It’s not your skills, your stats, or your schedule. It’s the thought you keep believing.

In this episode, Susan reveals the real reason athletes stay stuck, spiral into self-doubt, and lose momentum during the recruiting process, and it has nothing to do with talent.

She breaks down the mindset model that changed her life and now helps her clients build lasting confidence, recover from rejection, and show up like the next-level version of themselves.

You’ll hear how one single thought can impact how you feel, how you act, and ultimately what kind of results you create, both in recruiting and in life.

Chapters:

00:00 – Why mindset—not motivation—is the real key to success
02:00 – The problem with toxic positivity and fake confidence
04:15 – Why "just be positive" doesn't actually work
06:30 – The mindset model: how your thoughts shape your emotions and actions
08:00 – The power of awareness: recognizing what you’re actually thinking
10:00 – Two athletes. One rejection. Two totally different outcomes
13:00 – How to create belief that feels real (not fake or forced)
15:30 – Emotional responsibility: owning your reaction without shame
18:00 – The difference between “delusional” belief and aligned belief
20:00 – Why most athletes sabotage themselves after things get hard
23:00 – Final thoughts + how to shift your story starting today

The Recruit Ready Intensive is our signature 1:1 program designed to help your athlete build confidence, clarify her next steps, and walk away with a clear recruiting game plan. For a limited time, enrollment includes a FREE pro highlight reel from Lumen Highlights ($200 value). Tap the link in the show notes to get started.

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P.S. If you’re an athlete with big goals, a parent who wants to support the journey, or a coach who cares deeply about your players, this podcast was made for you. Hit subscribe and come grow with us.