Is your "extra mile" actually self-sabotage?

In Episode 15, Fikayo and I kick things off with a quick vent about why April Fools' Day feels like it’s lost its spark in 2026. But once the air is cleared, we dive straight into a heated debate: Do creatives overdeliver because they genuinely care, or because they don’t believe their work is enough?

From the pressure of Nigerian bargaining culture to the "freebie" trap that ruins your brand value, we’re breaking down why "just one more edit" may cost you more than just time.

In this episode of Three Is A Crowd, Emem and Fikayo tackle a topic that every creative in Nigeria has experienced at some point, creative licensing and idea theft.

But before getting into the serious conversation, the episode kicks off with some light banter about the chaotic reality of Lagos traffic. Emem shares her complicated relationship with it, how she absolutely hates being stuck in traffic but somehow also finds it weirdly comforting and part of the Lagos experience.

From there, the conversation dives into a bigger issue in the Nigerian creative space: Is creative licensing even real in Nigeria, or is it just a myth?

This week on Three Is A Crowd, Emem and Fikayo talk about something almost every creative experiences but rarely admits: the fear of posting your work.

Is creative block actually real, or are we just afraid of criticism?

From social media pile-ons to the way one bad comment can start a wave of negativity online, we unpack why so many creatives hesitate to share their ideas with the world. We also discuss internet culture, public “crash outs,” and why people react the way they do when the internet turns against them.

Plus, we start the episode with our thoughts on the newest Bridgerton episodes.

If you’ve ever delayed posting because you’re worried about what people will say, this conversation will feel very familiar.

This episode is a big one for us — our first guest on the show.

We sat down with Sorire to talk about her experience as an architect and a face model, and what those industries actually look like from the inside.

We started with her 10KM race on February 14th, what pushed her to run it and what that experience taught her about discipline and mindset.

Then we got into the viral video she posted about women on construction sites. The backlash. The conversations it sparked. And how that moment unexpectedly helped her build a community of women navigating male-dominated spaces.

If you’re interested in architecture, modeling, content creation, or building confidence in unconventional spaces, this conversation is for you.

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In this episode, we aren’t holding back. We’re diving deep into the uncomfortable truth: most creatives are underpaid not because they lack talent, but because they lack business structure.

We kick things off with some life updates, discussing the buzz around Vekee James’ pregnancy and whether we would love a destination wedding or not. But then, we get down to business. If you’ve ever struggled to set your prices, felt guilty for charging your worth, or felt like your "creative spark" is being dampened by a messy workflow, this episode is for you.

Is being multi-talented actually a flex… or is it overrated?

In this episode of Three Is A Crowd, Emem and Fikayo start with pure chaos from our first Out Of Office experience to the prank Emem pulled on Fikayo (yes, we’re still recovering). But then we get serious.

Today’s unpopular opinion: Being multi-talented is overrated.

Stop spreading yourself thin. It might be time to specialize.

Three Is A Crowd is a Nigerian podcast hosted by Emem and Fikayo where we unpack creative life, friendships, culture, and the uncomfortable truths nobody wants to say out loud.

Subscribe for honest conversations on the creative industry, navigating growth, and building a brand in Nigeria.

When IShowSpeed touched down in Lagos, Nigerians did what Nigerians do best, lost all composure.

From aggressive begging to embarrassing fan behavior, we had to ask the hard question: why does shame disappear when a celebrity shows up?

In this episode, we unpack Nigeria’s obsession with fame, why people feel entitled to celebrities’ money, and how excitement quickly turns into public embarrassment.We also lovingly (and firmly) beg our fellow Lagosians to calm down and have small shame.

Friendship and weddings? Yeah… dangerous combo. This episode started with a hot take, why we wouldn’t pick our friends as maid of honor and spiraled into a much-needed conversation about feedback, ego, and creative sensitivity. We unpack why creatives take feedback so personally, why tone matters more than people admit, and how “I’m just being honest” is often just bad delivery in disguise.If you’re a creative, a friend, or both… this episode might sting a little.

"Spectacle sells fast"— but at what cost? Emem and Fikayo are back to unpack the reality of being a creative in Nigeria today. We’re exploring the unspoken rule that you have to be "extra" to be noticed. From viral stunts to high-budget content, we’re asking: has the spectacle replaced the substance?

In our first episode of 2026, we’re taking a look back to move forward. We break down the most iconic moments in the Nigerian creative sector from 2025, celebrating the creators who pushed the boundaries and redefined the game.

Inside this episode:

A look back at the best of 2025 (The content, the creators, the shifts).

Our personal Top 5 moments of the year.

The 2026 "Stop Doing" list for Nigerian creatives.

Our vision and resolutions for this podcast in the new year.

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