Thoughts in Worship
Message Magazine's Online Devotional for Sunday, June 11, 2017
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This is devotional thought number seven, and final in our, “Purpose of Marriage” series.
Whether married or not, there is much for all of us to learn here, since marriage is a symbol of our relationship with God.
“For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven.” (Matthew 22:30).
“Wait! I thought God hated divorce. Why did Jesus say there won’t be marriage in heaven? After all I’ve been through with my spouse, you mean to tell me it’s all going to end when Jesus comes?”
For many of us, it’s a horrifying thought that we will no longer be married in heaven. Think about it. What if you are still in the honeymoon phase right before Jesus comes? What if you have invested 35 years of your life with one spouse, had miscarriages, wayward children, open heart surgery, death of a beloved spouse, etc? What then?
I’d share similar sentiments, except I see where God is going with this. Let me ask you a question: In our series, we briefly discussed the fact that the law of God, and the land says that the marriage commitment ends at death. This means that if, God forbid, your spouse dies, you are free to remarry and grow in the bonds of love. Let’s say this happens one or two times. You survive your spouse(s), Jesus comes, and all of you are saved. What then? Do you flip a coin to see who retains marital rights in heaven? Do you see the conundrum here? Heaven will not be a “Saint’s Housewives” reality show nightmare.
Notice that Jesus said we will be like the angels in heaven. Do you think the angels are dissatisfied with their lives? Before you get confused, the answer is, “No!” Angel life is great, and it will be even greater when we join them, and sin is forever eradicated.
Lest you begin to mourn the loss of your spouse prematurely, please do note what the Bible says: “But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.” (1 Corinthians 2:9). Eternity with God and our loved-ones will transcend our current experiences. We have no idea how sweet it will be, but if we take God at His word, we know it will be wonderful.
What’s the use, then? Why marry, if it’s all going to end one day? I am so glad you asked. You see, marriage is preparatory for eternity. There is no more effective tool at God’s disposal, to prepare frail humanity for sinless eternity than marriage. Marriage is a safe place for us to develop character, enjoy life, have companionship, experience love, and have a built-in system for handling life’s trials. God said it was not good for us to be alone (in this context); therefore, it is His way of giving us a foretaste of heaven. If you want a sneak peek of eternity with God, pray for a godly spouse, get married, and prepare for the kingdom together.
If eternity is better than good marriages, I absolutely cannot wait to experience it! By the way, angels are very good friends, so don’t worry, you will be able to have great relationships with your spouse in eternity. I am already planning to build a house and plant a vineyard right next to my wife so we can hang out together. If you think I’m joking, I’m not.—L. David Harris (www.DavidWritesaLot.com)