Shownotes

• 4 Sacred rituals to enhance your relationship

• How to break down the facade of perfection and replace it with what’s real

• Why inspiration is always supported by action

• Essential things you need in order to develop your partnership

• Important ground rules for safe communication 

• 5 Core sexual skills to unlock your erotic abilities 

 Here to download your FREE step-by-step guide to all 4 relationship rituals I shared in this podcast!

Bio

Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe. 

Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. 

Layla’s programs have taught over 12,500 women, men and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness.

Layla has shared her work with over 150 million people and 500,000+ subscribers through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. Her top-rated podcast, This Tantric Life, has reached over 1.3 million downloads. 

Timestamps

00:00:43 - Introduction

00:01:27 - The 4 types of rituals that can enhance your relationship

00:01:49 - What does sacred union mean?

00:03:08 - What exactly is a ritual?

00:03:48 - The way you look at your partnership matters

00:04:33 - Who Layla used to compare herself to when she was dating

00:05:54 - When you compare yourself to perfection, you’ll always fall short

00:06:52 - There is no perfect man on this planet

00:08:22 - How to break down perfect and replace it with what’s real

00:09:17 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:10:56 - Most spiritual traditions have their own version of sacred union

00:13:18 - Inspiration is always supported by action

00:15:02 - We’re not taught rituals for getting the most out of our relationship

00:17:02 - 4 Essential things you need to develop your partnership

00:17:38 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples

00:18:20 - Ritual #1: The gratitude ritual

00:20:51 - Ritual #2: The safe communication ritual

00:22:54 - Ground rules for the safe communication ritual

00:24:37 - Ritual #3: The intimacy ritual

00:24:42 - Discover your sexual and relational potential inside VITA™ Sacred Sexuality

00:27:43 - Ritual #4: The erotic ritual

00:29:09 - 5 Core sexual skills to unlock your erotic abilities 

00:33:27 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• Why 1+1=3 in love and relationships

• The 6 ingredients to build a lifetime of love

• Why attunement is one of the most powerful tools

• Dr. Nasserzadeh’s “soak together before you sink together” method

• How to show up with compassion even if you don’t understand someone

• Sexual harmony vs sexual chemistry

Bio

Building world peace, one relationship at a time is the mission of Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, a globally renowned and award-winning author, speaker and relationship expert. With a PhD in Social Psychology and specialization in the fields of human sexuality and relationships, Dr. Nasserzadeh has worked with a countless number of individuals, couples and organizational clients across 41 countries to enhance relational health and a sense of thriving at micro and macro levels. 

Dr. Nasserzadeh is a senior Accredited Member and a Registered Supervisor by the College of Sex and Relationship Therapists in the UK (COSRT) and a Sexuality Counselor and Approved Training provider by the American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). She is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist in California. 

Dr. Nasserzadeh has been a sought-after cultural advisor, speaker and expert facilitator at high profile events hosted by governmental organizations, UN Agencies, academic institutions and Fortune 500 companies. Her third book, Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love, is the result of her two-decade-long research on the status of thriving relationships and its key ingredients, namely: attraction, respect, trust, shared vision, compassion, and loving behaviors. Dr. Nasserzadeh’s work has been featured on NPR, the BBC, ABC, CNN and USA Today.

Timestamps

00:01:57 - Guest introduction

00:03:25 - Dr. Nasserzadeh’s responsibility and role as a relationship expert

00:06:53 - Our disillusion with love as a society

00:08:28 - Why Dr. Nasserzadeh says 1+1=3 in love

00:09:43 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:13:12 - The system of a partnership is greater than the sum of us

00:15:12 - If you don’t pay attention to the cracks, they become ledges

00:17:39 - How to be happy with what is instead of chasing dopamine

00:20:45 - Dr. Nasserzadeh’s concept of JOMO vs FOMO

00:23:02 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 

00:26:06 - The 6 ingredients to build a lifetime of love

00:30:38 - Dr. Nasserzadeh describes The Platinum Rule

00:32:59 - How to apply the 6 ingredients to your relationship

00:36:27 - Why it’s so important to cheer on your partner

00:38:07 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:39:16 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

00:40:25 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples

00:43:33 - The way you respect yourself is how others respect you

00:48:42 - Why attunement is one of the most powerful tools

00:55:08 - Trauma shifts your nervous system into hypervigilance

00:56:40 - Dr. Nasserzadeh’s “soak together before you sink together” method

01:01:38 - How to show up with compassion even if you don’t understand someone

01:04:06 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

01:05:40 - How to build trust with your partner

01:10:10 - Sexual harmony vs sexual chemistry

01:12:38 - Everyone deserves to be in the loving relationship they desire

01:18:56 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• Why we all need people who celebrate our full expression

• What Natalie’s first experience with cyberdildonics was like

• Why a dildo is still one of the most powerful sex toys

• How embodiment work is important for the future we’re moving towards

• Layla’s thoughts on VR pornography

• How to work on your resilience to change instead of trying to control reality

Bio

Natalie MacNeil is an Emmy Award-winning media entrepreneur, futurist, seer, ICF-credentialed business & leadership coach and the bestselling author of five books. Her multi-dimensional work helps visionaries and entrepreneurs create their brightest future through intuitive foresights, practical strategies and her Transformational Embodiment Method.

This powerful method blends several disciplines and modalities with her strategic Futuring process and Transformational Embodiment Coaching Method and is designed to bridge your present and your desired future.

Over the last 15 years, she’s guided more than one million people to become embodied leaders, envision and create their dream future and build extraordinary businesses that make an impactful difference in people's lives.

Learn more about Natalie’s work on her website.

Timestamps

00:01:35 - Guest introduction

00:05:48 - What is a constellation relationship?

00:07:45 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:10:06 - The fastest way to kill your desire and creativity

00:14:54 - How being hopeful is different than being naive

00:17:20 - We have a bright and bisexual future ahead of us

00:23:40 - We all need people who celebrate our full expression

00:25:39 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 

00:29:23 - Natalie’s first experience with cyberdildonics

00:31:54 - What was the first sex toy?

00:35:06 - Why a dildo is still one of the most powerful sex toys

00:36:22 - Enjoy MOOD™ Sex Magic

00:38:02 - Natalie and Layla stack MOOD Sex Magic™ and MOOD Euphoria™

00:42:28 - Natalie shares her experience with VR pornography

00:44:49 - Why embodiment work is so important for the future we’re moving towards

00:46:43 - Layla’s thoughts on VR pornography

00:50:49 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

00:51:58 - Discover your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples

00:54:53 - Why it’s important to build real human intimacy

00:56:07 - A lifetime without intimacy is no life at all

00:58:38 - Would you have sex with a robot?

01:05:16 - Instead of trying to control reality, work on your resilience to change

01:09:22 - Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

01:11:34 - AI fire round questions with Natalie

01:16:40 - AI will surpass us in emotional intelligence

01:20:40 - How to train your AI for your life

01:23:49 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• Why a spiritual practice is training for your entire life

• The truth that life happens to you, for you, through you and as you

• How Jess manages stressful situations

• The importance of looking for the lesson in everything

• Why the most glamorous thing of all is to feel the full spectrum of aliveness

• Jess’ Lineage of Lovers Philosophy

Bio

Jess Magic is a “heARTist”, a soul-stirring songstress, a ceremonialist and a muse for today’s generation of visionary leaders and change-makers.

As a transformational facilitator and musical storyteller, Jess creates compelling invitations for people to interact with life from an open heart. In a world where so many are longing for deeper levels of connection, authentic expression and intimacy, Jess uses her humor, music, movement practices and storytelling to effectively weave a "spell" of love and connection that reveals relatable aspects of the human experience that penetrate and crack open the hearts of those who are touched by her presence.

Jess weaves together like-minded communities from San Francisco to Bali and beyond, offering her virtual Free Your Voice programs, Permission retreats, Gospel of Love Brunches and Soul Salons.

Her work has been seen in The New York Times and The London Sunday Times and has supported thousands of men and women from all walks of life in overcoming the shame, fear, and self-judgment that have inhibited their ability to discover, experience and express their feelings, their creative expression and their capacity to create intimacy with themselves and others. Her signature saying is “We don’t sing to be good. We sing to be free." 

Learn more about Jess’ work on her ⁠website⁠.

Timestamps

00:02:03 - Guest introduction

00:04:57 - What does it mean to live life in ceremony?

00:06:58 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at ⁠LaylaMartin.com⁠

00:09:17 - A spiritual practice is training for your entire life

00:12:53 - Life happens to you, for you, through you and as you

00:15:20 - What would it look like if every day was a ceremony?

00:20:47 - Jess’ trick for managing stressful situations

00:22:53 - The opposite of trauma is play

00:26:42 - How resistance to challenges prolongs them

00:27:00 - Discover the ⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification⁠ 

00:31:32 - The importance of looking for the lesson in everything

00:36:25 - Learning to believe that life is trustworthy

00:39:40 - Discover ⁠MOOD™ Sexy Supplements⁠

00:40:49 - Get Layla’s free ⁠Orgasmic Breathwork Practice⁠ for deeper pleasure

00:41:58 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with ⁠Men’s Sexual Mastery⁠

00:46:25 - Trusting that anything can happen in life

00:49:57 - Why the most glamorous thing of all is to feel the full spectrum of aliveness

00:53:44 - Enjoy ⁠MOOD™ Sex Magic⁠

00:54:58 - Jess sings about MOOD Sex Magic

00:59:41 - How to measure your trauma healing

01:02:01 - How Jess learned to be such an exquisite placeholder for others

01:08:20 - Get Layla’s free ⁠Orgasmic Breathwork Practice⁠ for deeper pleasure

01:08:20 - Expand your pleasure potential with ⁠Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass⁠

01:09:54 - Jess’ Lineage of Lovers Philosophy

01:13:19 - The edges Jess is currently experiencing living her life in ceremony

01:17:33 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• How to create a Tantric partnership of epic magnitude

• The story of how Layla and Baback met

• How to heal your relational trauma so it doesn’t destroy your love

• The exact way Layla healed her relationship with the masculine

• Why the stories we tell ourselves are reflected back to us in a partnership

• Baback’s guidance to men on meeting the feminine sexually

Bio

Layla Martin is a visionary and thought leader who teaches on sexuality, relationships and self-love to people across the globe. 

Her devoted study of Tantra for 20+ years along with her sexuality, neuroscience and human biology studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. 

Layla’s programs have taught over 12,500 women, men and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness.

Layla has shared her work with over 150 million people and 500,000+ subscribers through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. Her top-rated podcast, This Tantric Life, has reached over 1.3 million downloads. 

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Dr. Baback Amen MD has a steadfast passion for holistic and integrative means of cultivating longevity and vitality, and has accumulated a depth of knowledge in the areas of physiological optimisation, biohacking, nutrition and targeted testing.

After graduating with honors from one of the premier medical schools in the Southern Hemisphere, Monash University, Dr. Amen became a board-certified anaesthesiologist, before undertaking further training in Longevity and Functional Medicine. In his private practice, he has led a multi-disciplinary team of health professionals to help guide multiple entrepreneurs, executives and high profile individuals to optimal health and function. His engaged, appreciative and loyal client base includes billionaires, Grammy Award winning music stars, and celebrated Hollywood actors.

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He has also been a devoted lifelong practitioner of the more esoteric and spiritual modalities of health promotion, such as meditation, breathwork, tantric and Taoist practices, and the ceremonial use of ancient plant medicines.

Timestamps

00:02:16 - Guest introduction

00:03:28 - The story of how Layla and Baback met

00:07:39 - Baback shares what Layla said that stopped him in his tracks

00:09:25 - Baback and Layla’s magical, 48-hour first date

00:09:48 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at ⁠LaylaMartin.com⁠

00:13:30 - Being ready for a partnership of epic magnitude

00:15:33 - How Layla healed her relationship to the masculine

00:18:50 - The importance of seeing each other in partnership

00:21:40 - Discover the ⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification⁠ 

00:23:53 - Layla’s transition from LA to Australia

00:25:23 - How Layla and Baback have approached their relational trauma

00:31:18 - Why you must follow what’s true in your heart

00:37:46 - The stories we tell ourselves are reflected back to us in a partnership

00:38:57 - Enjoy ⁠MOOD™ Sex Magic⁠

00:41:39 - Going all in with your partner

00:44:47-  Baback’s guidance to men on meeting the feminine sexually

00:48:31 - How to come into a place of unquestioning self-love

00:52:40 - A choiceless choice to dive into trauma

00:57:21 - Using your intention and free will to choose love instead of trauma

00:59:53 - Discover your deepest passion inside ⁠The Tantric Mastermind for Couples⁠

01:02:47 - The trauma is the lie

01:05:32 - The potency of Layla and Baback teaching together

01:08:00 - Layla and Baback discuss the magic of The Tantric Mastermind

01:10:28 - Get Layla’s free ⁠Epic Sex Guide⁠ for deeper pleasure

01:14:44 - Every couple has the capacity for mind-blowing sex

01:20:24 - Power is not a zero sum game

01:23:31 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• Miki’s biggest a-ha moment of life

• At what cost are we pushing ourselves as women?

• How to hold an expansive mindset with limited time

• Why the more we radiate our true essence, the more we can care for others 

• Why it’s so crucial to create something important in the world

• Miki’s biggest insights on how to build a brand

Bio

Miki Agrawal is a trailblazing entrepreneur, speaker and two-time bestselling author renowned for founding disruptive companies like TUSHY and THINX. A "Young Global Leader" recognized by the World Economic Forum and named one of Fast Company's "Most Creative People," Miki infuses her talks with two decades of boundary-pushing business experience, captivating audiences with her insights into innovative marketing, product development and business scaling. With a track record of building two nine-figure companies that disrupted two industries, Miki is now channeling her entrepreneurial spirit into her third venture, Hiro Technologies, aiming to solve the global plastic crisis with nature-inspired plastic eating mushrooms.

Connect with Miki at www.mikiagrawal.com and on Instagram at @mikiagrawal.

Timestamps

00:01:46 - Guest introduction

00:03:56 - How Miki’s upbringing led to her entrepreneurial journey

00:06:00 - Miki’s biggest a-ha moment of life

00:11:09 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at ⁠⁠LaylaMartin.com⁠⁠

00:12:18 - Miki shares her inspiration behind Thinx

00:15:35 - Layla and Miki’s early friendship

00:16:47 - Miki’s experience fighting the subway to advertise Thinx

00:18:35 - Discover the ⁠⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification⁠⁠ 

00:21:08 - At what cost are we pushing ourselves as women?

00:23:51 - Tushy is a beauty regimine

00:26:29 - Miki shares about ButtCon

00:29:18 - One of Layla’s favorite iconic memories

00:33:51 - Miki’s first experience with MDMA

00:37:00 - The profound synchronicity of Miki’s company, Hiro Diapers

00:42:27 - Women are returning on investment better than most male-led companies

00:43:08 - Discover ⁠⁠MOOD™ Sexy Supplements⁠⁠

00:44:18 - Get Layla’s free ⁠⁠Orgasmic Breathwork Practice⁠⁠ for deeper pleasure

00:45:27 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with ⁠⁠Men’s Sexual Mastery⁠⁠

00:51:27 - How to hold an expansive mindset with limited time

00:56:58 - The more we radiate our true essence, the more we can care for others 

01:00:56 - Expand your pleasure potential with ⁠⁠Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass⁠⁠

01:04:47 - Why it’s so crucial to create something important in the world

01:06:27 - Miki and Layla drink Sex Magic

01:09:28 - Miki’s biggest insights on how to build a brand

01:14:05 - Be outrageous and imaginative in your PR

01:22:51 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• What f**king like a goddess truly means

• How women’s emotions can change the planet

• Simple steps to take to start healing

• The difference between conscious and unconscious emotions

• What alexandra finds humbling about motherhood

• How to spot a good partner in the first interactions

Bio

Alexandra Roxo is an artist, bestselling author of F*ck Like a Goddess, transformational coach and teacher. She has been featured as a guest speaker on many renowned podcasts and onstage at numerous festivals and events worldwide and has also made multiple TV appearances, including two seasons of Netflix’s hit show, Too Hot to Handle. 

Alexandra’s work has been featured in the New York Times, Harper’s Bazaar, Vogue, The Guardian, Nylon and Playboy. 

Her latest book, Dare to Feel, is a journey and handbook to feeling and healing the heart, exploring how to work through common blocks to intimacy and passionate living through the power of deep feeling and embodiment. This book is a candid journey through teachings, stories, rituals, practices and poems that radically invite us into our hearts so we can feel empathy, compassion, deep intimacy and love.

Timestamps

00:02:15 - Guest introduction

00:04:11 - What does fucking like a goddess mean?

00:05:27 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:08:40 - What a split between your spirituality and sexuality feels like

00:11:00 - Spirit can exist alongside your body

00:15:28 - This is the opposite of shame

00:18:00 - Women’s emotions can change the planet

00:19:53 - Steps to take to start healing

00:21:56 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 

00:24:27 - Emotions are signatures of Goddess consciousness

00:27:39 - The difference between conscious and unconscious emotions

00:32:22 - Layla and Alexandra drink MOOD Sex Magic™

00:32:34 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:33:44 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

00:34:54 - Experience the romantic adventure of a lifetime inside The Tantric Mastermind

00:38:41 - What it feels like to truly receive from your teachers

00:40:57 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

00:46:52 - What alexandra finds humbling about motherhood

00:48:54 - How to stretch your smallest moments as a mom

00:50:45 - Spotting a good partner in the first interactions

00:52:18 - Alexandra describes a truly sacred union

00:54:25 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• Why pure play is so important in healing

• The importance of trusting the pace of your body

• A simple practice to make emotions conscious

• Why relational wounding is healed in relationship

• How to access your partner’s deepest magic

• What you can do to become more magnetic

Bio

Starielle Hope is a relationship and intimacy coach who specializes in working with people who have found success in their careers, but struggle to find the same success in relationships.

She grew up in a constant state of loneliness that she thought was normal because it was all she had ever known. After feeling terribly isolated because connecting with others didn’t come naturally to her, she experienced a wakeup call in her early 20s when I learned that, not only was this not normal, but she could actually learn how to connect more deeply with others just as she could learn any other skill. So she set out to reverse engineer connection and intimacy for herself. 

Along the way, she discovered that she has a unique talent for taking abstract emotional concepts and breaking them down into tangible, step-by-step processes that those who are more comfortable in their logical/rational minds (like Starielle) can understand and adopt.

Learning how to connect more deeply with others has improved her happiness and well-being more than anything else she’s ever done, and she absolutely loves sharing what she’s learned along the way.

Starielle has been doing this work for over a decade now and loves every minute of it. She currently shares the knowledge she’s gathered through one-on-one coaching and online courses and will be publishing her first book later this year.

Discover more of Starielle’s work and connect with her on her website.

Timestamps

00:02:01 - Guest introduction

00:03:55 - How Layla and Starielle first met

00:08:30 - Starielle shares a powerful example of magnetism from Layla’s birthday

00:09:40 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:10:28 - Why pure play is so important in healing

00:11:34 - Starielle shares about her personal growth path

00:13:05 - True play is the opposite of trauma

00:18:13 - Feeling your feelings allows you to sparkle

00:23:24 - The importance of trusting the pace of your body

00:23:49 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 

00:28:14 - Starielle shares a simple practice to make emotions conscious

00:34:00 - Relational wounding is healed in relationship

00:37:37 - 3 stages of dependence

00:43:11 - How to access your partner’s deepest magic

00:44:10 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:45:19 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

00:46:30 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery

00:49:13 - The different energies of anger

00:52:43 - Men are meant to be warriors

00:56:20 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

00:59:52 -  Why reading women’s signals is so important for men

01:05:50 - One of the biggest issues Starielle sees with men

01:09:15 - What you can do to become more magnetic

01:11:36 - Starielle shares her experience in VITA™ Coaching

01:15:10 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• Why spiritual connection and ritual are vital for full wellness

• The importance of connecting to your own personal root lineages

• How to honor your inner High Priestess

• The true source of the witch wound

• Why your High Priestess initiation is a spiral journey, not a destination

• How to know if you're operating from true love or delusion

Bio

Elayne Kalila Doughty, MA, MFT, is an ordained priestess and focalizer of the 13 Moon Mystery School and Rosa Mystica Mystery School. She’s been on a path of passionate service for the past thirty years, inspiring women around the world to unleash their leadership gifts and step into their full potential.  

She is the Dean and Founder of the Priestess Presence School of the Sacred Arts and + Temple which serves a sisterhood of over 100K women around the world. She trains, initiates and ordains women as modern day priestesses, ceremonialists and powerful feminine leaders in all walks of life and professions. She specializes in helping women tap into their deepest wisdom, enabling them to harness their own transformational power to be more effective and whole in every aspect of their lives.

She is the best selling co-author of The Sacred Call of the Ancient Priestess, and author of The Magdalene Rose Oracle. She is the host of The Red Podcast: A Place for Bold Inspired, Outrageously Courageous & Just a Tad Bit Naughty Women Leaders To Gather… to talk about all the things that are most important in our lives!

Timestamps

00:01:53 - Guest introduction

00:05:07 - Elayne Kalila takes listeners into the inner world of the High Priestess

00:07:37 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:08:24 - What are the faces of the goddess?

00:10:40 - Layla and Elayne Kalila explore the opening scene of Wonderwoman

00:13:50 - Why spiritual connection and ritual are vital for full wellness

00:16:13 - The specific position High Priestesses held in their cultures

00:20:42 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 

00:24:33 - The importance of connecting to your own personal root lineages

00:28:06 - Exploring the source of the witch wound

00:32:13 - Elayne Kalila’s theory on women in menopause

00:36:00 - How Layla used meditation as a liferaft for working with terror

00:41:21 - Unlocking your High Priestess initiation is a spiral journey, not a destination

00:44:03 - What exactly is the sisterhood wound?

00:47:37 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:48:47 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

00:49:54 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery

00:52:09 - The pathway of love

00:54:57 - Elayne Kalila shares the power of one of her Ayahuasca journeys

00:57:00 - Love is not one thing, it’s many things

01:02:55 - How do you know if you're operating from true love or delusion?

01:08:29 - Elayne Kalila and Layla drink SEX MAGIC™

01:09:48 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

01:16:43 - Elayne Kalila explores Mary Magdalene’s lineage vs the Magdalene collective consciousness

01:23:21 - How do you not get caught in your story as a High Priestess?

01:26:05 - How to honor your inner High Priestess

01:28:55 - Conclusion

Shownotes

• How Laurie stayed available to love as she aged

• Why Laurie and Michael believe couples are an endangered species

• The core teachings Laurie has learned from Tantra

• How Tantra gives you hotter sex AND deeper truth

• Exactly what an RBDSMT conversation is and how it can serve you

• How to practice consent in a sexy way

Bio

Laurie Handlers is the author of 2 international bestselling books, Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy and Sex & Happiness: It Gets Better with Age. She empowers people to fall deeply in love with themselves and their partners. An expert in the fields of sexuality, intimacy and relationships, Laurie has taught transformational workshops on topics ranging from releasing past emotional trauma, fearless communication and sacred sexuality since 1978.

Michael Gibson is a Certified Sex and Happiness Coach, the co-founder of the Academy for Men and creator of the Extraordinary Lovers Experience; a program that guides couples into long lasting conscious-relating to deepen intimacy, communication and connection. His Academy for Men’s Coaching Program trains men in the skills of presence, communication and exquisite touch, focusing on intimacy, pleasure and healing. Michael is known for the quote, “Consent: don’t have sex without it!”

Partners Michael and Laurie have also created an online community called Laurie Handlers' Inner Circle that serves its members through podcast interviews, online courses and monthly live calls, and offer relationship coaching, workshops and retreats on Extraordinary Love.

Timestamps

00:01:36 - Guest introduction

00:03:26 - The story of how Laurie and Michael met

00:06:28 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:07:40 - How Laurie stayed available to love as she aged

00:09:20 - Why older people need boundaries in a different way than younger people

00:12:45 - What allowed Michael to say yes to Laurie changing his life

00:15:21 - The stories women tell themselves that block them from opportunity

00:17:18 - Michael proposes to Laurie in a 5-star Port-a-Potty

00:18:45 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 

00:23:04 - What made Michael cry at his own wedding

00:25:30 - There is no expiration date on your highest dreams

00:27:44 - Why Laurie and Michael believe couples are an endangered species

00:31:18 - When Laurie knew she didn’t want to be in an open relationship any longer

00:35:28 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:36:37 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

00:37:49 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery

00:40:12 - Laurie shares her experience teaching sexuality in the 70’s

00:44:38 - The core teachings Laurie has learned from Tantra

00:48:49 - The Tantric tools Laurie has seen help other women and herself the most

00:54:06 - Layla talks about the foundational philosophy of Tantra

00:58:54 - Michael explains the saying “Welcome to your life”

01:01:55 - Tantra gives you hotter sex AND deeper truth

01:02:49 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

01:04:16 - How to practice consent in a sexy way

01:06:53 - Consent is the gift of choice

01:09:50 - Michael explains what an RBDSMT conversation is

01:13:04 - How Laurie and Michael’s RBDSMT conversation began

01:17:33 - The one thing Michael wants men to know

01:20:59 - Laurie’s top advice for women

01:23:54 - Michael and Laurie’s message to couples

01:27:32 - The Return to Love Game

01:29:28 - Conclusion