Show Notes
How habits form: As human beings, we develop our neurobiology—which also starts the development of our identity—including good and bad habits. As we evolve, creatures with nervous systems developed a learning process called positive and negative reinforcements. We learn to do two things—to eat and not to be eaten. Our ancestors learned the basics to survive.
Default Mode Network: a network of brain regions discovered by Dr. Marc Raichle. When people think about themselves a lot, like regretting the things they did in the past or worrying about the future or crave, the Default Mode Network gets activated. It is a way for us to survive. Our negativity bias, and confirmation bias help us survive.
There's an anatomical connection between the conceptual sense of self and the experiential sense of self. The experiential part of the default mode network is anatomically connected to the hippocampus so there are memory connections. We attribute memories to strong emotional experiences like pain.
Seeking comfort and avoiding pain is in our subconscious. Overtime, it is who we are becoming. 95-98 percent of life is actual habits, and it's very adaptive. As we develop habits, it frees up our brain from relearning things, giving our brain the energy to learn new things.
Habits are not only behavior, but also personality. People can develop anxiety or worry as habits.
The thinking brain is not nearly as strong as our feeling body. We feel cravings and urges. An emotional state like anxiety is perpetuated through habitual mind states. Feeling of anxiety is not the habit itself, but anxiety can trigger worry thinking, which is a mental behavior.
People don't usually know that they have a certain mental habit. If they don't work with it as a habit, they're never gonna get out of it. Some people benefit from medication but everybody can benefit from learning how their mind works and working with their minds.
Awareness and mindfulness vs Negative Loop of Anxiety: Fear mechanism drives our fight or flight response. Anxiety is fear about the future. Worrying about the future makes thinking and planning go offline. One way to work with anxiety is from a mechanistic perspective.
Target habitual behavior. Habit change is all about reward value. If you want to change behavior, you have to change the reward value. Pay attention to habits we want to change. Know its reward value and make a better offer and alternative.
Be the master of your habits: 1. Map out the habit loops. 2. Pay attention to what results are not very rewarding, drip the reward value. 3. Bigger better offers we can compare.
Apps for your habits:
-unwinding anxiety app
-eat right now app
-craving to quit app
Psychedelics may help quiet down the Default Mode Network and might have some therapeutic potential for anxiety and depression.
Default Mode Network is a marker for flow.
The general concept is expansion versus contraction. Eperiment on things that make us feel the expansions or contractions: meditation, breath work, walking, hiking.