Thoughts in Worship
Message Magazine's Online Devotional for Monday, June 5, 2017
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This is devotional thought number one in our, “Purpose of Marriage” series.
Whether married or not, there is much for all of us to learn here, since marriage is a symbol of our relationship with God.
“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” (Genesis 2:18).
Could it be? Is it possible that one of the reasons so many marriages are in shambles is because some spouses don’t embrace God’s blessing of companionship? The Lord said that it was not good for the man, though a perfect man, to be alone. Far too often, our relationships belie the name. We sometimes move like singles when we should be relating. We move like one one person doing his or her own thing with another present doing the same. Our God ordained for us to become a solid union of two individuals who become a dynamo to personify His image to the world. It is not good for (married) men to be alone. His wife helps complete him.
What are some of the impediments to relationship in this context? How about a lack of communication as an example? Could it be that couples are alone in their marriages because they will not communicate the loves, joys, concerns, problems, disappointments, and the distance created becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy? Could it be that non-verbal communication of intimacy through tender touch, a listening ear, welcoming facial expressions, sympathetic hugs, and kind hearted gestures of service are routinely abandoned too? If so, imagine the distance this creates.
Get the picture here. God created a perfect world. When He was finished, and before He rested from His work, He formed a man in His image, with His own hands, and breathed His own essence into him. When the man came to life, he had the privilege of seeing and fully experiencing His Creator, one-on-one. After a short period that day, God put Adam to sleep and from him, created He a woman—his other self, only sweeter. She was just as perfect, just as powerful, just as ready to face the new world. When she came to life, and while Adam slept, she fully experienced her Creator, one-on-one. Are you getting this? When God awoke Adam and presented Eve to him, He recognized the miracle of her being his other self. He was amazed at the wonder of it all and was thereby enthralled. He was no longer alone. Eve was to be his eternal companion.
Thriving marriage relationships are based upon this model. Men and women must invest time with God as individuals every day, and when they come together, they each bring that dynamic experience to the table, with all its blessings. What he receives, he brings. What she receives, she brings. They move as a unit. They, with God, become a three-fold, braided cord that cannot be broken.
It’s not good for us to be alone in marriage. Why not give your spouse and your God the privilege of your undying love, trust, and relationship? If you do so, everybody wins!—L. David Harris (www.DavidWritesaLot.com)