Thriving with The Bovinos!

Three years after her appearance on Thriving with the Bovinos, speech-language pathologist, RDI Consultant and author Linda K. Murphy returns to explore what’s next—including an exclusive first look at the Declarative Language Handbook, Volume Two (targeted for early 2027).

In this episode, Linda and the Bovinos break down why the most powerful evolution in communication is moving away from a "getting" mindset and stepping into a "giving" one to cultivate lasting trust and mutual growth.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Intention Over Wording: Why declarative language is never passive-aggressive when rooted in authentic connection.
• The 10-Minute Connection Practice: A simple, actionable strategy for parents and clinicians—make thoughtful comments, then pause and give space.
• Planting Seeds for Learning: Why slowing down builds long-term trust and opens the door for genuine self-discovery.
• Navigating Emotional Escalation: How to offer meaningful support during dysregulation using co-regulation, validation, and respectful silence.
• Understanding PDA: A compassionate, plain-language introduction to a persistent drive for autonomy, highlighting trusted organization PDA North America.
• The Power of Clinical Language: A look into research co-led by Dr. Anna Schwartz (presented at ASHA in 2023, with the formal manuscript currently in preparation for publication) showing how the words we use in clinical writing directly shape how people view the individuals we support.
• Reframing Expressive Pressure: Why you can't force communication, and where to place your energy instead.

Whether you're a parent, a BCBA, an SLP, or a clinician looking to deepen connection and trust, this conversation offers practical, compassionate frameworks you can implement immediately.

Resources & Links:

• Linda K. Murphy: Visit declarativelanguage.com or her practice, Peer Projects, in Beverly, Massachusetts.
• PDA Support: PDA North America

In this insightful episode, Brian and Kathryn explore practical strategies to overcome feelings of being stuck, emphasizing routines like the Miracle Morning, the importance of social connections, and small actionable steps to foster growth and resilience.

Keywords
self-improvement, unstuck, routines, mindfulness, gratitude, small steps, neuroplasticity, personal growth, mental health, motivation

Key Topics
The concept of feeling stuck and how to recognize it
The Miracle Morning SAVERS routine and its components
The role of social relationships in overcoming stuckness
Small actionable steps to create change
The importance of self-compassion and neuroplasticity

Takeaways
Practicing gratitude shifts focus from negative to positive.
Small, consistent actions lead to significant change over time.
Connecting with others reduces feelings of isolation.
Changing routines and environment can break monotony.
Self-compassion and patience are key in personal growth.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Getting Unstuck
00:58 Understanding Stuckness
04:03 The Miracle Morning Routine
09:35 Exploring the SAVERS Method
12:19 Identifying Monotony and Seeking Change
16:23 Practical Steps to Get Unstuck
17:59 The Importance of Relationships in Overcoming Stuckness
20:53 Recognizing and Acknowledging Feelings
25:29 The Power of Gratitude and Mindfulness
31:05 Taking Small Steps Towards Change
35:36 The Importance of Self-Compassion and Neuroplasticity
40:05 Finding What Lights You Up

In this episode, Brian and Kathryn reconnect after a six-month hiatus from their podcast, reflecting on their experiences during that time. They discuss themes of incubation, integration, and the importance of community and authenticity. The conversation explores the struggles of finding balance between ambition and contentment, the journey of self-discovery, and the significance of embracing one's true self. They also touch on spirituality, lightwork, and the challenges of making connections in adulthood. The episode concludes with a hopeful message about the unfolding story of life and the opportunities that lie ahead.

Chapters
00:00 Reconnecting and Reflecting on the Past Six Months
05:06 The Importance of Incubation and Integration
10:04 Struggles and Finding Meaning in Daily Life
14:44 Exploring Spirituality and Lightworking
19:48 Calling in Your Soul Family and Support Team
26:10 Dimming Our Light
29:43 Integration and Identity
33:50 Finding Balance in Life
37:10 Contentment vs. Growth
42:16 Connection and Common Humanity
45:07 Embracing the Unwritten Chapters

Keywords

thriving, burnout, balance, integration, community, spirituality, authenticity, personal growth, relationships, self-compassion

Deb is a psychic intuitive, telepathic, and claircognizant medical intuitive and metaphysical mentor with a list of many skills.  Deb is a law of attraction expert, and her life demonstrates her skills and the success of her methods. 

In this conversation, Deb shares her profound experiences with near-death experiences (NDEs) that transformed her understanding of life, consciousness, and spirituality. She discusses her background in a Christian Science family, her intuitive abilities, and the significant insights gained from her NDEs. Deb emphasizes the importance of consciousness, energy, and the law of attraction in shaping our reality. She explores the evolution of humanity towards telepathy and unity consciousness, and the secrets of the universe that she has uncovered through her experiences. The conversation concludes with reflections on the importance of vibration and the inevitability of success in our spiritual journeys.

Takeaways
-Deb's early life was shaped by her Christian Science upbringing, emphasizing mind over matter.
-Her first near-death experience provided profound insights into the nature of love and divine order.
-Consciousness is a primary force in the universe, influencing our reality and experiences.
-The law of attraction plays a crucial role in manifesting our desires and shaping our lives.
-Deb believes that humanity is evolving towards telepathy and unity consciousness.
-She emphasizes that we are not here to escape life but to bring the divine into our experiences.
-The importance of understanding two forms of energy: electromagnetic and consciousness energy.
-Deb's experiences have led her to a deeper understanding of the interconnectedness of all beings.
-She advocates for a shift in how we perceive success, emphasizing happiness and fulfillment over traditional measures.
-Deb's journey illustrates the transformative power of near-death experiences in understanding life and existence.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Near-Death Experiences
02:19 Beliefs and Background Before the First Experience
04:28 The Dark Night of the Soul
06:48 The First Near-Death Experience
09:13 Insights Gained from the Experience
11:09 The Journey After the First Experience
13:39 The Second Near-Death Experience
15:56 Understanding Divine Order
18:15 The Role of Pleiadian Starseeds
20:39 Channeling and Psychic Abilities
22:57 Life Changes and New Beginnings
25:29 Reflections on Life and Death
28:14 Understanding Near-Death Experiences
28:27 The Law of Attraction and Its Impact
30:09 The Energy of Consciousness
32:40 Channeling and Higher Self
37:05 The Role of Alcoholism in Personal Transformation
42:36 Insights from Near-Death Experiences
46:48 The Science Behind Near-Death Experiences
50:07 The Secrets of the Universe Revealed
56:15 The Meaning of Life and Involution through Evolution
01:00:42 The Power of Perspective and Generational Change
01:01:34 Inevitability of Success and the Nature of Failure
01:04:15 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Healing
01:09:34 Metaphysical Mentoring and Personal Growth
01:16:09 The Future of Humanity: Telepathy and Unity Consciousness

In this conversation, Michele Barlock of Terra Christa shares her journey from a "mainstream" upbringing to becoming a holistic practitioner specializing in Reiki and Akashic Records. She discusses the importance of meeting people where they are in their spiritual journeys, the role of quantum physics in understanding energy, and the transformative power of Reiki. Michele emphasizes the significance of self-discovery, overcoming limiting beliefs, and the power of children learning self-empowerment tools early in life. She also shares inspiring client stories and the challenges of running a holistic business, while encouraging listeners to embrace their own spiritual paths.

Takeaways

-Michele emphasizes meeting people where they are in their spiritual journey.
-She believes everyone has a great bright light within them.
-Children today are more open to spiritual practices.
-Acceptance of past experiences is crucial for healing.
-Michele encourages not to give away personal power.
-The Akashic Records can provide insights into one's soul journey.
-Journaling can be a powerful tool for self-discovery.
-Michele shares a transformative client story about overcoming trauma.
-She highlights the importance of self-care and setting boundaries.
-Michele believes in the power of community and connection in spiritual growth.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Michele Barlock and Her Journey
05:17 The Importance of Meeting People Where They Are
09:57 Intuition and the Power of Connection
15:22 Children as Teachers in Spirituality
21:00 Facilitating Akashic Record Readings
32:07 The Nature of Guidance
40:44 The Process of Acceptance
46:26 Tools for Self-Care
51:15 Transformative Client Stories
56:51 Building a Holistic Community
01:04:56 winning-elevation-111355.mp3

Learn more about Michele at: westtrailmassage.com/energy-healers and terrachrista.com

In this inspiring episode of Thriving with the Bovinos, Brian and Kathryn open up about their family’s very first year of homeschooling. From navigating legal requirements to creating a thriving, values-driven learning environment, they share the real, unfiltered journey—challenges and all.

They dive into the why behind their decision, how homeschooling stacks up against public school, and what they’ve learned about time management, socialization, and staying grounded in their family values. You'll also hear how homeschooling has allowed their kids to explore their passions more deeply and engage meaningfully with the real world.

Whether you’re just curious, considering homeschooling, or already knee-deep in it, this episode offers honest insight, practical takeaways, and encouragement.

✨ Key Takeaways:

Legal homeschooling requirements vary by state

You can always return to traditional schooling if needed

Socialization can be richer in homeschooling than public school

Time management is a real (but manageable) hurdle

Real-world experiences are some of the best teachers

Homeschooling lets kids explore their interests more deeply

Community and support are essential

A values-driven education is possible and powerful

📚 Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Homeschooling Journey
00:16 Legal Requirements and Starting Homeschooling
01:29 Reasons for Choosing Homeschooling
06:33 Creating a Thriving Learning Environment
11:50 Overcoming Initial Resistance to Homeschooling
14:11 Challenges of Homeschooling and Time Management
19:45 Socialization in Homeschooling
24:07 Comparing Socialization: Homeschooling vs. Public School
24:56 Changing Perceptions of Homeschooling
29:59 Cultivating Entrepreneurial Spirit in Children
36:55 Creating a Flexible Learning Environment
44:45 Real-World Learning Experiences
52:42 Values-Driven Education

Resources:

Outschool

Miacademy

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In this episode, Vicky Westra the founder and CEO of Neuroshifts, opens up about her powerful journey as a mother of a child with autism. She reflects on the challenges of adoption, emotional struggles, and the importance of mindfulness and personal growth in her parenting experience. Vicky shares how finding her 'green zone' has been key to navigating her emotions, while also highlighting the essential role of community and empowerment for neurodiverse individuals. She discusses her shift from a corporate career to launching a coffee shop initiative that equips young adults on the autism spectrum with valuable job skills. Vicky’s mission to create a strong, supportive network for families continues to drive her work.

Key takeaways:

• Believing in your child’s potential is crucial for their growth.
  
  
• Parents must find their 'green zone' for emotional balance.
  
  
• Self-care is essential for parents to better support their children.
  
  
• Building a supportive community is vital for families of neurodiverse children.
  
  
• Mindfulness can help manage stress and anxiety in the face of challenges.
  
  
• Adoption presents unique hurdles that require resilience and patience.
  
  
• Creating empowering environments supports the growth of neurodiverse individuals.
  
  
• Faith, intention, and personal growth are at the core of Vicky’s journey.
  
  
• Parents should focus on what they can control in their child’s development.
  
  
• Gabby’s progress is a testament to the incredible potential of those with autism.
  
  

For more information, reach out to Vicky at https://www.neuro-shifts.org/.

In this powerful episode, Machelle Lee takes us on a journey of resilience, transformation, and entrepreneurship. From discovering yoga during pregnancy to overcoming depression, Machelle shares how the practice not only changed her life but also led her to become a dedicated yoga teacher and business owner.  

She unveils the fascinating history of 'The Newberry' building, now a thriving wellness hub, and how she turned it into a space for healing, growth, and community. Dive deep into the world of yin yoga as Machelle breaks down the science of fascia, the mind-body connection, and the profound emotional release that comes with the practice.  

But the path hasn’t been easy—Machelle opens up about the real struggles of running a wellness center, navigating social media distractions, and the daily discipline it takes to stay grounded. Whether you're a yogi, an entrepreneur, or someone seeking inspiration, this episode is packed with wisdom, authenticity, and motivation to help you align with your purpose.  

Tune in now and get ready to be inspired! 

00:00 Introduction and Warm Welcome
00:11 The Newberry Building: A Historical Gem
02:12 Discovering Yoga: A Personal Journey
03:46 The Healing Power of Yoga and Community
04:28 From Prenatal Classes to Yoga Teaching
06:39 Integrating Psychology and Yoga
23:54 The Birth of Yin Yoga
36:15 Correcting Trivia Night Mistakes
36:35 The Body Keeps the Score
37:58 Emotional Release Through Yoga
39:55 Ancient Wisdom and Modern Science
43:22 Challenges of Running a Wellness Business
45:17 Navigating Social Media as an Entrepreneur
47:51 Building a Wellness Center
52:21 Simple Practices for Reducing Stress
58:55 The Power of Mindfulness in Daily Life
01:02:04 Connecting with Michelle Lee

To learn more and connect with Machelle, visit rootsandriveryoga.com

 In this transformative episode, we welcome Gia Trionfo-Hooper, a Healing Channel, Teacher, Medium, and Spiritual Counselor, whose work bridges the physical, emotional, spiritual, and mental realms. With a rich background as a Certified Yoga Instructor, Reiki Master Teacher, and Psychology enthusiast, Gia shares her journey of awakening through motherhood and her passion for supporting families, children, and beings from all walks of life—animals included.

Gia dives into her practice of MultiDimensional Healing, channeling energies from Angelic, Intergalactic, and Elemental sources to transmute emotional wounds and release trauma. She explains how she uses Sound Healing, Channeled Artwork, and transformative symbols to help individuals uncover their inner light and true potential. Whether you're curious about prenatal and family yoga, birth portal work, or the power of creative expression, this episode offers profound insights into self-healing and expanding spiritual awareness.

Tune in for an enlightening conversation filled with wisdom, healing, and empowerment.

To learn more or connect with Gia, go to www.giamary.com

In this insightful episode, we delve into the world of equine therapy with Tina Legno, an expert in holistic horse training and healing. Tina shares her wisdom on the profound connection between horses and humans, emphasizing the importance of body language, balance, and grounding. From heartwarming client stories to the challenges of running an equine business, Tina's experiences highlight the transformative power of working with horses. Whether you're a horse enthusiast or new to the concept of equine therapy, this episode offers valuable lessons on mindfulness, healing, and the art of patience.

00:00 Braving the Cold: Morning Chores and Horse Care
00:36 Meet and Greet: Introducing Tina and Brian
00:42 Tech Troubles: Setting Up for the Session
01:21 Book Lovers: Sharing a Passion for Reading
02:44 Healing with Horses: An Introduction
03:08 Challenges of Horse Training and Balance
06:40 The Human-Horse Connection: Energy and Trust
10:10 The Art of Groundwork: Balance and Movement
30:14 The Dance of Harmony: Synchronizing with Horses
40:04 Grounding Techniques: Preparing for Connection
43:57 The Role of Whips in Horse Training
45:08 Healing Sessions with Horses
49:17 Challenges of Running a Horse Business
52:29 Client Success Stories
01:03:49 Daily Habits for Resilience
01:07:31 The Healing Power of Nature
01:17:07 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

To learn more or connect with Tina, visit tinalegno.com