (and from one day to another)!
I remember watching this really famous speaker once tell a story that I KNEW she wasn't ready to tell yet. It was too much - too powerful, still - still too emotionally raw…
(And I've also seen speakers who are so far beyond their stories - that it doesn't have any emotional resonance left. They've told it too many times, it's lost its power for them… there's no emotive connection left. It's been used up. )
What struck me was that she was telling the story because she NEEDED to. It was a part of HER healing. And that's not nothing.
Would I recommend it? Nope….
There are those stories that we're just not ready to tell yet because we ourselves aren't healed enough. Listen to that instinct. It may not be ready yet. It might be too raw.
So how do we know when a story is ready to be told?From the publisher's feed