Ever catch yourself thinking, “I should’ve figured this out by now”? That’s not just self-doubt talking—that’s SHAME: Should Have Already Mastered Everything.

In this empowering episode of This Woman Can, Janice Sutherland breaks down the pressure so many Black women feel to have life completely “together” by midlife. From careers and confidence to technology and transitions, SHAME shows up everywhere—and it’s time to call it out.

Janice shares how this belief takes root in perfectionism, representation, and survival-driven success, and how to replace it with self-compassion, curiosity, and courage.

You’ll learn how to embrace being a beginner again, redefine mastery on your own terms, and remember that midlife isn’t a deadline, it’s your do-over.

Because you’re not here to master everything, you’re here to live everything.

Tune in, laugh a little, and leave lighter, wiser, and ready to evolve.

Ready to create your fearless future? Enroll in my self-paced program 50 Forward: Fearless Future - the step-by-step guide to designing your next chapter with clarity, confidence, and joy.

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I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success.

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What if the thing that turned your life upside down was actually clearing the way for something better?

In this episode of This Woman Can, Janice Sutherland shares powerful lessons from interviewing over 100 midlife women who’ve faced their share of storms and turned them into stunning comebacks. From health scares and career shake-ups to quiet “what now?” moments, these stories reveal how resilience, reflection, and a little community magic can transform any setback into a second act.

You’ll learn how to find purpose in the plot twists, rebuild your confidence, and reinvent your life on your own terms.

Ready to create your fearless future? Enroll in my self-paced program 50 Forward: Fearless Future - the step-by-step guide to designing your next chapter with clarity, confidence, and joy.

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I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success.

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Starting over doesn’t mean starting from scratch. In this episode of This Woman Can, Janice Sutherland shares how to reinvent yourself in midlife without losing the essence of who you are.

Discover how to blend your wisdom, quirks, and passions into a fulfilling second act and why your past is your greatest asset.

Ready to create your fearless future? Enroll in my self-paced program 50 Forward: Fearless Future - the step-by-step guide to designing your next chapter with clarity, confidence, and joy.

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I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success.

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In this episode, Janice explores why midlife women, especially professional Black women often fall into the habit of over-explaining themselves, and how breaking free from that cycle can unlock a new level of confidence and freedom.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Ready to create your fearless future? Enroll in my self-paced program 50 Forward: Fearless Future - the step-by-step guide to designing your next chapter with clarity, confidence, and joy.

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I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success.

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Are you tired of feeling like you always have to be “on,” proving your worth through endless busyness and achievement? In this episode of This Woman Can, Janice Sutherland gets real about hustle culture and why it’s time for midlife women especially professional Black women, to lay down the burden of constant proving.

We’ll explore:

Where the hustle mentality comes from (and why it’s so hard to shake)

The hidden costs of always pushing harder

Practical ways to reclaim rest, joy, and self-worth without guilt

How to redefine success on your own terms in midlife

If you’ve ever wondered what life could feel like without the pressure to always do more, this conversation is your permission slip. Tune in and start your journey toward freedom, peace, and living life unapologetically.

Ready to create your fearless future? Enroll in my self-paced program 50 Forward: Fearless Future - the step-by-step guide to designing your next chapter with clarity, confidence, and joy.

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I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success.

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What if the health challenge you’re facing isn’t the end of the road, but the beginning of a new one?

In this episode of This Woman Can, Janice explores how health scares, diagnoses, or unexpected body shifts after 50 can actually spark reinvention and growth. Drawing inspiration from Lady Abike Farley’s powerful story of resilience after a brain aneurysm, Janice shares practical tools to help you reframe setbacks, lean into community, and discover what your health journey might be teaching you.

In this episode you’ll learn:

How to see health challenges as turning points, not limitations

Journal prompts to uncover hidden lessons in your journey

Why community and support systems are key to resilience

Simple mindset shifts to treat your body with compassion, not criticism

If you’ve ever felt like your body betrayed you, this episode will help you see your challenges in a new light and inspire you to step into your next chapter with courage and clarity.

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I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success.

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This week on This Woman Can, I’m joined by the remarkable Lady Abike Farley, powerhouse entrepreneur, brain aneurysm survivor, and founder of the #100WomenStrong movement. Her story is a masterclass in resilience, community, and the beauty of starting over.

Lady Farley opens up about her journey from Wall Street to wellness, sharing how a health crisis reshaped her purpose. Together, we explore why women over 50 must reclaim their power, embrace self-acceptance, and lean into community support to thrive in midlife and beyond.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

The pivotal moment that shifted Lady Farley’s life and career

Why reinvention after 50 is both possible and powerful

The role of culture and tradition in shaping resilience

How women can find strength in sisterhood and mentorship

If you’ve ever wondered whether your “second act” can be your best act. this episode is your proof.

Connect with Lady Abike Farley:

Web:https://www.fpinetwork.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fpinetwork_llc/ 

Ready to step boldly into your own next chapter? Enroll in my self-paced program 50 Forward: Fearless Future and design a fearless, fabulous future today: https://www.janicesutherland.com/50-forward-fearless-future

I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success.

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If saying “no” makes you feel like you’re letting someone down, you’re not alone.

In this empowering episode of This Woman Can, Janice Sutherland breaks down why boundaries are essential for midlife women and how to set them without the guilt.

Learn how to recognize when you’re over-giving, communicate your needs clearly, and protect your time, energy, and joy.

Packed with real talk, relatable stories, and practical tips, this episode will help you reclaim your peace and your power.

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I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success.

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If you're feeling like joy has taken a back seat in your life, then read on!

In this episode of This Woman Can, Janice Sutherland explores the art of creating a “Joy List”, your personal blueprint for living with more pleasure, passion, and purpose in your second act.

- Discover why joy is essential (not optional) after 50,

- How to rediscover what truly lights you up, and

- Why it’s never too late to put yourself first.

Packed with real talk, laughter, and actionable steps, this episode is your permission slip to live unapologetically happy.

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I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success.

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What if the next chapter of your life doesn’t need a 5-year plan, just 5 seconds of courage?

In this episode, we throw perfection to the curb and talk about the real magic that happens when you act before you're ready.

Whether you're switching careers, moving countries, or finally launching that dream business, clarity often follows action, not the other way around.

Tune in for a pep talk that feels like a warm hug and a loving push.

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I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success.

Connect with Janice: