Thoughts in Worship
Message Magazine's Online Devotional for Wednesday, November 21, 2018
Audio Link: https://www.spreaker.com/user/reachmanyradio/thoughts-in-worship-11-21-2018
This is devotional thought number 21 in our devotional series, “The Protest is Not Over: Transformation is Key to Reformation.”
“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.” (Ephesians 5:22–27).
If Jesus is the Head of the church and gave all of His love, His life, and cleansing power through the holy Word so we can be presented, through the judgment with beauty and holiness, how must men and women relate in marriage? The true relationship between Jesus and the church is key to marital success. Full stop.
Submission is a taboo word to people who do not understand it in the Bible sense. In misogynistic society, where men objectify, subjugate, denigrate, over sexualize, and abuse women, it is no wonder potential wives have difficulty with the concept of submission. Due to some men’s pride, thirst for undue authority/power (I said undue), and unsanctified minds, it makes sense why Bible submission is not seen as a desirable virtue. The devil has made a mess of the thing, but God gives light for those who are willing to receive it.
Notice the first principle of submission in our theme text; and by the way, this comes on the heels of a sort of preamble to holiness and submission regarding God/human relations, marriage, parenting, and employer/employee relations. The first principle is the gift of God’s love and care through Christ, our divine Head. Almost counterintuitively, Jesus is depicted as the One who humbled Himself and gave to the the extreme, which actually (partially) qualifies Him to receive our submission, and to counsel us regarding submission in the human sphere. Godly husbands humbly surrender to God and give all, to the extreme for the benefit of their wives. These are not my words; I am just repeating them. This is the ideal. It is also ideal for wives to submit to God’s charge for them to submit to their own husband’s leadership. A man who is submitted to God is safe to submit to in matters of a practical and spiritual nature. This is God’s will. There are anomalies/interruptions in God’s order where Peter highlights men who do not follow God; in which cases, women are to submit inasmuch as they can do so without violating the law of God (1 Peter 3:1-6). Hopefully, an unholy man will see the consistent, holy lifestyle of his wife and repent of his wicked ways and be saved. That is his decision to make.
I am especially intrigued by one aspect of this submission principle. The Bible says that Jesus is the Head of the church, and husbands are head of their wives. Who then is the ultimate Head? Jesus. Jesus is the ultimate head of both the church and the family. He has given stewardship of the family to husbands, but not absolute. Husbands are not the bosses of their wives. But, get this: there is only one head of the Church. Remember, this whole discussion, while it has practical application in the various relationships I cited, is really about our relationship with God. While He has been kind enough to set a leadership model in place, which helps the church to function optimally, notice that...